Hey fellow dollars, having a bit of a dilema here. Theres this girl, and shes fucking stellar. everything about her is awesome, her musical taste, shes humerous, and shes soooo cute. only problem is that I recently found out that she isn't looking to be in a relationship. This is tearing me apart. I never confessed to her my feelings, and I myself am... fragile. I set myself up for things like this all of the time, but this particular situation is killing me. she was my drive, my reason for getting up in the morning. I love just talking to her, or seeing her. My life is so mundane it could drive people crazy, and just being able to see her once makes my day just... better. I feel like I've lost purpose, like I don't want to continue. She doesn't know how I feel for her, and now I don't think she ever will. I...I just don't know what to do anymore, can anyone help?

Hmm.. Well I've been in the same situation and all I can say is just throw it out there. I underrstand how much she means to you but as what I see, I think she's nearly given up. I don't really know but You seem to have no other choice other than to just express your feelings and walk away. And please, Don't kill yourself, Once you pour it out, You'll feel lighter on your feet since it was just an emotional kind of weight on your shoulders. Uhm, Well Maybe I'm not the best to give these kinds of advice. But it's the best of what I could say.

>>2 I don't feel like she would want to be friends with me if I did just openly tell her. I'm not suicidal or anything, but I usually end up hating that person. I just can't. I can't hate her. She hasn't "given up" it's just that she simply doesn't have feelings for anyone at the time. She didn't say "OMG Aaron (my name is Aaron) I hate you GTFO", she told a friend of mine that I told to ask that she didn't "like" anyone right now.

>>3 Well, I hope everything works out in the end. Seeing your situ' You seem to be a grand guy. Hopefully it'll happen someday. GodSpeed My good Dollar-teer.

When your in love you'll have good days and bad days! Just don't let the bad ones get you down. Just because she's not looking for a relationship now, doesn't mean she won't be in a few months!

Awesome thread title is awesome

>>3 Like >>2 I've been in the EXACT same situation as well. Except, she transferred to that damn charter school... (No, seriously. It's practically the same thing if you think about, but you have a shot, I don't anymore.)

But anyhow, I say just try and befriend her. Like, don't confess your feelings. Keep them in check until she's ready. So in the meantime you'll be able to get to know her better, like her intrests and such. Determine if she really is the one for you.

I sincerely apologize if this isn't helpful, but it's what I planned when my love was still attending my school.

Oh, and before I forget, just find another motivation to continue if it doesn't work out. Like, I've gotten the motivation that if I graduate from from college, get rich and famous, I'll be able to find her somewhere out there. And another one I've got is that she'll return to my school next school year. You could try and strive to look good and impress her.

>>7 Like I said, Couldn't offer any better advice than Sixclaw

like >>7 said. Get to know the girl first. You don't want to just pop up out of nowhere and be like "hey! I like you a lot, will you go out with me?" because that may freak her out a bit. Or, you may start a relationship and find out you don't actually like her as much as you thought(been there a few times). Build your relationship with her first, get to know her, and then tell her when you think she's ready. I'm sorry if this isn't very helpful.

>>6 agreed.