1 Name: Don : 2013-02-08 10:04 ID:Qx7wO6hU [Del]
So...i didn't see a thread out of the other 902 like this.
My girlfriend is having major problems with stuff I don't want to say, I don't know how to make her happy (this is all im saying) she told me she wants to kill herself and...i just don't know how to help her can anyone really explain to me what I can do?
2 Name: sleepology !CHs4eVJ3O2 : 2013-02-08 14:18 ID:KVpBQDC9 [Del]
Dating problems thread. Why you fail so hard
3 Name: Hikari : 2013-02-08 16:25 ID:W3YMhjqJ [Del]
It's still personal though
4 Name: Arya. : 2013-02-08 17:09 ID:W5BjX6T2 [Del]
If you dont tell us her reason sorry but no one can help you.
I hate people who wants to end their life. They will die sooner or later. Just tell the girl to be happy and take her for a walk in a park. Feed the pigeons and make her happy, buy roses etc.
Then tell her this;
"If you die, you wont be able to see or feel again. Are you sure? Are you sure enough to stop smiling? Smiling suits you, so dont stop smiling. Live"
Though this can only help with the suicide part. Hope that helps.
5 Name: xyvaine : 2013-02-09 12:32 ID:MLlZFDdv [Del]
Whatever the problem is, NEVER tell her that everyone has problems like that. When you tell people that who are seriously going through issues, there's a huge chance that you'll just make everything that much worse. No one wants to hear that "everyone has those days" because then they'll start thinking about how useless they are. Things like that will fuel the fire, not put it out!
Second, make sure that she knows you freaking love her. Don't do it obnoxiously, but just every time context for it comes up, tell her. If she ever brings up the "I want to die" topic again, tell her how much that would destroy your life.
Are there any games, tv shows, or book series she likes a lot? Well none of them are over yet. You're not over yet. Everything she loves is here along with everything she hates. The two coexist.
Until this blows over, words not to use:
selfious
fault
excessive use of "I love you" because she'll think it's fake.
excessive use of "things will get better" or "tomorrow is another day"
Also, studies show that simple things like saying hello are more powerful when done in unconventional ways. Doing normal everyday things like that and making them slightly extraordinary is often more meaningful then doing big things in a normal way.
This information is based of personal experience with suicide and what I think would have helped me along with some stuff I've been learning in my psychology class. Like 2-4 said though, this is still generalized information. I might be able to give better advice if I knew whats going on. Still, I hope this helps.
