Never thought I'd be fag enough to post on personal! Anywhore, let's get to the fucking point........assholes......

Anyway, you see, I have a real good bro, and he had a girlfriend (before me, that bastard). They recently broke up, and she immediately started dating another dude who happened to be friends. This....pissed him off.

Hell, It pisses me off.....I'm a dashing man too.....

Anywho, whenever they start buddying up and getting all friendly-like, my buddy gets mad about it, often moving to another table or waiting till they leave to get mad. Now, I feel him, I do......but I find it hard to actually give a damn unless it directly affects me.....I'm a semi-sociopathic asshole, that much has been established.....

But is there a way to not be an asshole? I mean, it's not like it's a bad thing, but I do feel a little bad about not being able to really care for my bros.....and ya know.....brotherhood is a bond closer than family....

..what

okay first of all, get your post straight. Picture is irrelevant. "Never thought I'd be fag enough to post on personal!" was unnecessary. Spamming ellipsis is unnecessary. Also, not caring for someone doesn't make you a total asshole. He's just being butthurt over the fact that his ex-girlfriend likes someone else. You can tell him that directly or be an evasive bitch about it.

Well then......you pointed out my irrelevant pic, I put the fag part for the lulz, and you berated a buddy....

You win the thread. Thank you.

Sincerely,
Tracker D.

>>1 "Never thought I'd be fag enough to post on personal! Anywhore, let's get to the fucking point......assholes......". You are clearly just a prick. Nobody gives a damn about your stupid, nauseating adolescent 'problems'. What the hell gives you the right to talk to everyone here like that.

Look at all the 'fucks' everyone else gives. Guess what, there is zero.

>>4
My words exactly. Get over yourself, and shut up.

An asshole would be unable to admit that they are an asshole and would get pissed when someone else called them an asshole. Just sayin'.

>>1
He's a prick. No one cares, tell him to get the fuck over her. More fish in the see, and next time, maybe he should choose a better fish instead of one that intends to sleep with sharks.

and No. Family is closer than "brotherhood". Someday, your "bro" might ditch you because he finds a better bro or I don't even know what "bro"s do, but family is closer. Blood runs thicker than water.

and also, I think you're not too bad of a guy. Maybe you've been called an asshole one too many times that you actually think you are, but you're trying to be a good friend. And by being a good friend, tell him to get the fuck over her, and to move on, and to maybe choose a better girl next time cause whatever he's expecting ain't gonna happen.

Blood runs thicker than water *whether you like it or not*.

ah, and yeah. next time, if you maybe want to be taken slightly more seriously, pass on the pictures.

>>7>>8 Blood doesn't always run thicker than water. You're just lucky.
>>1 "But is there a way to not be an asshole?" >> yeah, if you actually try. AND, drop your pride of being an asshole. You declare it as if it's cool, if you don't want to be an ass you can start by not calling yourself one..

>>9
Unfortunately, my family is utter shit. But I think in the end, it's better to try to make things work than leave it be as shit.

if your a semi-sociopathic asshole then somebody should put a gun to your head and put you out of your misery

>>11 hahahhaha!

>>10 that's true I guess. Just sometimes when time passes by it seems so hopeless to try and fix things when it comes to people who don't really... *goddamnit that dramatic soundtrack is playing in my head* but yeah, i've been saved by friends so many times it's hard to not think that it's a case to case basis, ya know, blood and water varying in density (philosophically speaking)

>>12
Definitely probably case-to-case basis, but I mean. In the end, you're still family no matter what. Nothing you can do about it, I mean it's not like you can cut off ties with your family thoroughly; you're still blood related.

It's just for me, my family was shit. my friends were worse. lololol, and because of my friends, my family became worse, and now my "friends" are gone. it's happened several times, so i guess it's just the world trying to teach me that family > friends. BUT yeah.

case by case basis.

>>1 There's nothing wrong with feeling that way. You're not the one who is supposed to be affected, after all. Just be there. When he's being a pussy, tell him to man up; there are plenty of fish in the sea, and there's no reason for him to act so jealous when she turned out to be a tramp in the end. She's just trying to get his temper up, and he's giving her the pleasure of reacting the way she wants him to.


>>13 Who cares about blood relations? Seriously.

You may be required to love them, but you're not required to like them, and you're not required to stay in touch or be friends with them. For me, my true friends are more important than anything. I'm not going to fuck my friends for the sake of [insert relative here] just because we're "blood related" or "blood is thicker than water" or anything like that. Same with any situation. If my family is my friend (like my mom is), then that's different. But most people don't consider their family members actually close to them.

If they ditch you, they're not your friends - they're acquaintances. Also, it's true that friendships come and go, but so does everything else. Clinging onto family as the only solid relationship in your life (even if/when you seriously dislike them) isn't very healthy. Don't deal with them just because they provide a solid bond. Blood related or not, they're just other people, and some people aren't healthy to be around.

Saying that blood relations are more important than friendship is like saying that you should always trust the police even if it's clear the policeman you're dealing with is clearly a fuc- I mean, isn't very good at his job. Just becuase it's what society says doesn't mean it's right.

Just my opinion, of course.

>>13 I don't know about that. We've completely severed ties with most of my mom's family. And there is no way in Hell that I'm reopening communication with any of them. In fact, if any of them showed up on my door step I'd be more likely to break some bones than let them in.

>>1 Don't try to force yourself to care. It really doesn't matter and no one on here even cares about this stupid post. In fact, more people have talked about watashi's problems than your's. Congratulations, watashi, this thread is now about you.

>>14 Lots of typos, but I'm to lazy to fix them :l

I was gonna say "Even I pissed myself off here. Let it die."...

...But it appears that Barabi, Watashi, and Anubis have used this for another purpose.....

>>11 Ouch! You're dark ;)

Also, Might delete that >>1 there....I may not.

Carry on, private.

>>14
I understand the people at times hate their family, and there are even cases where families are below shit. But, well, if you can make it work, why not? I've gone through a LOT of stress because of a bad relationship with my parents, and my parents are not good parents. But, really, being in peace with my family relieves a lot of unnecessary stress for me. I'm not saying they're ALWAYS more important and that you should sacrifice friendships for that sake, but well, basically. If it's worth it, make family work?

Yeah, my friends were shit, and I expect that hopefully, someday I'll meet better people who'll stick around for good. Since I don't really know if OP has a shit family or a good family, I went with the assumption that he's just a teenager who is going through that "My parents are trying to control my life they suck I hate them I'm an adult now and can live my own life" stage and that his family actually isn't shit and just suggested for OP to try to make it work, cause sometimes, everyone's misunderstood. Although, I guess it made so much more sense in my head than what I wrote. I dunno, maybe I'm naive in believing that there can be harmony in things, but eh. Why not be optimistic.

Also, I completely agree with your analogy. But, just adding, you don't always have to trust the police, but you shouldn't just hate/distrust the police, because there may actually be some GOOD, misunderstood police dudes in the mix of a bunch of hotheaded assholes who think they're god. Fuck the police. IP search me all you want; Come get me, motherfuckers, and I'll drill the meaning of justice into your thick skulls.


>>15
I'm going to assume things since you seem to lack the ability to use grammar properly. I assume you have a (good) reason as to why you've severed ties, and well it's your choice. I'm not preaching that everyone should love the shit out of their family just cause they're family, only that they should try to make things work. In your case, didn't work. Sucks. Cool. Kay.

And, well, gee, thanks. Ya know, cause my "problem" is just so damn serious. Oh, and by the way, what exactly is my "problem"? I'd like to know.