My problem is "telling lies."

Ever since I was small I've been telling lies (not every day or a lot, but I'm sure its above the limit) non-stop!

Only in here I can be honest because none of my friends know this site.

For exmple I make up a person and every day I tell to my friend what she is doing. Actually she is not a person, it was just a make up in my mind and it continued to grow. Like she is my neighbour, has a sister and a brother, the same age, from another country.

I cant stop once I start, and I've told a lot of big lies so I cant tell them the truth.

I broke promises and sweared on a thing that was unreal in the past. I can't stop and I'm scared that they will reject me ones I tell my friends that they are all lies. Because they are really BIG lies.

I'm a writer as a hobbyst and wrote one book. I dont know if my lying to people related to my hobby. I'm working on the second book of my serie.

Please help me, I need advices and counceiling.

Thank you.

Please someone.

If your really do lie a lot, I'm not sure how much to believe with regards to your story, but if I were you, I might try channelling your talent for fiction into more novels.

You never know, you could produce a bestseller.

Also don't make promises you can't keep and if you don't want to lie, then don't say anything.

Thank you, and what should I do about the once I told?

I cant lie on the net. Because none of my friends know this site, I'm free.

Compulsive lying is... A bit troublesome. Hard to deal yourself. I write and I stopped trying to write a contemporary fiction because it mixes up with my reality. I impulsively say "Oh and it happened to my friend and he (...)" without thinking.

It's hard to tell the truth of big lies. But take a moment. It truly caused problems to your friends other than making them believe you? Probably not. It will cause problems to them if you tell? Put that on account.

And take a time. Will you tell? It's worth telling? So step by step, tell that you have this compulsion of lying. Slowly... Don't try to spit it out for once and for all. Too much to absorb.

From myself, I never told a thing about my lies, but I stopped. I decided that I would stop. Make the division on you head and whenever you feel like talking about someone that doesn't exist, stop yourself. "This is not true. You made that up. Write it down."

I used to write the lies I wanted to tell. It's coming together on a story, but I'm not thinking of it anymore. I'm always spacing out thinking about the stories that I want to write. If I'm caught on that, I have trouble to get where I should be, the real world, so I stay quiet.

Btw, sometimes is harder to lie when you have to write. You can feel guilt about it. Of course, it's pretty easy if you don't care about it and just lie. No eye contact. Noooothing.

Last thing, don't mind if you don't want, do you have problems with you family?