i just don't understand me and my best friend Jesse have been together forever since we were in pre k and now we're freshmen and things just aren't the same. We use to talk all the time and hardly ever argue and when we do we always end up talking it out in the end. But now in the morning when we're walking to school he won't say a thing to me, when i give him a hug he won't return them he won't even look in my direction. I love him more then anything and want us to talk again. It's been going on for like 4 weeks now and i'm just want everyone's advice is this the end of our friendship or do you think there is some other reason why Jesse is acting this way.

Give him a heart to heart talk. Guys aren't ike girls, they don't always like to be open with what's wrong.

heart to heart talk. I know guys aren't open but he could at least tell me something or give me some kind of indication of whats wrong

Chica i Have 3 brothers i know what i'm talking about when guys are like that its better to ask them whats wrong. If not it's just gonna blow up in your face later.

One thing about life that you must accept is that sometimes people grow apart. Sometimes the feeling is not mutual, sometimes one just grows away from the other. If you care about him, then do whatever you can to keep him. But you must realise that your efforts may end up being for naught. If that is the case, then no matter how painful it is, you must try to get over it. Maybe he is having some kind of personal problem (like with his family, for example) that is putting him in a foul mood and he does not want to talk about it? Just try to give him some space, but let him know that your care for him. and if it does not work out, then... well... you did whatever you could. (I am sorry if you hate me for what I have written here).

>>5 i don't hate you your only trying to help but i know nothing is wrong with his family i asked his mom if he's having problems at home she said no. >>4 im gonna try your idea i hope it works cause i want him happy again cause i can't stand to see him this way

>>5 and i have been giving him some space i still stick with him and hang around but i don't ask him but now i just cant wait for him to come clean on his time so im going to talk to him about it tommorow

Ever tried confronting him directly and ask him what's wrong assertively...

if i ask him assertively he'll probably think i'm mad at him or something that's how it always goes down when we argue and i start to shout he always feels bad if he is going through something i don't want him feeling like im mad at him or he's hurt me or my feelings or something like that i just want to know what's wrong

>>9 How about telling hi the truth so e would know and he'll probably will tel you what's hapening with him..

It's my belief that if everyone would just be direct with each other, the world would have a lot fewer problems.

>>4 i did what you said and had a heart to heart talk with him and it turned out great we solved his problem and i loved the outcome