1 Name: Desperate male : 2012-11-24 21:51 ID:fqoYl1YE [Del]
So, just asking for a little advice. I'm pretty new to the dating game, I found a girl that I really REALLY like, yesterday was her birthday and we've already been dating for about 4 weeks now, she's an amazing girl, just that at the end other night I sorta ruined our relationship by telling her that I love her, she says that she's scared of a serious relationship. But she says that she would like to spend many more days together. We've sort of made up since last night, but we're just having slow, mildly awkward conversations. Owes. I've told her sorry and all these other type of apologies, but it just seems so crazy, we were getting along so well, and now it's just really weird. I dont want to lose her but I really need to find a way to make it up to her and prove that I'm worth it.
2 Name: siximpossiblethings : 2012-11-24 22:23 ID:tgG/KXFB [Del]
You need to tell her exactly how you feel, how you don't want to make things awkward just because you said you loved her. Communication is the most important thing. Over-all, be romantic. show her how much you care and hopefully she'll fall head over heels for you :) (Also telling her how you think she's amazing is a good idea too. girls like that)Good luck!
3 Name: Katoteshi : 2012-11-24 22:26 ID:f0otwSc/ [Del]
Well... sounds like you screwed up quite a bit by telling her that you love her and all :P but it's not something that most guys haven't done before. I've done the same thing. Since things have started getting awkward and stuff, my suggestion is that you stop apologizing so often. That kind of stuff can get pretty annoying sometimes. What you gotta do instead is just ask her if you guys can just sit down and talk for a little (don't talk over text or something, face to face is 100% better). Tell her how you feel (don't tell her you love her). Say that things have been getting awkward between you two and that she means a lot to you and you don't want the relationship to go downhill. Try to work this out with her. If you just keep quiet and don't express your feelings at all, nothing will change. If the talk doesn't necessarily go too well and you kind of still feel like things are just awkward and you don't know if they'll ever get better, maybe it's a sign that you two need to go your separate ways for a while. I would try taking a break first though, like a week or 2, and if things are still bad after that, then breaking up completely might be the best option. If you really like her, then you probably just want her to be happy and feel comfortable, right? and if that isn't really happening when you guys are together, then the best thing is to just be friends.
I hope I helped a little bit :P If you need anything else, just say so! :D
4 Name: Desperate male : 2012-11-25 00:36 ID:KnoyjR74 [Del]
I thank you guys, seriously. Ill listen to your advice. I really don't want to lose her. I'll try to keep the forum updated on my predicament. Thanks again!
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6 Name: Tsuki : 2012-11-26 04:13 ID:qNUK/EOI [Del]
Just titty fuck her.
Put your penis on or in her.
7 Name: Yatahaze !E/8OvwUzpY : 2012-11-26 06:38 ID:cvLAQ+KN [Del]
luls tsuki
8 Name: Chrome!8./n5NUuG. : 2012-11-26 11:04 ID:wbjMHede [Del]
Tsuki is right. Show more dick.
Also, don't apologize for the way you feel.
>Don't be ghey.
9 Name: Amaya : 2012-11-26 17:00 ID:/j7HzrBb [Del]
Don't listen to those who tell you to fuck her. If I was scared of a serious relationship, I would hate someone if they did that to me.
Just talk to her like you used to, joke often, show her that you care and when you feel like she's really trusting you, and that she's ready, go for it. It might take a while, but when girls are scared, they really are scared.
