>>11Why would you post a picture when no one really actually cares what she looks like? It's not like our opinion of her is gonna change yours and it shouldn't. I don't think she's pretty or beautiful, but she's definitely not ugly or fat. But, she is beautiful and gorgeous and all that jazz to you, so do what we think even matter?
Makes me doubt that you're who you say you are.
Under the assumption that she says things like "I'm ugly" often daily and that you reply immediately with "No, you're beautiful", I suggest that you cut down the times you actually acknowledge and reply. Ignoring it might not be the smartest move, but it's like you're a parrot.
>>12I've seriously thought about killing myself, and have tried more than I can count. Twice I would've died if not for my boyfriend.
You're right that people like me don't flash it around. One of my friends came up to me and told me seriously that she thinks I'm depressed. There are demons all around, and all they've noticed is that I'm a little sad. I find that so amusing, and it's hilarious, cause these people call themselves my best friends. And honestly, we don't give a shit about if OTHER people think we're depressed. It's not like them knowing helps.
But sometimes, I just get so desperate to make someone care that I try so hard to get just ONE person to care. Mind you, I've only actually TRIED towards about three people that I honestly believed MIGHT just care (in the past six years). And, they thought I was being overdramatic and shit. And, you know. I honestly believe that if someone took me seriously in my early stages, I might not have become as dark as I am now. I was a little girl, scared shitless because I didn't understand why I was so sad and I asked someone why I'm so sad all the time, and they told me that I should stop being an attention whore. After that, I drew into myself and now I'm buried.
Yes, there are people who do those kinds of things for attention, but there are also those who honestly feel that way (and you should be able to tell the difference by the frequency of how often they "complain"). Even the tiniest bit of care really impacts people like us, where it might not for those craving attention. So, maybe putting in the tiniest bit of care might end up saving someone in the end.
This is just my opinion according to my experience and belief.