List the characteristics of your perfect boyfriend or girlfriend.
Doesn't matter if your hetero or homosexual. If your bisexual, feel free to list both!

The goals are:

1) To help people figure out realize what a guy or a girl is looking for in a relationship so that they can be more prepared in the future.

2) To also help people realize what they want and what they need.

WARNING: People might/will list a lot of unrealistic stuff; please don't down them on it. They can list things that are reasonable, or they can say their ideal is more of a servant than a spouse. It's their choice.

(I didn't see this around, but maybe I wasn't looking hard enoug. *shrugs* If this happens to be a duplicate, please give me the url so I can bump it)


Ex. My ideal boyfriend would be someone with a great sense of humor, is moderately active and competitive. He'll listen to me even when I'm venting and more importantly, he'll be open and vent to me when he needs to instead of holding it in or only telling his buddies. I also wish for him to be pretty smart (not a genius). Just enough so that when I have a question on something, he already has the answers. I wish that he won't mind a party once a month, and I mean, a BIG party. He also doesn't mind having kids around eight years from now and doesn't mind doing volunteer work with me.
(NC-17 side: He has the stamina to go on for at least half an hour and can do it 4-5 times a week)

Physical features: Lean and muscular, black hair, pretty eyes
Race: Preferably Mexican or Asian
Cool Points to him if he has an accent.

To tell you the truth, I don't really have an ideal girl. I don't really enjoy being around people, and love isn't something I need. I'm much to shy to ask any girl out anyway :/ 17 and life is ok!

Well, for a bit of an otaku-minded individual like me, my ideal boyfriend would be having the attitude of Usui Takumi from Kaichou Wa Maid-Sama! (Anime/Manga)

To be precise: Mean at times because he knows I need a good knocking on the head since I tend to overwork myself. Possessive to a point (not abusively), where there is trust, but he shows his possessiveness through childish acts to get my attention. Has a level head; knows his stuff; plays the game and finishes it right. He never leaves a work and takes things seriously when it really matters. Makes me laugh (because I can't tell a good joke to save my life). We'd have fights, of course, but he'd be waiting on my doorstep with flowers as I'm heading out to ask him out on an arcade date to make up. He's stubborn and willful, but will listen to what I have to say. Surprises me, not just in gifts, but in little ways to make my day. Goes through hell and high water just to be with me. Has a cool composure, but a little sweet nothing breathed into his ear would make him feel the happiest there is. Oh! Loves music (That's a must!) and knows how to play an instrument.

Appearances? Tall (Taller than me, at least). I'm not that picky, but not that easy either. And I'd kill for a British accent. :)

>>2 I guess that's why you can't have an ideal girl: you haven't experienced getting to know ideal and not-so-ideal personalities. How about trying to talk to some people? It doesn't have to be girls or, if they are girls, with you having a motive to ask them out. Just talk, get to know how they think and stuff haha

>>3 I dunno. I guess you can say I just don't like other humans. But even I get lonely, you know? Maybe I need a happy, crazy girl to bring my emotions back to me. I seriously can't remember the last time I truly cared about someone.
Maybe I have an problem mentally, who knows

>>3 oh that British accent thing gave me a genuine laugh, thank you.

Some people find British accents sexy but for some reason, I'm just not all that into them.

>>3 I can't believe I forgot about possessive and love for music! DX

>>4 I'm in support of what you said before. Being 17 and life is a handful enough. If anything, I think what you're doing is smart. Focus more on academics and the future and when you're ready or find the right girl THEN experience the chaos & blessings a relationship brings.

>>6 well I finished school in November (I live in Australia) I am now working part time at the nearby comic/manga shop and life is ok, at best. I am a very quiet, withdrawn guy, so meeting people I will talk to is hard for me. I know one of my co-workers is interested in me, but I am hopeless at showing emotion.

" working parttime at the nearby comic/mangashop "

No. Life is NOT ok for you. It is Awesome. Get it straight. Anywayz.


So then.. wouldn't ur ideal person be your opposite? A bit demanding and outgoing. Someone who demands your attention and kind of inadvertently draws you out of your shell because of her personality and affection for you?

I'm with necrotic, I don't particularly enjoy people the only real kick i get out of them is when they are angry for no particular reason like those pet peeves that really anger them, I find that really funny. so I'm probably less than ideal for everyone but whatever. my Heart and it's emotions seem to be dysfunctional anyway.

Will watch anime with me, be weird with me, play video games with me, not be afraid to go into " Girl stores" when I shop and will eat my cooking, even if it is foreign and not the best ^-^

>>8 I guess you are right, maybe I should make the effort to try and talk to someone for once. I think I wouldn't mind meeting a girl like that.
>>9 I seriously saw every human being as mere playthings for my own enjoyment til a few months back. My favourite reaction from people is sadness, I really thought it was fun making people upset.

The guy neeeds to be funny, or have some sense of humor. I want him to protected me, but still realize I am stronger than I look. I want him to accept my sarcasm, teasing jokes, and slightly mean (no offense intended) comments. I want him to be super weird with me! :) Who will enjoy anime with me and cosplay with me. Most of all I want him to be kind and a man of God! ^-^

>>4 Mental problem? No, you don't. I've felt the same way before, like the feeling of 'love' felt foreign to me, and I was afraid I could never truly 'love' someone again. But I realized that it wasn't 'love' that was foreign to me, but it was me who tried to run away from it. I didn't find that 'love' in a guy/crush/lover but in my family and friends.
>>5 British accent rules!!!
>>6 Of course, it should be appropriate possessiveness. And with the right actions to make it apparent haha

Magnolia's right, NJ, focus on your studies and enjoy that teen life! Remember to make friends with common interests and treasure them. It's okay not to have a girl right now, unless you really like that girl ahaha

>>7>>8 *GASP* YOU.HAVE.AN.AWESOME.LIFE. MANGASHOOOOOP!!!!!

>>8 Yep yep, an opposite would be nice. She'll teach you to be more outgoing, NJ. Then again, we're only talking ideals, okay? Don't stalk outgoing girls just like that hahaha

>>9 Dysfunctional? Naw, it's not. I particularly like seeing people in chaos with each other (I have a bit of a borderline personality), but that shouldn't stop you from trying to know them beyond those angry times.

>>10 Oooh! I forgot about watching anime and playing games~!!! I LOVE games. Wow, Hanniechan, you cook? What have you cooked so far? ^^

>>11 Hmm, I actually like making people angry or annoyed. It's a trait that I minimize to specific (overly kind) people, and turn it full blast when I'm with my family haha it's not a good trait when the people don't understand who really are. :D

>>12 Amen there, sister! Yeah, a guy who wouldn't mind a mean comment here and there would be nice. I have a particularly mean side to me, and I wouldn't want him running off like that haha Ooh cosplay! What cosplays have you done Sara? ^^

>>13 Don't worry, I won't stalk anyone!! And working at a manga isn't really to awesome, but I can read whenever I am on break :) I don't actually have proper friends, just aquaintences that I hardly talk to.

>>14 THERE! SEE! You can read manga WHENEVER you're on break. That's like a dream job right there hahaha No proper friends? Then make proper friends! Talk to those acquaintances of yours... Are they people from the shop or around the neighborhood?

>>15 people from school. I hardly spoke to them when I was there, and now most have gone on to University courses 4 hours away, so I can't speak to them at all. I can't click with people at an emotional level so I find it hard to even say hi to my co-workers.

>>16 Oh don't worry. Emotional-level clicking will start once you get to the 'Do you like her/him?' stuff. Just say hi for now, greet them at the hallway or just smile in greeting. Smile at people more. It'll do wonders! You don't have to talk to them at once haha

My ideal boyfriend would be a bit taller than me, ticklish, understanding, open-minded. He'd be slightly mysterious looking at a 1st glance. Treats me like a princess, loving. Cute/handsome/slender body... Likes to tease me funnily. Romantic, calm-quiet type. Likes anime and Star Wars ^^; I'd be able to talk with him about anything if I needed someone to confide in. Gives me big hugs x3 Wears a unique cologne.. Manly in his own cute/funny way. A little protective, caring. Dark brown hair and dark brown eyes *w* no facial hair plz, keep that face clean n' smoooth.. Helps me out of my shy shell gradually. Wants my attention in return <3 He'd be able to confide in me if there's ever anything on his mind!! I'd always be open to comfort him.

>>18 Wow, ticklish huh? Haha Oh, I love a guy who has that certain scent, not too strong not too weak, but like newly showered scent haha So you're a Star Wars fan? nice ^^

>>19 yes, ticklish... Since I'm not ticklish, I'd win every tickle fight... >:D And I love the newly showered scent XD

>>20 You're not?! Anywhere at all?! That's awesome haha I'm ticklish when someone holds or like lightly touches my knees or thighs... Not many people know about it, so I'm safe, but when someone does (like my siblings and parents), it's super hell. Haha

Ideal, hm, well Ive not dated so many girls. But I there was a few that I liked. I think ideally, the type of girl I would look for is a girl who is genuinely intelligent not just some common sense. Would have to care about her own physical appearance, not just let herself go. Im a big anime fan, and I mean a real fan. Not a weaboo like most "Otaku" are. Id want a real otaku girl. Not one that follows the mainstream crud, or sticks solely to english dubs. Actually finds her own anime interests, instead of just loving the lame "kawaiiuguu" type. She would have to have goals in life, I wouldnt want to date a girl who just smokes pot and does drugs or follows whatever her group of friends do, I want a girl who can be a leader, for herself and others. And I would like her to have as much esteem as I do (Im pretty egotistical and in my own mind find myself a god among men.) So she would actually feel the need to do something with her life. I would really like it if we shared alot of interests outside of the animation and arts world. But as long as she isnt going to be some fake, I really wouldnt mind if she like anything I did at all. I just want a girl who can be open and honest, Id sooner her be brutally honest and call me out on things, than be all shy and hide it.

I guess how I see it, Im looking for a girl who is way to far out of my grasp, well, at least where I live, small town. But oh well, this isnt the "Girl you are trying to go after" thread.

Just the Ideal.

>>22 Well, it will help others to think about being closer to an ideal person. On average, whether it be a guy or a girl, we all want someone honest and open, and also likes the things we like. At least we'll get a consensus out of this, and reflect on how we are as a person. ^^

By the way, egotistical, really? God among men? Hahaha not many people like to say or admit those things so easily, that's cool.

And what is "kawaiiuguu" type? I'm a bit of an anime fan, but I've never heard of the word ^^

My ideal gal is one bubbly and crafty.
My ideal guy is quiet and intimate.

These are qualities I really enjoy, but I've been with lots of people who don't fall under these. You can't always rely on a checklist to pick a partner. Come on, hasn't anybody here watched Beauty and the Briefcase??

>>24 Yeah, a checklist isn't as reliable, but there's nothing really wrong with it. For me, a checklist reflects what and how we think of others. Besides, writing about it is fun, you know? just to get it out there ^^

>>23 Well yes, sadly, I think highly of myself. Im too selfish to think about suicide and such things. I guess that its not a bad thing, to always be optimistic, but I am a tad rude sometimes. (inferior humans) NO just kidding. But when I say "KawaiiUguu" I mean the people that take the anime world into real world, and try to act japanese or wapanese. Those, eh.

But I do appreciate your review of it all.

My ideal girl (Seems unrealistic to me, but eh) would be shy, but secretly funny, creative, down to Earth, honest to a fault, trusting, supportive, loves kids, and animals, open book to me, a book worm, and genuine.

>>11 Thaaat plus ur emotional issue are two very keen symptoms of a sociopath...

Yeahh... you should probably get that shit checked BEFORE starting a relationship.
I completely forgot about that option. You're in your late teens so of course it's unnatural to not have attractions. You should just wiki sociopath and see if the symptoms fit you. I swear to God I'm not insulting you. I'm pretty serious.

>>26 That's great! If being selfish gets you away from doing unhealthy things, then let yourself be selfish. Besides, it is often said that to love others, you must first love yourself, right? So yeah.. Haha wah! I'm so sorry that I just became an inferior human at that moment; I really didn't know that term. Thanks for the info! ^^

>>27 Well, that is the essence of 'ideal' types: they're not real. IT's a good reference for building your standards for a partner, but to have all those things in one person is just asking too much, I guess? I don't believe I can ever meet my ideal person, and if I do (miraculously), maybe I'll be too amazed or too afraid to be with them--because they're ideally perfect for us! Let's just hope we find someone near to that ideal person we have in mind and be happy with them ^^

>>28 Sociopath seems kind of too... evil for me haha I don't think he falls under that category; more like socially awkward, I guess? But then, we can never be too careful, right?

Check it out NJ, see if anything sticks to your situation. ^^

>>30 Oh yes, of course, sorry, I just like to keep the conversation going and at least say something about what they said. I'll stop then, since it's a bother haha ^^ no worries, I'm not offended at all

Bleh. No nevermind. I reread and atleast half ur comments were on topic. I think I'm just grouchy right now...
Carry on, ill check on this 24 hours from now.

>>32 No, it's okay. Thanks for reminding me about the real purpose of the thread, I was getting carried away haha okay then, see you in 24 hours

>>28 I checked it out, I am borderline between normal/sociopath. How delightful -_- I'm already seeing a psych for my depression issues, I'll talk to them about it.
>>29 Kumiko, I don't think it sounds to evil. Harsh, but not evil.
>>32 Sorry for getting off topic :/

Ideal girl.
Motherly, kind at heart, loves animals and down to earth and relaxed. One that would let me relax on her lap while she combs my hair.

As for appearance.
Natural, ginger og redish hair, freckles. and a soft voice.

the ideal boyfriend? hmm well i guess tall guys are cool. and they shouldn't make all the decisions. oh and they should have a great sense of humor. and they shouldn't be to much of a goody-two-shoes. and ear piercings are hot ^.^. ya i guess thats all i can think of.

A girl who is a Christian, cares about other people, and is funny.
I want someone who will take risks and take the hard road.
I want someone who can support me and who I can support.
And I want someone who loves anime!

someone that can make me smile just by being by my side,is down to earth and is never to busy to give a helping hand and is also artsy craftsy

just someone who show me, that I'm not trash... that he also really likes to be by my side...

Someone who is an artist and can make me laugh

Hmmm...Simply someone who is willing to stick with me till the end, has a good sense of humor, shares my ideals, and can help improve my flaws, and is willing to let me help improve their flaws.

He's someone that I can depend on. Even when things get rough between us, I can surely believe that everything will go back to the way it used to because we have trust for one another. I don't want a serious type of guy. I also like a guy who shares my ideals, my likes and dislikes, and such. The one who understands my flaws and slowly helps me improve them. Of course, he must have a good sense of humor. Someone who is willing to stick with me until the end. And, of course, easy to be with and is easy to understand.

To be honest I don't have an ideal boyfriend or girlfriend. I'd only value them as the best friend you could ever have. I'd want the person to be as loyal to me as I would be to them (very) and knows how to calm people down. Also a good sense of humor and decent music taste. I would hope he has just as many flaws as I do.

Honestly, I just want what you'd have with a close friend give or take some romantic aspects to it. But the ideal girlfriend for me would just be a bro, even though that's kind of ironic.

A trustworthy person with mysteries around him. Someone who attracts all sorts of adventures. He would be caring, though a tad blunt. And best of all, has trust issues. I don't mean like jealous of everyone, but someone who I have to figh to earn their trust.

Someone who needs me, I suppose.

For me the ideal boyfriend would be Kirito from Sword Art Online

>>45 I have to agree with you.

The girl I'm dating is my ideal girlfriend.

>>49 That one's a first. Good on ya~

Hell as long as she's cute and willing... i'm flexible on the cute

>>51 That kinda sounded desperate... but then, you could be like me and not care about physical appearances as much. But even I still have a vision of a "perfect" significant other..

Hm...He has to be funny, but knows when to be serious, loyal (to everyone he knows as well, but mostly to me), someone I can trust with anything I tell him, taller than me (although, that won't be too hard seeing as how I'm 5'1"...), someone who can put up with my attitude, smart, can be nice but not too nice, he'll cheer me up when I'm sad (he can also tell when I'm pretending to be happy so he can cheer me up), willing to watch anime with me, compliments me every so often to make me feel special, and someone who knows when to give me space.

In the looks department, basically, someone like Kurosaki Ichigo. XDD Well, I would prefer that, but anyone decent-looking enough. ^_^

a girl who can start and hold a decent conversation, doesn't mind my friends(they can be disrespectful at times but are mostly good people), knows and respects me for who i am and not what i can be, is trust worthy with valuable information, can cheer me up when i need it but knows when to give me space, nice but is willing to tell me what i need to hear(not always what i want to hear), is willing to try something new(most of my friends are unadventurous and don't do much of anything...), understands, respects and helps me to achieve my goals, pushes me to be a bit more outgoing but isn't commanding, and likes to debate for the fun of it. As for looks, tall enough so i don't feel like a freak next to her(i'm 6' 3" and only 14).

I don't have an ideal boyfriend because I haven't gone out with anyone before. I do have an ideal male friend though.

He asks how I'm doing, gentle and fragile towards me, always cracking jokes when necessary, treats me with respect as a person, and likes to get to know me. (Of course, I would do the same for him.) He asks many things out of the blue to start a conversation and is never ashamed or embarrassed to stand by his words.
Although he says he's a "nice person," there is something about him that makes him mysterious.

Well, I just got cheated on so this is kinda touchy but hmm.
I think my ideal 'guy friend' would have to be a guy who is funny and nice. I'd like it if this friend showed me he actually cared and we could hold conversations about anything.

I'd like it a lot if we had common interests too. I honestly think that if he was kind and caring, we could be good friends.

>>54 Shit ur tall, man...

>>56 I'm so sorry. :(

my ex and i broke up. stuffed happened. my ideal girlfriend is someone who accepts me for who i am. being a Nerd helps, smart, kind, cute, can get along with my friends. i just hope i can find her

>>13 Sorry, I couldn't reply in a while. Most of my cosplays are from Durarara and Death Note! :3 I am usually celty and L! :)

I need a boyfriend that is protective but not over barring. Someone who likes my goofy personality and doesn't mind that I'm not skinny.

I'm kinda fat so I don't judge people, I hope I can find a sweet guy.

Anyone who loves Zelda as much as me.

my ideal guy would be cool and reliable he should also be pretty strong (I don't want a pushover) he should have a temper that's better than mine and whenever I'm angry he could tell me to just chill and I'd be ok i also want him to be somewhat like myself (seems quiet but really just doesn't like many people and lives by 'if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all') and also protective. he must also be ok with my (sorta?) guy-ish attitude and like anime,manga,and videogames. I don't really care much about race i suppose brown eyes like myself,curly longish brown/black hair.

My thread needin some love. :'(

My ideal girl...hmm, well...I don't exactly have one. I just want her to be funny, to make me smile, considering I'm kinda strict. I want her to listen to me whenever I need to vent, and wouldn't laugh when I become emotional. I kinda wish she were a bit shorter than I am, so that whenever she makes small whines about height, I can bend down to her, saying that no matter how large or small she is, I'll always love her.
I also wish she could be romantic...and to not think that sex is part of romance. It can be...but, not for me.

But, mainly...I just want her to believe that beauty is on the inside, rather than the outside...

Hm, well since I'm bi I guess I should post both?
My ideal boyfriend: Dominant but caring, protective, taller than me and older,interested in the same things as me, a sweetheart but only for me.
My ideal girlfriend: She'd have to be nice and protective, height doesn't matter but she does need to be older than me. I would like her to be hyper active like myself so she can keep up.
Well, I guess my ideals for both genders are pretty much the same in the end. ^^;

>>67 that's what I mainly wanted to know. If you're bisexual do your ideals change because of gender, or are they still very similar?
So that answered my question for one person.. anybody else?

how would my ideal girlfriend would be ;;;
i don't know yet ,since i haven't still meet her ,but when i meet her i will understand at that moment .
as for my ideal boyfriend even though iam not interested to boys would be ren from nuest if i was interested in boys .http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OCrzomBx0Ig

My ideal boyfriend would be a thin nerd like myself who understands I don't like leaving the house and using our laptops next to each other and eating food counts as a date.

Ah yes, a tiny shut in animation nut...

>>69....Why would you say "If" and give an example??

A shy blonde girl who is a little tomboyish that plays the drums. Also very loving and intelligent so I can have conversations with her. Alas I doubt any of us will find our ideal person...

My perfect boyfriend...Well tall, thin, I don't ask he will actually be perfect, because I have a wide range of likes looks wise, I like guys that are visual kei though, like Jrockers, ah they are beautiful~ With piercings .> I cry instantly! I would like him to be kind and understanding ^^

I also like women, i love all around adorable women haha

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>>74 did it?
>>72 I'm surprised that you didn't say, "blonde haired, blue eyed and is a fan of nazism."

My ideal girlfriend is a kind of cold, looks like emotionless but she has problems that disturb her inside, and she need someone who can share her problems. I'm willing to be her first listener. She's kind of shy and timid person. Her race kind of East Asian people like Japanese, Chinese, or Korean but it's fine if she's Indonesian. She loves to cosplay and has an anime personality look like. And of course she the one who can give me a tolerance so we can understand each other.

my ideal girlfriend?, well.. the easygoing women is fit with me, a little tomboy is fine, talkactive, yeah smart to, caring attitude.
for Physical, tall, around 160-170 with long black hair. her race?, human :D,
ah damn.. i'm playing with my imagination..

>>75 -_____-

My ideal boyfriend?
He has to accept me, by that I mean all of me, which includes my friends and our odd explosions of randomness and energetic personalities no matter what happens. He has to be a trustful person who is loyal and loves humor, I don't care about appearances I just want him to love me for who I am and who I consider my family. I just hope that this isn't to much to ask.

My ideal boyfriend would have to love anime, being willing to deal with my randomness, want to go to Japan with me in the future, smart enough to take care of things, funny, fun as hell to be around, open minded, sweet, love music like Sum41 and SuG and Gazette and A7X and Fallout Boy and Spiv States and Kiryu, like animals too, be willing to deal with my anime like actions (no
matter how weird they get), and be willing to chill and do noting for hours... I don't care about looks as long as they have a beautiful personality! Plus they'd be drug around to conventions and stuff....

My ideal person can be a guy or girl. Black hair and green eyes is my aphrodisiac, so they definitely have to have that. They have to be funny and able to handle my slightly cruel sarcasm with good humor. I love animals, so they either have to love animals too or not mind having them around. I am a sucker for a musician, preferably a guitarist. I like a confident person who is direct and not extremely sensitive. I want someone to come with me when I go to parties and someone who will enjoy watching anime with me. I like a person with brains and common sense. I also want someone who will be romantic with me and love me for my many flaws.

Second thought, I don't feel like bringing that situation up again, so...

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Hrm.

I would prefer someone who is American/European. I don't mind other races as people, but I don't find them at all attractive; I have zero interest in anyone who clearly has African, Latino, or Asian descent. And again, I'm fine having friends of any race, sexuality, whatever - but I just can't find myself attracted to those outside of my own race. Even if they are sexy Asians, I can't see myself in a relationship with them :L

I'm more attracted to tall, lean guys with a bit of muscle but not too much (body-builders and short guys creep me out). Any hair color works for me, though I prefer it mid-length to long (short hair is gross on most people; guys seem to think they'll look good in it just because they're a guy and don't realize how fucking stupid they look with it). Past that, I don't really have any specific preferences. Though I admit, excessive acne bugs me out (even though I have it myself).

Personality wise, I prefer someone who is confident (but not overly so), good with animals, willing to lead without being controlling, understands that I don't make idle nor empty threats, is a bit kinky, doesn't try to get themselves in fights but doesn't completely avoid them, isn't religious (religion is a deal breaker; I can't handle Bible-pushers, and I couldn't live with someone who goes to church every/every other Sunday), and most of all, someone who doesn't overreact about my derpiness.

Yerp, I'm a derp, as most of you have seen on multiple occasions. I'm pretty smart, and I'm decently observant, but that doesn't change that I'm klutzy and miss less important things. I can't stand people who overreact about it. If it's related to a job or if it's something really important/a big occasion, I don't fuck up. However, I am in fact blonde and derpy when it comes to the little things; it gets annoying when people feel the need to point it out every time. Yes, I misread threads. Yes, I sometimes eavesdrop, mishear, and then relay the misheard message. Yes, I break a lot of dishes. Yes, I fall both up and down the stairs a lot.

It's not that big of a deal, IMO. It's just "me" and that's that. That aspect of me isn't changing anytime soon, darlings, and no matter how much you rant about it, you're not going to fix it. Unfortunately, SOME people enjoy dragging small situations on months after they have occurred as if they were major fiascos which ruined their lives... *coughcough*

Emotion wise, I wouldn't mind someone who is a little broken, but I can't handle melodramatic people nor people who absolutely no self-confidence. I also can't handle people who are so full of self-confidence that they don't see their own flaws. And to some of you, STFU, I'm well aware of my flaws, but I'm not so caught up on them that I can't see realistically. I don't feel the need to point out every bad thing I think about myself like some of you attention whores; that doesn't mean I have no such feelings.

I'd also like someone who takes that kind of shit into consideration. Just because I don't say I want attention doesn't mean that I don't. Just because I don't say I want to hang out doesn't mean that I don't. Just because I say I'm okay doesn't always mean that I am. But it's also annoying when guys read into every little thing. Okay, so what if I sat down on the couch more lazily than usual? That doesn't mean something really bad just happened, nor does it mean that you need to coax me into telling you about such bad thing that never happened. That kind of thing gets annoying fast.

I want my boyfriend to have friendgirls; I can't stand girlfriends who try to keep their boyfriends away from all their female friends. Just, who the fuck does that? He's not your property, and it's not your place to control his life. Certain things I want to have a say in, though - don't shave your head/dramatically change your appearance without asking, don't sign up for the military without warning me (you'll probably get dumped immediately since I don't like America/don't want to support America in the first place and don't really want any of my boyfriends running off and serving; I couldn't handle that kind of shit), and don't drink/do drugs without telling me.

And don't lie.
I get batshit nuts when people lie to me.
I don't fucking lie to my friends, and my boyfriend especially better not fucking lie to me unless he wants to be broken up with immediately.
Or wants to get a broken nose, because I can arrange that too.

TL;DR
I want a tall, lean Caucasian guy who with little to no acne who is generally confident, has a soft spot for fluffy things, likes both sweets and spicy food, doesn't lie, follows a few rules, and can put up with my personality. He has to be okay with me being derpy, and in return, I won't whine about his female friends. And he can't be overly religious :I

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Keep in mind, I want a deeper relationship, but I'm not going to give guys a second/third/fourth chance, because I'm just not that desperate. If you lie, you're out; yep, just like that. I'm a bitch that way. I'm not going to cling onto a guy. If he breaks up with me, so what? Move on. If I break up with him, so what? Move on.

The only way I would put a ton of effort into keeping a guy would be if he fit my interests perfectly and really helped me out with a ton of shit that was happening with my life.

My ideal girlfriend would be someone who likes some of the things I like, but not everything. She would be slightly shorter than me. She would be pretty (or at least what I think of as pretty). Someone who likes to listen to my stupid problems and someone who will tell me theirs. Someone who will love me and not lose interest. Honesty is important (considering my last girlfriend cheated on me). She would like to play video games with me and watch some anime. She would like to be around me as much as possible and would be playful and mischievous.

I'm in a relationship right now and the girl I just described is my current girlfriend. She's awesome and fun to be around, not to mention that she puts up with me and my busy college schedule. I feel lucky to have someone that is so compatible with me. So for all of you who are looking for that one person, KEEP LOOKING! It is definitely worth all the searching and waiting.

Simple but sweet :)

I change my mind. This guy. Minus his evil god stage...

I WANT TO MARRY THIS MAN

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ahaha well i got rejected by my ideal guy so..this is a touchy subject but i like reading and talking about these things XD
Hmm..i don't really have a type but i usually don't like guys who talk too often, i don't like guys who try to be all macho and manly and use gay as an insult or strut around posturing all the time. I like guys similar to me, musical, artistic and a deep thinker, taller then me but im 5'1 so thats not hard.

Im a sucker for guys who can play piano..or violin. or both. I also like guys who are quite spontaneous and random, are able to hold up any conversation and don't shy away from deep or emotional conversations. Also I'd like it if he's someone who would be proud of me, and be the kind to tell all his friends that we're dating. Can respect my own independence, doesn't always try to pay for me or buy me expensive presents. Has a sense of humour as well as a little bit of a dirty mind..although im sure most guys have that already. ahaha

Smart but not a showoff. I don't mind about race or anything like that, i guess asians tend to fit my ideal a little more though. I personally don't play video games but if its someone i love, i'd be happy to just sit on his bed and read a book while occasionally watching him play video games, or like have him teach me how to play. And most of all, someone i can trust explicitly and makes me feel like i want to improve for him.

My ideal guy?

Physically.. um, I think anyone presentable enough will do. Haha. Though of course it's always a plus if he's good-looking. And it's another plus if he can sing well/have some kind of musical talent. I don't know why, but I'm just a sucker for people with a pleasing voice/ awesome musical talent. :)
I also like guys with a lean, slightly muscular body. Buff guys kinda freak me out. And I want him with black hair. Or dark brown. Foreigners are okay, but I'd really prefer someone with the same nationality as I do, or at least have lived long enough in my country to know our culture,or else all my spontaneous jokes will go to waste. :(

I also want someone really open-minded, but lives with his own principles in life. Someone who can tolerate people who do not meet his expectations (I really hate it when someone is being called stupid just because of this). That's how my father is actually. And someone sensitive to others' feelings, not just mine. And of course I want someone with a great sense of humor. Someone really witty. He doesn't have to be a genius, but I guess he needs a certain amount of knowledge to keep up with the silly amount of useless info in my head (that I am likely to randomly spout at him), or answer my completely random questions with. :3 With all these, he's sure to get along well with my huge family. :)

Respect and trust are the foundations of any good relationship, and I would want ours to thrive on that as well. I also want him to take care of me and support me, and in return he lets me take care of him too. He can be macho all he wants in front of other people, but I want it differently when it's just the two of us.

I wouldn't mind him having hobbies/interests different from mine. I'm willing to try and learn what he likes doing as long as he does the same for me. I'd really like it if I can learn/experience something different through him. :)

Lastly (and most importantly), I want someone who brings out the best in me. ♥

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I have some idea about ideal boyfriend but at all i fall in love with someone who is not in my imagination <3

>>92...How about that in English? Because that didn't make a lick of sense.

>>93 lol

Ideal girlfriend:

-long hair (doesn't matter what color); preferably same height or a couple inches shorter (because I am short); nice body & cute curves (if theyre bigger than my hands then they are a waste); and last but the biggest thing, it has to be one of those perfect moment where we meet for the first time and she smiles at me for the first time and it's the most beautiful smile that I would have ever seen in my life.

-If anyone here has ever watched How I Met Your Mother, Victoria would be my ideal gf. If no one has watched that show then..

..I'd love her to be talkative and open minded, but not to the point where it'd be annoying because I am a reserved type of person. She'd be out going and would want to go out to different places, but also knows when to relax and take a break. She wouldn't mind singing out loud when she's happy because that's what I do around my house. She'd talk to me when there's something wrong, I wouldn't want her to hide anything from me. I want us to be best friends and understand each other perfectly. Inside jokes. Communication. She lives in the present not the past. I want to go to her if I ever had any problems and worries or a different perspective with anything. I'd like her to be a little sporty and watch NBA games with me every now and then. I want to wake up in the morning with a beautiful smile and a "Good morning" ..yeah

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long smooth black hair brown eyes perfectly curved body tuff caring likes to fight likes all animals diffrent than every one else

brown hair and eyes tougher than most smart smaller nice

Intelligent, but not arrogant. Has to have that balance between the two. I like my men the way I like my books: Well-read.

a woman who likes me too, and doesnt have a dick.

a guy who can accept all my flaws...

I girl who can spend some time with me and is determinated but don't cry because everything

>>100 Umm... Ran into a problem like that one have you?

Was there not a similar thread before? But I like these, they're interesting.

I would like to see someone who is wise and intelligent. Someone who uses varied vocabulary and to be quite honest, I'm quite the stickler for romance. Aka: sitting and reading a book together, no talking, that's fine.

Oh, and someone who knows where their priorities lie. I don't care if they're with their job, as long as it is what they are devouted to and passionate about. Why? Because, el oh el, I am. Sorry future husband.

Silent, not too tall or taller than me, wont get annoyed easily, hard to understand.
Oh my... I ACCIDENTALLY described my crush!!

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Well he is shorter than me but wathever I still like him :D

Silent, not too tall or taller than me, wont get annoyed easily, hard to understand.
Oh my... I ACCIDENTALLY described my crush!!

:O

Well he is shorter than me but wathever I still like him :D

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kind, can hold a conversation about anything, will lead me but won't boss me around, tall and thin, im not into mustles, i want thin and lean, and long hair, as long or longer than mine, who'll talk to me, and won't cheat me.

Perfect mate? Id say taller than me by a head, longest hair Ill take is to the cheek, preferrably blonde or unnatural hair color like white or blue, blue eyes, mischievouse, dorky, funny, loyal, not too clingy, has his OWN life and doesnt try to take over mine, smarter than me at the very least, and definitly as hyper as me!

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It doesn't matter what they are but rather who they are... Of course we as a human species are subjected to our own preferences in physicality and personality. I guess what I'd like to say is that the best part about an ideal partner is learning more about them then having them meet a certain résumé that we already have established.

My ideal guy would be someone who is as much of a otaku as I am. Someone who likes anime and playing video games. I would like for him to be in shape but not a complete muscle head. He should be taller then me with would not be a problem since I'm 5'5. I also like guys with long hair, but not long enough that he could put it into a pony tail. He would also have to like traveling to different places around the world. I would also prefer him to be Japanese or Korean, but that doesn't matter that much.

My ideal for a guy would be someone who can watch out for me and himself and someone who is an otaku like me. Someone who doesn't complain about my short height ,and doesn't make fun of what i wear and what songs i listen to. Who will not at least the change subject when we've already got a subject of talking.He would also have at least not take away my books when i`m reading. And he bug me when i`m stuck on something.

My ideal girlfriend would I guess have to be understanding and intelligent. As long as she has those it doesn't really matter what she looks likes, what she likes, or where she's from.

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>>117 eww... why did you have to touch my thread...

>>118 poor Magnolia :'(

I could honestly go on about how a "perfect" guy would be to me, and how much I love the guys from my anime/manga, but when it all comes down to it I really just want someone who I can lie down and forget the world with...I don't want to go out and walk on the beach at sunset just to have a "romantic" night, or go mountain climbing to have "fun"...I just want someone I can spend all day with every day and not get sick of xD
I'd also prefer if he was cute, in personality and look-wise...Not like he has to be super hot or anything. I also don't find fat guys attractive at all...not to be mean. And for my weird self, I'd LOVE a man if he could look good in a skirt. Not a kilt, a real, cute skit. And nothing else.
...
*goes to mental hospital*

my ideal guy would I guess be like a best friend with me and doesn't mind my crude remarks. I would hope he has a better temper than I do and whenever I get angry he could just tell me to chill or something -_-'.I guess he should like the same things that I do , and should be an otaku like me. It would be cool if he was from a different country and knew a different language. I guess he could be shy or be cool calm stoic and strong I really don't mind. And I don't really care about his height much.

Someone that makes me laugh and laughs a t my jokes, that is always friendly to me and talks with me. Call me a pervert but i'd like if she was good looking. Someone that not necessarily does the same things i do like watching anime or playing games, but that just likes me for what i am. (i'm male and heterosexual)

a girl that wouldn't mind about dirty jokes (im a pervert iguess) and someone that is beside me when im alone and doesn't mind when im having fun with other girl... not that im cheating..

A boy that would always make me laugh, understand me more than other people, is always loving and caring, strong to protect me and other people, and will always be my side. :)

I've never really thought of an ideal girlfriend before... I've always wanted to meet a girl that would be to fight me (not that I'm violent). Somebody I wouldn't mind going on an RPG adventure with... I don't typically do things like this, but somebody that would be willing to jump in to the deepest, darkest abyss to save me, just like I would do for her. Someone that has special skills/interests. I would also want to be with someone decently educated, and willing to learn new things. I'm not a grammar nazi, but I can't stand it when I get a text message, and I literally cannot interpret the meaning. A well-mannered girl with good tastes would make my day.
Look-wise, I guess someone that would wear pants or a dress rather than slutty miniskirts all the time. I'm not attractive at all, but I think I may be a little shallow. I'd probably be a little humiliated going out with someone taller than me. I think I prefer brunnetes over blondes. Black hair too. I think it's because I can't stand my own blonde hair... I'm not asking for a body-builder, but I can find too much weight to be unattractive... (raised from grave to continue typing...)
Anyway, somebody that can be romantic, but isn't childish. I would also need to meet another Christian. Someone that wouldn't cheat, or desert me. I want to make breakfast in bed for her... Play with her hair, things like that... Someone I can really relate to, and maybe even have wordless conversations with through developed understanding of one another. I don't like to talk all day, but I'm not completely antisocial. I guess, I just want to meet somebody that would lie down with me and forget the world. I don't want to be called all day at work. She'd have to be a little more patient than that. You could say I'm a little emo/hipster. I'm an ex-cutter, and I worry about whether or not she would be bothered by my scars. I'm not sure if this is the best description, but that's all I can think of...

Ideal huh...
Id like a cute girl, on the smaller side but not necessarily tiny, and she would have to be sweet, at least to me, she would need a good sense of humor to put up with my sarcasm, preferentially not boobylicious, and lastly id like her to be snuggly, cuddling is very important to me

These aren't in any particular order by the way:

1. Dependable
2. Good sense of humor
3. Likes anime but not the mainstream like Naruto or Bleach, he likes his own anime but I don't really want him to be watching hentai or whatever...
4. Intelligent and good at math
5. Likes to cook
6. Has actual goals in life and works hard to acheive them
7. Likes other things besides anime like Dr. Who, Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, Homestuck, that kind of stuff
8. Good self esteem
9. Does NOT do drugs or smoke. Drinking is okay but alcoholic level
10. A little perverted and dirty but not excessively and only for jokes
11. Shares my ideals
12. Open and honest
13. Really strange and willing to do random shit like randomly burst into show tunes and begin to skip gaily on a busy street
14. Has good taste in music and is NOT afraid to dance
15. Can point out my flaws but can point out his just as well
16. Loves me just the way I am
17. Trustworthy
18. Doesn’t get jealous when I’m around my other guy friends

Look wise I prefer skinny and tall boys (I'm pretty tall myself). Hair color is not necessarily an issue but I tend to like darker colors better (auburn-black) and I don't like it really to long, about the chin is probably what I can take. I don't really care what ethnic group but I do prefer white (like WHITE boys). Also I think accents and lisps are really sexy/adorable and if you can speak another language; instant turn on. I'd also like for him to be able to play an instrument, I don't really care what kind but I think musical knowledge is really cool.

I've never really had an ideal boyfriend in mind but if anything, I just want them to love me and tolerate my strange and sometimes over the top nature.
I want to be able to spill my heart out to them about my life and my darkest secret. I'm a really strange person and I have been through a lot of bad things. I have had suicidal thoughts passing through my mind on more than one occasion before but they're mostly gone now and I hope that they understands that.
I love books so I guess they won't mind if I insist on book shopping every now and then. I want a guy to get that I don't wear short skirts or short shorts and mainly wear pants and sometimes dresses when I'm in the mood or it's too hot.
Background, culture and religion don't matter much to me although I'd prefer someone that is Buddhist but otherwise as long as they still allow me to pray and go to the temple, it's fine. Well educated, I really cannot stand people who texts me and I have to spend more than ten minutes trying to figure out what the bloody thing means.
They have to have a good sense of humour as well and can stand my sometimes borderline cruel remarks. I can be very mean when I'm angry. Someone who doesn't care that I'm not that curved or attractive and that I really like people playing with my hair. Someone that I won't mind hugging or cuddling or holding hands with. Doesn't have to be overly romantic but still show at least a little bit of affection.
Oh and listens when I play the piano. Doesn't mind that I'm a writer and that I'm very passionate about it and will sometimes lock myself away for hours upon upon hours trying to get an idea down. IS NOT A HOMOPHOBE.
Help me practice play softball! I love softball!
I don't care about looks but I wouldn't mind if they were taller than me.

My Ideal Girl.

I go for beauty mixed with personality, and with the way I look I may never get that but it's fun to share anyways. I always pictured my perfect girlfriend only a few centimeters shorter then me (too short makes me feel weird for some reason.) Who is good with whatever passion/skillset they chose, and has a nice or "sexy" body. While at the same time, in public, or with me, or anywhere, she's herself, and not fake to anyone and of course...loves video games. A girl with all of the above, plus she'd come to me and want me to hold her when she was having troubles or sad, and we can argue and bicker over small silly things like who does dishes, who needs to pick up the mail, etc. We could wake up on rainy mornings, and take walks by the oceans side (so basically, she likes rain like me) and we could both sit down on Saturdays and have Anime marathons.

That's pretty much it for me.

If you ask me, I don't think that there is anything more important in a relationship than comfort. And by comfort, even though I'm a dude, I'm going to use the example 'being comfortable enough to let them see you without your makeup'.

Since I'm into guys, this is easier for me since the guys I'm generally interested in like videogames, much like myself. Hanging out and just being retarded together is practically natural, but on top of that, I really just want them to be funny. And I'm not going to pretend to be perfect and say that looks don't matter. Because even if it's a little shallow, I'm not gonna say no to a guy who has incredible abs ;)

It's sort of like that "attracted to your body, in love with your brain" kind of situation. But maybe that's just me!

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Not ugly but not a fashionista and she should be fun and funny. A nice personality but can be serious and at least a little above average smartness

>>130 Haha! I love that. XD Hmm.. My ideal boyfriend/girlfriend... Idk, really. I'd say... Tall. Kind. Good-looking would be nice. Dorks are cool XD. Takes control of a situatiom, but isn't CONTROLLING. And.... Has a good sense of humor. Oh! Also someone who isn't prejudice or arrogant. Ugh. =,= Sorry. Deadpanning. Lol. But Yeeeeeah. But, you know. The person you end up with in the end could be nothing at all like that! XD Ah. That's what I love about life. So interesting...

I have no idea, honestly.. but the most important would be that I feel like I can trust this person. I'd look for someone to talk with/to...but if I found someone, I'd probably friendzone him right away xD
I'm stubborn and head-strong, so NOT someone very controlling - that would just be fighting day in and day out.
Funny! He's got to be funny! And have a nice personality.. and I wouldn't say no to someone good-looking.
The best would be to find someone with matching hobbies! And I'd love it if he could cook. An otaku wouold be nice, too(hobbies).

Yea, something like that xD

The ideal boyfriend for me would be someone witty, funny, can play a sport, can play an instrument, can dance & hasa good personality. If he were good looking, then he gets plus points! XD

the ideal girlfreind for me would not be condacending. we could veiw each others as equals, and not overanalize everything that each other sais. she would be able to hold her own in a debate, but not go into bitch mode whenever we had conflicting interests. i would like her to be careing, but not overly attached, and attention neading. she would have confidence, and respect for herself and never doubt a promise.

i wish that more people where like this

I kinda want a caring bad boy as a boyfriend, maybe then something exciting will happen in my life :D

What qualities would my ideal gal possess? The necessities are intelligence (enough so that I may respect her as my equal, doesn't have to have an enormous amount), an amicable personality (does not hate the world and its people, is made happy by the happiness of others, also has a great self esteem) and a strong reciprocal affection.
Beyond that I would consider things like attractiveness. While I don't like acknowledging it, I am attracted to a certain kind of physical form, (curvaceous that is to say)<(-_-')
I should like her to have a voice that is never grating, honestly I would be devastated if I ever could not stand listening to the one I love.
Obviously it would be splendid If she shared my interests, but in all honesty I would like her to have other interests as well so that I can enjoy learning about them as well.
Oh and one last necessity, I would not want to fall in love with someone with a drug, smoking, or alcohol habit. I feel I would be too consumed with worry for their well-being, and I loath second hand smoke.
Now this is not to say I could not fall in love with someone who doesn't fit all of these criteria, this is an ideal. there's also the fact that I still don't know some things about myself, so my ideals are always subject to change.
In conclusion, I hope you all find your ideal one, everyone deserves to be loved.

I already have a girlfriend, so I'll list her traits! ^^ Caring, loving, funny, easy-going, a little possessive, has a good sense of humor, understands me, likes what I like, knows exactly what to say to make me feel better, I can tell her any and everything, keeps me balanced. She's also beautiful and very fun to roleplay with. I love her so much!~ <3

I think for an ideal boyfriend, I would search for someone whose personality is opposite (from me), but also have same interest as mine. I would also like a boyfriend whose ideal and thinking match mine, so that we can have a good connection.

Someone who is able to forgive, trust, and tolerate me. I don't like to be doubted by my boyfriend. I like someone who is honest, fun, and dependable as a boyfriend. It would be nice if he can accept me for who I am (of course) without telling me to change something that he don't like, except if it's a bad things. Also, since I get worried easily, I would want him to be able to comfort me and make me feel relaxed with him. I also want to get enough attention from him. (Not overly, just enough to make me feel loved)

Phisically, I won't ask much but, well, who wouldn't want a cool-looking boyfriend? So if I ever got a cool one, of course it's better. (lol) But I won't really put it on top priority when I look for one, as long as I'm loved. xD
I wouldn't like someone who is smoking, using pierce etc. and tattoo. I don't know I just don't like it.

Oh and someone who can sing/play music would be nice. *v*

And last, he should be taller than me. ^^

That's my ideal boyfriend, but you know, in real life, they never happened as expected, and I also had fall in love with someone who's really off from this 'ideal boyfriend' list I wrote. So, I hope you all can find a happy relationship! (Hopefully me myself too ^^)

-I'm sorry for the long post and any grammatical errors I made-

As odd as it sounds, I'm usually more compatible with people who I can tease, argue, and compete with. I think a sense of humor is a pretty key factor, and someone I can be completely honest with is very important. We'd also need to have similar tastes in music and a few common interests, but enough different that she and I could share new things with each other. Intelligence is a really attractive feature, and I don't think I could end up with someone who was very dumb. And of course if they were really cute, that wouldn't be too much of an issue... c:

I normally go for cute, short, petite girls... but as long as they don't have a ton of piercings or bad teeth, I don't really have a "type".

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My ideal boyfriend would be someone who would listen to everything I say (even when I am saying pointless things) and someone who would love me for just being myself and not complain when I make mistakes. My ideal guy would sometimes ask me my advice (dont really care if he would take it though as long as he just cared what I thought.)He would have a great sense of humor and tease me if i did something wrong or tell me...
Ummm... I guess he would have to be good at everything im not (basically finances xD)cause otherwise we would go broke.
He would have to put up with my geekiness and sit through episodes and episodes of my fav animes (I would do the same with his geekiness as well :p).
All in all a great friend!
I dont care about looks as long as he isnt below 5'6 and bald or old :p
or really really fat...

My perfect boyfriend is tall, strong, and good looking! Yes I know it's short but I have to go to school. Stay Dollars my Friend!

Ideal girlfriend;
She's loyal
She's happy (too many suicidal girlfriends in the past)
She's sweet and kind
She likes hugging
She's talkative
She can love me back
Preferably she's also slender, not necessarily thin, just not fat.

Oooh, just realised; that's my girlfriend ^_^

My ideal love would be someone who can understand my way of thinking and love me for who I am. They would be able to play violin or piano, and would love everything that I love. I would need someone energetic like me, and who could keep up with me but they would also have to be lazy sometimes. Also, someone who isn't afraid to kill or get rid of insects and arachnids for me because of all my phobias.

Ideal Girlfriend:
Has sex before she's fucking 30

the perfect girl is someone who can adhere to my crazy desires like going out to 7-11 at 1am to get tacos. Apparently a turnoff for the other girls ive dated. The perfect girl is real cool, loyal, as well as cute. Being unattractive is not necessarily bad, its just that a perfect girl would be cute. Long haired, blue eyed girls that are of medium height are always nice. I have a thing for headstrong girls as well. Do girls like that even come around? No girls like that are around here, certainly, or at least that ive met.

This guy is truly my dream guy.
Appearance: Sexy, hot, colored eyes, TALL
Personality: kind, good listener, a little childish at times
(This guy is Mattie from Awkward I forgot his actually name but you can look him up on any search engine) 😍😊☺

>>150
>"colored eyes"

...is there such a thing as uncolored eyes? o-o

>>151 Blind people sometimes have white eyes.
But I think white is a color.

>>152 Is it? I always thought it was a shade or a tone or something.

>>153 yeah, white and black and all greys in between are tones and/or shades but not colours.

I think I have mine at the moment... She:
Is Kind
Is Passionate
Is Loving
Is Beautiful
Shares common interests with me
Shares her friends with me
Messages me whenever she can
If I could change anything about her, I would probably make her go to my school or make her have more time because she always seems to be busy and I never get to see her...

He has to be understanding, mature and someone I can relate to. It'd be awesome if he has a movie star face, but as long as he dresses averagely I can like him in that way. Most importantly understanding. I really can't stand the people who aren't. ^_^;

I'm not really the romance type to be honest. ^_^; Pft, what am I saying? People LITERALLY fear me. I don't even know what I did or do that makes them scared of me. ;~;

>>153 >>154 I bet you guys are the same kind of people that think Pluto shouldn't be a planet.

My ideal boyfriend/girlfriend wouldn't be so oppressive. S/he would let white be a color and Pluto be a planet if it wanted to be.

A guy who perseveres and pursues a passion.

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>>53 when I say colored eyes I mean eyes that aren't brown but hazel (like mine) or blue or green. This guy has "colored eyes"

Sorry last post was meant for >>151
>>53 Ichigo is HOT!!!!

ok... let's try this...
- smart
- not skinny (a girl without curves is like pants without pockets. you don't know where to put your hands)
- maybe a gamer girl
- Beauty not needed. (I really do care about the personality)
- wonderful eyes
- I want a girl I can talk to
- emotional
- she has to like to cuddle

I am a nerd, ok? I am looking for true love and not a model that doesn't love me.

I'm in a relationship, but here it goes.

Ideal boyfriend:

He would have to be someone I knew. Attractive, but nice under his charming demeanor. Dark brown or black mobby hair with peculiar eyes. Golden like mine, or soft browm, maybe even more strange like solid emerald green(like my friend Rabbit), or Red like Arc. I find different to be so alluring. Skinny, but active, some muscle but nothing that noticeable, at least enough to carry me. Stamina is a plus, I love to run around at amusements parks, and do crazy things. A reader, whether it's manga or not, an otaku would be amazing. Someone who won't hide things from me once we're close and loves hugs. Emotional isn't the best option, but he has to be ok with confiding in me with what he's thinking. Reserved and stoic, but also knows when to walk away. Someone who will love only me, and can handle the crazy adventure ahead.

Ideal Girlfriend:

Loving and kind, always there for me. Long soft hair I can run my hand through. Soft brown eyes. Skinny, but has some curves. Creative, and a total gamer. Otaku's are the best. I want a girl who isn't obsessed with how she looks. Someone who will just sprawl across the couch with me vegging out to our favorite anime. A girl who would sing the OP and EN to each anime as they play no matter how ridiculous we sound. Who will do pair cosplays with me and just be ourselves whenever we're together. Who will never be shy around me unless we're alone. (it's cute)Who will lay in bed with me wrapped in each others arms. We'd be sprawled across the bed like the dorks we are and everything would just be fun, right.

Yeah there it is. They are pretty much completely different, but yeah.

^

I honestly have no real premise for a physical appearences (just no body piercings lol).
But for me, i feel that i need to already friends with a girl, like i already have a connection with her. When it comes to dating, i want a girlfriend who will trust me, who's willing to see my needs but isn't afraid to voice hers and reach a compromise during any disagreement. I simply want her keep faith in me, and is willing to be intimate and rely on me to help her out and make her happy. That's quite simply what i want.

Be friends* lol mispells

I don't want to start off flirting with somebody, I want to know them otherwise first. I want to date someone who likes my personality and feels like once you like someone's personality it makes their outward appearance more attractive, because that's how I think. I think it's incredibly attractive when it's intellectually stimulating to talk to someone. I also greatly prefer it if someone has friends other than me, but also trusts me with their personal issues from time to time, especially if I often do that for them.
Physically I'm not usually attracted to white men. I like it when white men have blond hair and brown eyes, but dark hair is my very favorite. I don't feel a romantic attraction to women unless I can be sure they feel it back, otherwise I would fall for every girl in town and get my heart broken all the time.

My ideal girl is one who i can have alot of fun with really, A girl who i can talk to for hours and still not get bored, she must have some of the same interest with me but not all, I want a girl that is somewhat smart so i can have intellegent conversation with,(Unlike most of the girls at my school who only talk about make-up or shopping) And she must be active(not overly active just not lazy) so we can play games outside together and have alot of fun, And she must love me just as much as i love her and she won't cheat on me (Those last two are very important)
That is the main things about the girl that i want Now for Bonues
I kinda have a thing for girls with ponytails so that would be totally awesome

Mine would be a girl who was into most of the same stuff as me, and is fun to be around but not like, overly social. Also, it'd be nice if she didn't have more friends than me, because I think it'd feel kinda weird if I had to hang out with her and her friends too often.

I'd want to be comfortable around her, which is something that might be hard for me; I feel really weird whenever I'm too close to a girl. Also, keeping eye contact for too long, that makes me feel weird too. Also, I tend to stare, and it's fucking embarrassing when they notice, so yeah.

...holy shit, I think I'm scared of girls.

Anyway, looks aren't really that important to me, I've crushed on...well, I wouldn't say ugly, but yeah - girls before. I generally value personality more, but I wouldn't want her to be too fat, and I'd like it if she was shorter than me. Also long, dark hair would be fucking awesome.

I wouldn't want her to keep any secrets from me, that would really annoy me. I have this thing about being left out, and if she was going to be my girlfriend, I'd like it if she'd tell me anything and everything. I'm more of a listener than a talker, really, so yeah.

Also, and this is probably the most pathetically unrealistic thing I'd put on here, but it'd be cool if she was like, really patient and understanding with me. I kinda suck at most things, and I tend to make a fool of myself pretty often due to my assumptions or misunderstandings. I'm not dumb, I'm just kinda incredibly quiet and awkward, and I sometimes say stupid things without thinking, so yeah.

Okay, so that's me. Yep. Great.

for me I would have to say...
pretty much everything the above post said.
but...
I've found my ideal girl...
and it's not going as well as I'd like it to.
so I don't know.
p.s. I posted this to encourage people to find that ideal person to make sure thats what they wan't, good luck love seekers:)

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I forgot I even made this.

trust is a huge factor for me.

i don't think you can fully trust someone in a romantic relatioship

>>174 Ooo this is gonna open the floor to a great discussion.
Lay it on me!

I would say in relationship when looking for the 'perfect' boyfriend/girlfriend is that they have to be loyal, honest and have standard morals, just my opinion

>>176 yeah... the problem is what you are asking is too much,so it is kind of impossible

My standards haven't changed.

Someone who has interesting ideas and curiosities. Kind of like an adventurer of both mind and world mysteries. A passionate person who would also care about people close to them and respectful.

Someone that really loves me for what and who I am.
Someone that I can talk with.
Someone that makes funny jokes but can be serious too.
Someone that gives me love and I can give love to.
Someone that doesn't mind a quiet girl.
Someone that likes to play games and watch anime with me.

Someone with talent: i personally prefer guitarists
Play a sport: again personally basketball is good.
A good talker but also a good listener

a person who would understand that i can't love them if i'm not allowed to hate them as well. a person who can put up with my shit but also call me out on it. someone who can fight with me and love me whole. a person who can tell when i'm serious or trying to make a (crappy) joke. i want i person who wouldn't mind hurting lot getting hurt. that's all i got.

x

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Probably just a detached fuckbuddy tbh.

My ideal boyfriend would be...the leader type, kind, observative, mature, and somewhat a little bit cunning? Well the cunning part doesn't really matter. For some reason Izaya and Akashi images popped out when I'm thinking about my ideal boyfriend^^"

Even though it's said that Virgo's have high standards, I don't teally give a fuck who you are so long as you're chill and faithful with me and I'll be chill and faithful with you.

My perfect boyfriend would be intelligent, honest, faithful, good at cooking, sweet, funny, teasing, only a teeny bit possessive, not clingy, and would have to have a fair amount of common sense. He'd be fairly good-looking too, but that's not as big of a deal for me. He'd be pretty tall too, taller than me at least lol. It's hard being a tall girl since it seems like guys aren't into girls that are taller than them. Which reminds me, my perfect boyfriend would have to have a good sense of humility. It helps keep one's ego from getting too big.

Wait lemme revise my already perfect answer. My perfect girlfriend would be someone stupid so I could easily cheat on them without getting punished.

well for my perfect girlfriend, i prefer her to be kind hearted, somewhat smart yet clumsy, someone who will listen to you when you have problems and also relies on you when she have problems. lastly, she must be confident about herself, because if not, it feels like she is trying to become my ideal girl.

My partner already is perfect since I'm single =3

>>193 Asexual?

>>194 Exactly~

>>195 Interesting... So can I ask you incredibly invasive questions over the internet since you're the first asexual I've come across?

>>196 Yeah, I have no problem with that~

>>197
Sweet. Do you masturbate? And if you do, to what? Does being asexual pose problems in relationships, or have you never looked and don't plan on ever looking?
Can asexuals find other asexuals attractive?
Do you ever plan on having a family?

So many questins =3
Nope~
You mean in a romantic way? And no, I never looked for a partner and don't plan to do so~
I don't think so...
Nope~

>>199 Sounds pretty lonely.
Two more: how old are you and are you male or female?

>>200 A female.
And I don't think it's lonly cause you can still have friends and so on~
And as much as I know there are different kinds of asexuals. I think some can fall in love just without sexual feelings and so on~

A girl that wouldn't friendzone me would be nice.

>>201 Age?

My ideal boyfriend would be that he would love acting crazy in public, doesn't care what other people think and loves to smile a lot! He would be competitive and try his best in everything even if he fails at it. He would be loyal and would always cheer me up when I'm feeling blue, I want a boyfriend that is caring and kind to everybody including people that's mean to him (lol that's going to be hard xD) he would be open minded and tell me how he is feeling and doesn't try to say he is ok when he is not. Honesty is the best thing I look for in a boyfriend, he would be fine with me saying/doing crazy things when everybody else thinks I'm a freak (I would love it if he joins in ^^) he would encourage me if I feel like quitting. Of course I would love a boyfriend that will make jokes or at least try to make me laugh even if the joke wasn't funny (I would laugh due to the fact of him trying, in a good way ^^) to put it simple, I would say I would want a boyfriend that is very kind, loyal, respectful, and sweet ^^ (of course he would smile a lot lol xD) Well that's my ideal boyfriend haha, oh and for the appearance I really wouldn't care ^^

>>201
Being asexual means you're not sexually attracted to anyone. It means you don't feel any need to have sex with anyone.

Being aromantic means you're not romantically attracted to anyone. It means you don't fall in love with anyone.

If someone says "I'm asexual so I don't love anyone", what they are referring to is not being asexual but aromantic. There is a big difference between the two.

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My ideal type would be.... A guy who has a sweet side but tends to kinda not show it (?) He needs to be quite tall-I'm short- at least 178-185cm hahaha, I don't care what nationality he is, but I prefer Koreans....-3- I like a guy who knows how to play an instrument (Guitar ////O///)

Fuuuuck. I didnt even think of that. I need to add that to the list as well. Preferable an instruments that he cant play while sitting, so that i can sit next to him and listen.

A woman with a beautiful mind. Looks aren't everything to me:;true beauty is her smile, her quirks. A woman that knows what she wants in life. A creative woman. possibly a musical woman so i can do duets with her :D

If anything, I want a girlfriend/wife that is like my mother. Someone that loves unconditionally, is caring, is encouraging, is intelligent, is respectful, is tough, has good morals and values, and will not give up during stressful and hard times in life.

To every mother out there that has these attributes or more, you're the best thing any child can have and you are irreplaceable. Your children may not realize it now, but they will eventually. Thank you, moms all around the world.

I don't think you should just like people because they're perfect.. people can just fall in love with someone if they are really good friends they don't have to be perfect they just have to be someone that cares about you the same way you care about them... not everybody you like has to be perfect right? and I think that if you do find someone that you think is the perfect person for you, you might just end up becoming a stalker... but that's just my opinion not every body thinks the way I do.

I'm not sure what my ideal girlfriend would be...
Someone nice, for sure. Maybe someone who can balance well with my personality (I'm introverted and imaginative, so maybe an analytical extrovert would be fitting).

She's the first president of the United States of America.
Dominant but not controlling.
Strong Confident.
She lets me be weird and artistic.
Open minded
Looks like a dude.
Tells me what to do and stuff during sex.
I dunno what else.

>>213 female lol

I've often thought that it would be one who enjoys the company of the other. Nothing more. One might ask for an intelligent individual, an individual to be safe around, or an individual for sexual pleasure. I'd think that might be too much to ask for in a successful relationship. Do not fear being alone, and do not fear approaching those you wish to be with. If all is well, you should know, however, we often look the other way when the right person presents themselves.

I love all types of girls and am open to new experiences with any besides "those" girls you would find in my generation lately. Listening to sex songs, talking about sex all the time, always cussing, bad attitude, un-loyal, plays around with a lot of boys, etc.

I guess I'm more into the innocent, nice person type.

I just need someone that doesn't cheat and not controlled by media or people.

I guess I like lots of different types of guys...One that I can talk about music and intellectual things to. I guess talking in general. I don't like talking to people who make small talk and don't try to further the conversation. Funny guys, too. One that likes to travel. They don't necessarily have to have ALL of these characteristics, but if that were real I'd probably be really happy. XD

My ideal guy/girl would be someone who is exactly like me and just shares the same interests as me...Anime, games, and art. It's much easier to connect to someone that way. It would be a person who can give me an intellectual challenge, questioning my actions and philosophy behind things, b/c I love thinking about complex stuff~
And my sense of humor is sarcastic, and somewhat dark? Alot of people think Im weird, so I want an accepting person. I pretty much described the personality part.

I had to type this sh#t more then once because I do have a ideal type, but it's just difficult. I don't know. I can't really explain well.
F#ck it, imma try anyway.

My ideal type of significant other would be.....

Confident, straight forward, f#cking hilarious, supportive, strong mentally and physically.

Physical aspects would include but not limited to.....

Big. I like my women curvy. I like if she has "junk in her trunk". I like my men tall and wide. 
To be muscular is good, doesn't have to have a six-pack or some sh#t. Really beautiful eyes, I don't care if the face is like a model, but I don't mind a little of handsome. ;)
My two biggest must haves are colored eyes, I am a class a sucker for them. And second, broad shoulders. 

But guys, when I say I'm a sucker for eyes, I'm not bullsh#tting.. I really am.

>>220

MEN: Think of Ace, Marco, Kidd, Law (All from One Piece), and some Ichigo and Chad from Bleach, and some of that Johnny Depp, all the smoking hot guys from Fast And Furious and Avengers, oh, and a metric-f#ckton of Edward Kenway.

Yup, mix all of that in a bowl, bake it at 350 till gold and hot- there's my ideal type of guy.

WOMEN: Think of Robin and Bonny from One Piece, Rangiku and all other women who are older and wiser from Bleach (and from One Piece, too), add some curves, intelligence, and a metric-f#ckton of Bonny and Kidd from Assassins Creed.

Put all of that in a bowl with some cream, eggs, and milk, mix it, put in a ice cream maker, wait until creamy and cool- that's my ideal type of woman.

Ok, now for both. I am a human, as such, I have needs. Rated M x 1000 part coming up. My ideal type includes to last in bed for more then an hour, and lasting for a f#cking Olympic-level banging everyday. Told ya, rated M stuff.

Ok, ladies and gentleman, that concludes SEOSHI's Cooking Show for today, have fun and remember to take a 3000mg pain killer for when you can't walk anymore. Have a great day.

Speaking from a very fucked up mind pumped with hormones, I have an ideal boyfriend-that-won't last forever and the boyfriend that I'd want to marry.

The boyfriend-that-won't last forever or aka the one I just want to play with( Am I cruel?) must be handsome, quite muscular. I like guys who are quite on the dominant side like you know the ones in the cliche movies who push you to the wall? Confident guys I guess Hahahha. To further elaborate on my type of handsome, I like guys who have a strong sex appeal and who have the bad-ass type of eyes. I mean I just want to experience a hardcore french kiss. hahahah Call me crazy ^ ^

The ideal boyfriend that I'd want to marry is someone who is hardworking and who thinks thoroughly before he acts. Sweet guys are very ideal. Concerning the looks, as long as he's appealing to the eye, and healthy not too muscular and not too skinny. I like guys who are fun to be with and who are ready to listen, and whose pride is not too high. Guys who are understanding are very nice to be with and suggest a longer lasting relationship. Lastly, he must know his priorities ^ ^

Regarding the guys I just want to play with, it's just for experience. I mean it's not like you have to take it seriously.

hmm probably the ideal girlfriend for me is the innocent, not too shy, obedient(optional), supportive and horny. More like a slave come to think of it :/ but nah i will still treat her as my girlfriend

i know i'm not supposed to be judging, but i can't help but find a lot of these to be very disturbing...

anyways, my ideal bf would probably be more like a best friend who can see me romantically. someone who is aware of all my issues but is still able to respect me as a person. someone who can coddle and take care of me, but is still kind of strict with me like a parent (not in a weird way, though). needs to be smart, responsible and good with directions. a person who i can relate to and can connect with on equal terms. i want our relationship to be based on mutual trust and support, so we can continue to grow together. must have a sense of humor and not be an offensive turd. preferably taller than me (it's not hard, i swear) and dark hair. he also has to be someone nice and presentable (at least in front of my parents).

A boy who likes/plays music
The appareance doesn't matter
Humourous?
Positive
Likes cuddles!
Ticklish~
Be yourself, don't force yourself to be the things people list, this list is only my idea. ~

taller than me
can put up with my bullshit
at least a little bit dorky
i dont....really have an ideal image...just as long as i have a good time *shrug*

Able to put up with my mood swings lol,
Able to make me feel on top of the world,
Romantic,
Understanding

my ideal boyfriend doesn't have to look good,
it would be nice if he could make me laugh,
a bit understanding, i want to understand him and i want him to understand me,
a little crazy, so we can do funny things together,
he doesn't have to be talkative, but if he is, that's too no problem for me,
i want to be his other half, not just the person that is standing next to him, and i want him to be my other half!
that would be my ideal boyfriend :)

Personally, I'm not a romantic person, and I'm not superficial but I'm not going to say that looks don't matter.
To me, I'd like someone who has similar interests or is open-minded to my interests.
The most significant thing for me is confidence and certainty. A few insecurities is all right but I dislike people who put themselves down too much and let themselves get pushed over.

Apart from that, someone fun and has a higher than average sexual drive to match mine and same kinks I s'pose. Also, someone I can have fun and laugh with of course ^^

Well my minimal expectations boil down to two things I guess:
#1 Someone who can arouse me (so she minimally passes my expectations about appearance)
#2 Someone who I can develop with.

If we're talking about ideal, similar interests sound nice.

I guess my ideal would be my ex, only that they would be willing to deal with the distance for the next few years or willing to close the distance.

>>217 "I don't like talking to people who make small talk and don't try to further the conversation."

Wow, are you me?
Seriously, have we met?

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someone who can understand or take the time to understand

Someone that can take my sociopathy and sarcasm, and keep me evened out and not actually follow my initial ideas, since I have a penchant for extremism. Ideally, they could make me less of a hero with (mostly self-inflicted) bad publicity and more of someone generally accepted as having good intentions, but limited ability to understand emotional impacts.

Native American Men.






Fuck yea.

Ooooone more.

>>237He does look pretty hot lol.

Someone who will put up with my personality and ego

Dam right creepy the kind of thing that would scare my family as i walk her in on a rope with a ball gag she would be getting off on the vulgar language i didn't want to say as she meets my family for the first time

Someone who can support me and someone independent who i'm able to support.

Ofc it's my girlfriend..

Someone who won't tie me down !

Someone who can hold an argument/debate, not a pansy when it comes to rules, not too basic either, 'le~!

Yah. Four months later a random person just comes in and replies on a thread that no one will even reply to. Or maybe I wont sage this or whatevery thingy. Okay let me get to it.
My idea person would happy-go-lucky guy and likes to tease me a little to the extent where it is not annoying. Taller than me at least. Easily embarrased and ticklish. Has similiar values to me.
The End.
Super random.
Yay.
Im gonna stop.
Bye.
Girl.
Guy.
Blwahhh
Sorry.
Bye.
Ok
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*Gone*

>>246 lol, all cool, that's what happens in BBS-s.

Ideal girl:
Someone who can enjoy at least one of the following: movies, TV, video games, books with me.
Someone who is accepting of the various problems that can arise from genetic depression, and is willing to provide much needed comfort alongside that acceptance.
Not some Amazon who's twice as tall and three times as strong as me, but also not very fat. Average's good, so is skinny, anorexic is waaayy too far. Needs to have a pretty/visually pleasing face, and the smaller the rack the better. Long hair!
NOT a manipulative bitch. Minor violence (eg slapping when I start losing it) is fine, yandere-level or otherwise abusive is not.
Someone who can reliably tell me when they want me to take the initiative.
Someone who can accept sexy art as art and nothing more.
Not a hardcore druggie.
Someone who can take no as an answer.
Most importantly, someone who I feel safe telling my innermost secrets to.

My girl
-Respects my hobbies, interests, and beliefs.
-Someone willing to be with me without cheating.
-Needs to not be ugly, obviously. I ain't banging a hoe who I think is a failed product of mixing two sets of genes. Basically, the prettier the better. All this is subjective.
-Needs to have a brain for fuck's sake. I hate being around dumbass bitches. I find clever girls attractive.
-Witty and someone I can easily have casual banter with.
-Open-minded.
-Not stupidly or overly submissive. It would be no different from having a dog if she was.
-Is okay with sex before marriage. There's a difference between testing a man's patience and forcing someone to carry your burden of beliefs. I try to avoid strict Catholics.
-Someone who can trust me when I can't tell them certain things(white lies guys)
-Not kid immature but doesn't try too hard to always be serious. It's embarrassing.
-At least c cup bra size. A chopping board-flat chest will keep me forever flaccid.
-Someone who will 'dress up' for me, at least occasionally. Maid fetish, afterall.

-someone whos good at comunication
-nice and caring
-loves adventure
-acts childish sometimes
-funny and always smiling
-someone who loves and accepts me for who i am and doesn't try to change me
-trustworthy so i can tell everything buried in my heart to them
-someone who doesn't gossip, treat or say anything bad about anyone
-open to new ideas and experiences
-daring
-thoughtful
-doesn't have to be super smart
-someone who doesn't care about sex

Personality and such
-athletic
-funny
-stubborn
-smart
-trustworthy, maybe even jealous
-adventurous
-someone who takes control
-tall and muscular (but not fat)
-someone who shares his interests with me and who i can share my interests with

I gotta be honest...
This girl, THIS ONE (Konata Izumi) is the perfect girl for me ._.

Anime: Lucky Star

She's a talker and a listener, not much of traveller, enjoys being home or near home, but not letting herself go. She's honest and open with short black hair. A smile of hers can lift me up from my worries. If she is ever to feel down and if i were ever to see even one tear i would be there by her side as her man inclined to help her out through her plight. She's kind, not a bad word on sight. She respects. A sarcastic remark here and there, might sound mean, but i would know she cares. Serious, when it's time to get down. She's my girl an ideal far away..

My perfect girl would be funny, intelligent, and strong willed. Somebody that respects herself and is self confident but not selfish or overly vain. Oh, and competitive. Definitely competetive. A girl that can and will challenge me at anything. To be perfectly honest, Elizabeth Bennet from Pride and Prejudice is pretty close to my perfect girl.

My ideal person is someone who is open-minded and caring, with a respect for personal space. The person would be encouraging and doesn't necessarily need to make me laugh, but they certainly need a sense of humor or respect for it, because I'm a bit of comedian (though I may not seem so online, it's easier for me to tell jokes then to deliver them via text). This may sound a bit selfish, but I'd want the relationship open in the way that I'd be romantic with my (potential) spouse and...um..."active" with other people. And I'm not against my perfect person being "active" with other people either XD My expectations may be a little on the unrealistic side, but I can hold onto hope.

>>217 I feel the need to update mine (lol this is going to be so long).

Personality/Actions:
Well, I still definitely want someone I can talk to about lots of things. If we have dull conversations or can't talk about various things then it isn't fun. Even if I don't understand what the person is talking about I will make an effort and so should he. =) I think travelling is great, too, but I feel like my ideal boyfriend should definitely want to live in California. I really could never leave here. The ideal guy should be passionate about something, anything really. I really don't care what it is, it could even be fricking coin collecting, if they're passionate about it that's really hot! He should NOT try to change who I am and he should try to understand me. Likewise, he should NOT try to change himself to look better in front of someone like my family or friends. I should be able to trust him (not to cheat, but also trust him in the sense that I can tell him things/secrets). He should be able to make me laugh and he should also laugh at my lame jokes! He should watch the stuff I like with me no matter how stupid it may seem. Someone who will play board games with me and act silly. The ideal guy would also enjoy trying new things with me. Lol, kind of weird of me, but he should totally let me coddle him when he's sick. Someone who will give me good feedback/motivation/constructive criticism is great. I love honesty! Someone who makes me feel special/beautiful. Someone who brightens up my day when I think of them! I also enjoy guys who are sort of thoughtful in two ways: Of course, the obvious thoughtful way, where he thinks of you resulting in him doing something very sweet, but also the kind of thoughtful where he thinks about things like life much more in depth with detail (I guess that would be expressive???).

Physical features:
Well, here's why I get superficial. Since I like a wide variety of guys when it comes to looks, these qualities are not needed, but would be cool. Ideal eye color would be green or gray (or if blue, it has to be really interesting). Guys who look like Ashton Kutcher or Jim Morrison, which means they can look great in lots of different hairstyles XD. Beards are really hot, too. I don't mind if they don't have a beard, but somehow I've gradually gotten more and more attracted to guys with facial hair. Brown hair is really cute. =) Shaggy brown hair! Curly brown hair! Long brown hair! Brown hair is just cute. White guys <3 My biggest preference on here, would be exactly that. On the height scale, someone who is hopefully taller than me, but not necessarily by an inch. As long as you're taller than Taylor Swift (who's pretty fucking tall) then that's probably what I'd prefer. When it comes to weight I don't really mind as long as they are not super fat. Like maybe they could be a bit chubby, but I would prefer average and below. I don't like buff guys either, that's so gross to me. Lol, I want a boy who lives the lanky life! I think style of clothing also fits with physical attraction. That also varies. I like the average boy kind of style though. Plaid, T-shirts, hoodies. That's all pretty cool to me. Chill out clothing. Lol, as I said, I prefer lanky boys, b/c my ideal guy would also let me wear his clothes and I should be able to fit into the clothes without them being too baggy XD.

Morals:
On a more serious note. I think that the guy should totally not want to have a kid and if they want one, they should totally be okay with adopting. I don't want to date someone who wants a kid, b/c I'd feel bad after a while for not having one. =( The guy should not cheat on me or flirt with other girls. Loyalty! The guy should be respectful (plus understand when he's crossed a line). The guy should also be able to talk things out/he shouldn't demean me or say my opinion is wrong. He should defend me (physically and verbally). The guy should not treat me like shit. My boyfriend should also be able to introduce me to his family and friends as his girlfriend once we've reached that point in our relationship.

That's all I can think of for now. I hope someday I meet someone like this or similar to this. =)

Ideal... ideal, huh? It's a tie between someone like KnB's Akashi (minus the scissors fetish) or Free!'s Makoto. There's just something about a tough, intimidating personality that might have a hidden cute side (or the other way round) that just gets to me.

More realistically though? Someone who can call my bullshit, is nice and friendly but not a pushover, an animal lover, intelligent, has a strong sense of morals, painfully honest, treats me as his equal, respectful, tenacious and has a sarcastic/sorta-malicious sense of humour.; ability to play a musical instrument and speak in more than one languages are a bonus.

Me! I am the ideal girlfriend/boyfriend date me. Only fat over-weight men please, thanks (;

>>257 Haha I lost it when I read your reply.

Met my ideal person but that person dissapeared long ago.

My ideal girl is the person who offsets my quirks. I am sort of abrasive and my sense of humor is pretty much making fun of people and things (in good spirits) so she has to be kind and sweet. I am quiet to the point that I get annoyed when waiters ask more than one question about my order so she has to be the talkative and personable one. I don't have many friends because I don't trust people and I throw people out the second they start some sort of drama so she has to have friends. I am very rough (my fiance calls me an edgy teddy bear lol) so she has to be smooth and sweet. Add a little confidence, a good education, and eccentric like me and boom ideal girl. So my fiance is my ideal girl. True opposites attract.

right now it dosent really matter to me... like at all... anyway, just remember that its a two way relationship alright. you cant just espect them to give you everything and support you and not do the same. lol what do i know anyway right never had a boy freind.and all the boys i know are weird... dont know why, they just are!

I dunno. I think I found this girl who is just my type. Ordinarily I'm good with words, but when it comes to her, I find description becomes immensely difficult. Hope the works out for me...

This one prefers nice women that smell good, that he does.

The ideal boyfriend to me would be a nice respectful guy with a sense of humour, that's what I would say or used to say. There are so many types of people out there, I dont want to be specific. There are only a few things I would ask for: Trust, respect and honesty I guess (￣▽￣)

I have a whole folder dedicated to Aomine Daike from KnB. Yeah. That's my type.

A woman who is the opposite of me. I'm a gloomy, stern person and I don't want to be that couple that hates everything and everyone.

I would like my girlfriend to be kind and gentle but can be crazy when she wants to

My ideal girlfriend would be affectionate and kind toward me and accepting of my many professions and social habits. That's really all I need.

They must be at least as intelligent as I am (book smarts, like being able to hold a conversation about subatomic physics and theoretical paradoxes,) like anime, and be able to kick my ass in Magic the Gathering. Gender doesn't matter. Preferably shorter than me if female or taller if male.

>>269 That pretty much describes me. Awkward. Never played MtG, tho.

Awesome. Well go play it and dump your life savings into it and maybe you can beat me.

I'd rather not. my MMOs would be jealous.

But you seem to be a straight male... Oh well. If only I could find someone who plays mtg. And I used to play mmos, but they got pricey when WoW asked for a subscription.

(Re-post from the RTT)

One time, my brother said I was aromantic, or asexual when I told him I wasn't interested in relationships at all. He doesn't think I heard him.

Now I'm thinking, and I know that I'm definitely not. If I could find someone just like me, I would jump at the chance to be with them. We could stay together and everything would be ideal. I'm not looking for complete unconditional love because a relationship like that wouldn't last for me. I'd get bored (makes me sound terrible). Love would be fine, but hate would too (both earn their keep. My feelings are conditional).

I just need someone to obsess over, and if the person is just like me, they'd be looking for that too. It'd be perfect with the two of us, and we could live on the outskirts of some city, by ourselves. We wouldn't do anything, we wouldn't show too many gestures of affection, or even say 'I love you'. We'd just be by each others' side.

But I doubt that I would ever find someone like that in my lifetime so that's why I'm not interested. I'm not even going to try if I'm not 100% sure I could be with them.

May sound pathetic, but that's me. I think I had a small moment of enlightenment while typing this.

Edit: So someone who I could understand. Someone I wouldn't have to wear a mask for. I could be as selfish, and melancholy as I wanted, and they couldn't say anything because their just like that. Someone to possess, someone to toy with, too. Someone to feel passion for (love and hate are both forms of passion).

I was going to say my ideal had changed a lot, but it honestly hasn't. Tall/older/lean-ish/intelligent caucasian/asian guy with kinks + a soft spot for cute things + good communication skills who can abstain from alcohol in my presence. I think those are decent standards without going overboard.

Also with a stable income, which is why I'm not pursuing any relationships until I also have a stable income. I want to be on equal footing :0

I've become more understanding about things like religion, but I still would rather not be with a religious person. No matter how nice they are, I have no doubt they would end up trying to pressure me to convert if I lived with them long enough.

There is no such thing for me lol :P forever alone.
For either a girlfriend or a boyfriend (or an otherfriend) most of what I desire is average- kind, intelligent, shares my values, enjoys the same things I do, but there is one thing I have come to terms with as an impossibility. They need to like me for who I am under my mask. They need to be able to see the monster I am, and not hate me. :P Hah. What a funny concept.

My ideal person would be ok with traveling (if they're not the. Ok with me traveling), not feel the need to change themselves and accept me, would be able to laugh with me and make joke (basically understand humour) and respect my habits (of liking things clean an organised) and wouldn't mind me doing romantic things -would also be able to talk about philosophical things or stuff.
And would tell me what they like and dislike - be open I guess

Bump because I needed my initial response for something :P