Don't go out with the guys society expects you to go out with. Most of the time if a guy seems like a d-bag from first glance he is. If you really want to find a guy who will be good to you go after the guys who can barely look at you before shifting to the ground.
Keep yourself reserved and find the right guy for you. Get to know him. Start off with friendly looks and smiles. If you like him and he seems to have mutual feelings, you can hold hands if you guys want, and go on a date. You can put your arms around each other if you both feel comfortable enough, but I'd wait after a while to start doing this. After a while, you both should feel comfortable enough to hug. Just hug. You should put off things like kissing, even if it's only on the cheek, until you spent enough time with each other (I'd say about a month-month and a half) and you know, not think, know really care about each other.
You can't rush things. You have to take it slow. If he's going too fast, tell him. If he keeps going to far, leave him. Start off as friends and work the relationship up.
I had a friend who had the same problem. The problem wasn't her, it was the guy. I think what you should do is just take a break from dating. Enjoy other friends, read a book, take walk. You don't a bf for a good life. I have never dated a guy in my life! And I am in high school. Many guys have asked me out, but I kindly said no. I knew they weren't ready for a relationship.
