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This Stressful life (15)

1 Name: Neku : 2012-09-26 21:59 ID:KF3TiAcT [Del]

My life isn't going as i hope it would. im struggling in one of my classes, parents want me to do everything, trying to fix a relationship, on academic probation (this is my last chance at college), trying to find a job, worried about my dog. the stess is killing me. i don't know what to do and i haven't found my passion in life.

2 Name: Sleepology !4a6Vun8zuw : 2012-09-26 23:03 ID:lI+s2dVq [Del]

1. ignore your relationship, focus on the things that are actually important, like school, and your dog.
2. What exactly is this "everything" your parents want you to do?
3. Life is never how we expected it to be.

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4 Name: Neku : 2012-09-26 23:31 ID:KF3TiAcT [Del]

>>2 housework, but i have two other siblings as well. im too behind in this class, i get the work and everything. the thing is everyone is ahead of me. the only thing that is saving my ass is the quiz

5 Name: Sleepology !4a6Vun8zuw : 2012-09-26 23:36 ID:lI+s2dVq [Del]

Ever thought of getting tutoring, or help from a teacher/fellow student? Is it that you don't have time to do the school work, or do you not understand it.
As for the whole chores thing.. if it's like a crazy unfair chore amount, make up a chore list n bring it up to your parents, so work is better split between you n your siblings(if your parents dont usually help). If its not crazy unfair.. then I have no words of advice

6 Name: Neku : 2012-09-26 23:43 ID:KF3TiAcT [Del]

i understand it, it's just everyone say read the book and follow the instructions when im more a visual person

7 Name: Sleepology !4a6Vun8zuw : 2012-09-26 23:51 ID:lI+s2dVq [Del]

Oh.. well ... reading is visual :D
Jk, I really don't know what you can do about that.

8 Name: Neku : 2012-09-27 00:08 ID:KF3TiAcT [Del]

it's cool. i'll find a way somehow

9 Name: Toxical !LiveDVTV76 : 2012-09-27 05:49 ID:iXgEJtjD [Del]

>>6

Don't worry too much about school. It will pass. As for joining the collage, the system is not near to flawless. IMO it is actually a joke. But since you gotta go in, talk to teachers, ask the right questions, and not "I want to know everything".

As for housework, talk to your parents about it. They will understand that school is more important!

Relationships.. Oh boy.. I wouldn't be able to give much advice on that topic... My relationships end because I get bored (yes..).

And Neku, don't worry too much! The Universe has a strange way of doing things, and if you want something, belive me, it will show up when you most need it ;P

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11 Name: Kuro !VWBdh8bB9Q : 2012-09-28 00:03 ID:2MwSSV9C [Del]

What class are you behind in?

12 Name: Sid : 2012-09-28 16:44 ID:bDwMpw1z [Del]

Almost sounds like my life, though I recently moved out. Getting my first job took forever, and I ended up finally getting one at a Wendy's. But one I moved out I realized my dad was causing most of my stress. I had to retake a semester due to me failing almost all my classes, but at least I won't give up. Oh, and I haven't found a passion in life either. I say just stick to it and it will work itself out somehow.

13 Name: Neku : 2012-09-30 03:25 ID:KF3TiAcT [Del]

>>11 illustrator.

14 Name: kuchukuTulip!AKSwaLxXwA : 2012-09-30 07:37 ID:cXgAqq7i [Del]

parents can be like that. so it shouldn't be a big worry. just take your parents advice, discuss what you want to do, with your parents. explain and you are on your way to doing the thing you should and can.
when you are busy cant you give it to your siblings or someone to babysit him for a while.
not good with relationships, but if you partner isnt willing to co=operate he's not worth you, but remember you must think of the things you are doing maybe you are the one that need to co-operate.
ask your parents for support if you need more time to get good in the subjects you are bad at. if not then newspapers should help.
i still havent found a passion in my life other then anime and manga so cant help you with that. sorry. ^^;
hope my post helps.

15 Name: Master-Sama : 2012-09-30 09:10 ID:Bk6jC9rJ [Del]

I was molested at 12 years old. This alone makes sleeping at night very stressful, but I always find a way to turn it around. This was 3 years ago and in the past. Back then everything was stressful. I was failing my classes getting into fights. I was a hot mess. But things got better as time past. It's not too late to turn things around.