>>1 You have to study in a different way than everyone else. It is not that simple, yes, but we are always forced to study the way we belive will be easier. You have to find your way.
Don't play the victim either. It might be a easy way out, but it won't help at ALL. Belive me I used to it all the time.
So, best of luck.
Work hard and you will get there :)