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Can I get advice for Boy Problems? (6)

1 Name: Kaoru : 2012-09-18 20:09 ID:EFRCIWTk [Del]

So i like this guy and he says he likes me back, but every time I ask him out he says no. ive turned down 4 different guys who've asked me out cuz I really like the one. He told me he doesnt want to date right now, but it's making our friendship really awkward. what do I do? Help please?

2 Name: King Dude !zXqFpoplY6 : 2012-09-18 20:15 ID:v3MRZRtB [Del]

Ask him why he doesn't want to date right now.

3 Name: watashi !XcKI6yCC62 : 2012-09-18 22:23 ID:9ChKvI/f [Del]

>>1
You could always do what >>2 says.

But IMO..
I dont think he likes you like you like him. Maybe you're just a "safety net". Like, in case he can't find a better girl, then "you'll have to do".

Find a better guy.

4 Name: Kaoru : 2012-09-18 23:54 ID:EFRCIWTk [Del]

Thanks guys! ^_^ and it's actually kinda hard to find a better guy... he's the only one, so far, who understands my mental condition and that can put up with it. Dissociative Identity disorder, or simply having multiple personalities.

5 Name: Pink~ : 2012-09-19 00:05 ID:T82KZ171 [Del]

King Dude is right you should ask first him why he doens't want to have date with you. After you make a move. Think wisely. I have these reasons why he doesn't want yet:

First, he doesn't want yet maybe because he is nervous like you. And he didn't know what to do. Maybe it was his first time.. You know?

Second, maybe he is busy to something like school or they have a family problem that's why he can't have fun with you..

Third, maybe he is earning some money to prepare for your date, i know it should be the man to treat the girl in a date right.. hahah yeah usually ^^

6 Name: Kaoru : 2012-09-19 00:13 ID:EFRCIWTk [Del]

awww, thanks Pink~ that totally helped. ^_^ he told me he doesnt wanna date because he is just "testing the waters"and we dated before but he keeps talking pervertedly to me when he calls. but i highly doubt it's the money thing, the family problems wouldnt surprise me. and not his first, his 2nd. his first started doing drugs so he broke up with her.