So here´s the deal guys. I have fallen in love with one of the girls in my school who i am good friends with. It all Started a few weeks ago, i just couldn´t get her out of my mind and realized that i loved her but there is a problem. It feels like she has changed quite a lot and also she seems kind of i dont know a bit depressed maybe? She dosen´t say hey to me unless i say "Hey" to her and she used to always say Hi or something like that before. Also most of the time whenever i text her she dosen´t reply which is pretty frustrating. I mean i know people can be busy but i mean they could at least reply even if its pretty late right? I have been having this plan that on christmas break im going to ask her out and tell her how i really feel about her and im just trying to come closer to her but it feels like im not going anywhere :/ So basically my question is: What should do? And if you could answer this it would be a big help: Why is she doing this and by that i mean ignoring me, not replying to texts. Thanks in advance all :D

you should ask her whats wrong if she seems depressed then you should show her how much you care and try to help her or cheer her up if she see's that you care she might open up and possible like you more just tell her that you are worried about her

Yeah like Taku says if she seems depressed you should try and help her first. If she is depressed and has a lot going on then something major like that might be too much for her to process, y'know? Start off light.

as for the not replying late at night, most people wouldn't. Especially if its a school night or they have to work in the morning.
She may or may not be depressed, she could think you're too clingy or she may or may not know that you like her. She could feel the same way and be too embarrased to tell you, or not like you back and not want to hurt your feelings. Does she know that you like her and genuinely want to help her?

HOLY SHIT. There is a damn Dating Problems thread that already exists! PUT THIS SHIT THERE NEXT TIME.

Stop beating around the bush and just ask her why she's acting that way. How do you expect to be her boyfriend if you cannot even accomplice that, excluding the fact that you also need to see if she'll even be honest with you about it.

Asking us isn't going to get anything done. Take action on your own accord, and prove just how true the raging fires of love are within you. At this rate, the way she's been acting, things don't look good for you. So with things this bad, why stop there, when you can ram straight into the problem head first? Better than sitting back and asking for advice on a forum.

I really like your straight-forward comment Nomad! Your comment actually opened my eyes and youre right i should just ask her why she is acting this way. But how should i do it? She lives quite far away and i dont wanna text her cause she might not answer. Should i just call her? But again she might not answer... Nomad please help me out here!