So i have this girl who i am pretty good friends with that know have started to develop feelings for here, like i have started to feel that i like her more than a friend. The problem is we BARELEY get any chance to talk with each other in school and something that pisses me more off is that we arent in the same class unfortunately. Last year when i was pretty new at this school, we were in the same math class and we even had to sit next to each other since the teacher decided where everyone should sit. From the beginning i was really shy since i didn´t know anyone there but slowly i opened up myself and started to talk more and more and we became good friends. Know i feel like we have grown apart like we just dont seem like friends anymore, i mean we say hi to each other and that but thats just it..It was much more than that before.. So what i am saying is basically how can i fix this? I want to get much closer to her and hopefully ask her out on a date BUT i just dont know where to start.

I ws in the same position as you well actually I still am but nothing good has happend to me maybe you should just start to hang out more like help her with homework just spend time you first have to become closer cause if you part it will be like my situation :p

>>1 Believe me I know how you feel... I really like this girl, but we go to different schools and live miles away from each other. I know it's a big step, but you could try doing what I did. I asked her out on a date and now we seem to be going out. The only problem is that I hardly ever get any time alone with her. So if you got the money, ask her out during your holiday breaks or on week-ends. Don't go anywhere too posh though. I think she'll just appreciate spending time with you.

Thanks guys, really good comments! DN i know man i have thought about asking her out on a date but the thing is as i said in the thread i never get the chance to talk to her.. I have her number and Facebook but i just feel like it seems kinda "lame" or however u wanna call it to ask her out through that..But i guess i HAVE to do it that way since i barely see her. What do you think?

Seems as though you all are to far away from your counterparts. You have to make yourself known, Throw your feelings out there. You may get crushed, or huged with opened arms.If you dont take chances, You will never have what you want most. Although, sometimes, when you put your heart out there.. Someone shoves a dagger right through it. So, make yourself known, chase what you want. But, if you get hurt, Know it was all for a good reason.

Dude. Have a PARTY.

The kind of party depends on her personality, though :I What is she like? Is she down to Earth or up in the clouds? What kind of music does she/did she like? Does she like to "party big" or just "chill" ? That kind of thing.

Anyway, parties are a great excuse for you to talk to her, and they'll give you something to talk about later. Whether you go to one she's invited to or have your own is another worry, too.

And once you get more contact information and hang out with her a bit more, it won't be as tacky when you ask her out :O