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Roomate (8)

1 Name: Blahsome : 2012-10-17 22:47 ID:17+wAMay [Del]

I'm not sure what to do anymore D: i just started college and decided to room with my bestfriend who i knew since i was in middle school. and out of no where she stops talking to me. she wont look at me and when i smile at her she rolls her eyes. i tried to asks her whats wrong but she'll just leave the room or put her head phones on. She's an important person to me so i don't want to loose her i'm no so sure how to approach this.

2 Name: SaintSoul !iv7VSm0lRw : 2012-10-17 23:01 ID:B/AmYLk4 [Del]

Period?

3 Name: King Dude !zXqFpoplY6 : 2012-10-18 01:09 ID:v3MRZRtB [Del]

>>2 This.

4 Name: Misuto!M4ZBq07Cs. : 2012-10-18 03:56 ID:gc5anM9c [Del]

Ask her straight up what the problem is. If you don't get it out of her now and there is a legitimate problem behind it, she's going to let it fester. It's a frustrating habit some people have, to expect an issue to be solved while refusing to let it be acknowledged.

You aren't in the wrong to try to decry an issue if it's directly affecting you - it only starts to get intrusive if you ask for more details than necessary. If she gets mad at you for asking a question, she is being needlessly difficult, and I recommend you don't let that kind of shit slide if you want this to work out.

5 Name: Blahsome : 2012-10-18 12:14 ID:17+wAMay [Del]

>>4 Yeah i told the way she was acting bothered me and i wanted to talk about it... and she just laughed and told me to grow up. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT HAPPENED. she was never like this before , she wasn't even mean to me. idk i'm ready to just give up.>>2 She on birth control lol

6 Name: BH2 !0jVt1ao7Gw : 2012-10-18 12:40 ID:KzkA8cJp [Del]

>>5 Well how about you try to remember when exactly she started treating you different. From there think of the week or the week before is there something you guys did together?
OR
For further help tell us alittle about her what does she normally do. Also tell us about yourself maybe theres something she doesn't like that you do.

7 Name: Blahsome : 2012-10-18 15:08 ID:17+wAMay [Del]

>>6 i found out what was wrong, she didn't like the fact that i was making more friends then her... I've always been awkward and didn't have a lot of friends in high school. while she had a whole bunch and was very popular. She's joining more programs and stuff in order to put herself out there more and promised not to get mad at me so i hope this fixes things. Thanks for everyone's help.

8 Name: BH2 !0jVt1ao7Gw : 2012-10-18 16:25 ID:KzkA8cJp [Del]

>>7 you sound like me where being akward and didn't have alot of friends in highschool and we both just enterned college.