1 Name: Fir3_fly : 2012-09-04 20:22 ID:w4MucAdR [Del]
i'm depressed and there's this guy in my class that i like: he's super sweet, he makes me happy, he's smart, he's tall, he laughs at my jokes. and i like him. he has greenish eyes, blonde hair , white skin..XD he makes me feel better. he doesn't know that i am. everyday at the end of the day i come home smiling, he makes me feel so good. but he has a girlfriend and he like one of my friends. and add it to that...he flirts with me, i think thats what that is....what do i do?
2 Name: Zeckarias !kjn0nYOOPw : 2012-09-04 20:26 ID:7jyXFAk0 [Del]
Take it easy. First of all, you say he doesn't know who you are, which is normal. And he makes you feel almost euphoric inside, also normal, but not pure love.
It may be tough, but approach it as calmly as you can. Introduce yourself, talk about some things, see what happens. About 50% of the time at least you learn the guy isn't who you immediately thought he was, but either way silence gets you nowhere.
3 Name: Fir3_fly : 2012-09-04 20:32 ID:w4MucAdR [Del]
i talk to him all the time, we even caht on facebook
4 Name: Zeckarias !kjn0nYOOPw : 2012-09-04 20:48 ID:7jyXFAk0 [Del]
Then patience, my friend, and a question of your morals:
If he's in a relationship and you care for him, would you make him unhappy and separate and try to find happiness with you, or will you allow him his happiness? In other words, do you care for him as he is, or only if he is with you?
There is no correct answer to this question, so think it through.
5 Name: Crisis !JjfHYEcdHQ : 2012-09-04 23:01 ID:TU1bldLs [Del]
Become friends with this guy. See where it goes from there.
6 Name: Yuki : 2012-09-05 01:45 ID:qxYMMvFo [Del]
You might need to wait a while for him to break up with his girlfriend because you don't wanna forcefully do that. If he's taking notice of your friend and also flirting with you maybe, then just do what you were doing before but just a lot more (not too much either it's confusing). I can't say for sure this works but it might be worth a try.
7 Name: Terra !97VVtImbHM : 2012-09-05 01:52 ID:KSy1DEEW [Del]
Just keep it as it is. But I reckon if he has a girlfriend, AND likes one of your friends, AND flirts with you, then he has some serious commitment issues and kind of seems like a dick. I mean, he might be nice and everything, but he doesn't seem that trustworthy.
8 Name: Fir3_fly : 2012-09-05 04:37 ID:R0yIrvx0 [Del]
i relly don't want to comprimise his happineothers 4 my own.
9 Name: Terra !97VVtImbHM : 2012-09-05 05:09 ID:KSy1DEEW [Del]
>>8 ... I have no idea what you just said.
10 Name: Fir3_fly : 2012-09-05 05:22 ID:R0yIrvx0 [Del]
sorry thers somrthin rong with my laptop...
i don't want to comprimise his feelings 4 my own.
11 Name: Fir3_fly : 2012-09-05 19:03 ID:vqdD7m9S [Del]
he knows someone told him or hefigured it out.
