Two guys like me, they know my boyfriend and they're FRIENDS with my boyfriend, and they keep trying to get with me.

I want them to go the fuck away and I've told them to go the fuck away, but they keep trying. HOW DO I GET RID OF THEM?

Why haven't you told your boyfriend?

tell your boyfriend that he has snakes as friends.

Tell your boyfriend. Done.

Tell them you're only straight for your boyfriend.

I figured everyone else already said what needed to be said.

How do you know they want to "get with you"? For all I know, they could have just tried to be your friend and you're confusing it with flirting. And if that's what happened and you tell your boyfriend, what if that ruins their friendship? You'd then just be some friendship-wrecking cunt because you didn't bother finding out the truth and just make assumptions on what you think you know.

Lol, they tell him I'm lying and that I'm trying to get with them.

Okay, I don't even TALK to them, and they call me and chat me and shit and then they waited in front of my house for two hours apparently, even though I said I can't nor would i even if i could come out.

>>6 And for Christ sake, I know the difference between I wanna get in your pants and I wanna be friends. Plus, I don't really think NORMAL friends wait in front of your house for several hours in the wee hours of the morning trying to get you to go have a drink or two with them WITHOUT my boyfriend knowing, and if those are what you consider friends, my god, you're a twat.

But, problem solved. I guess if you threaten their "boys" with exaggerated description, they think you're psycho and leave you alone.

>>6 God, you irritate me, so I'm just gonna say more. Since you're kinda pretty obviously a dude, you should know that guys act differently when they want to be friends and when they want to fuck. So, as a girl who's encountered many of both types of guys, I think I'd know the difference. Because, y'see if we girls watch YOUR GUYS' EYES we can tell which one you're REALLY after. Oh and before you say, well you probably dress skanky blah blah blah make us look blah blah blah, point one, I don't. point two, my real FRIENDS don't look at all even in the slightest nor do they even really have interest in that cause they're my friends and are only interested in being friends.

And just to make it even clearer that they want to "get with", these guys really like putting their arms around me, and they keep their hand on my face a lot, and they try to hug me, and they "accidentally" but really obviously try to put their face near my face. In which, I brush their arm off, turn my head away, give them the side hug, and push them away.

And please, if you had a girlfriend, if she assumed that your friends were flirting with her and trying to get in her pants, I'm pretty sure you'd have a talk with them and at least find out if SHE'S lying or if THEY'RE lying. If you're one of those unreasonable guys who "ruins friendships" based on solely what people say, then you'd just be some friendship-wrecking cunt because you didn't bother finding out the truth and just make assumptions on what you think you know.

i'm not the type of person to just be like "don't be friends with him because he's trying to get blah blah". i'm just not gonna be friends with them anymore AND i'd just advise him that they may not be the best type of people to hang out with.

>>7
and really, two guys asking a girl out for "a drink or two" doesn't usually mean "a drink or two", especially if you're going to someone's HOUSE to have that "drink or two" as just you two guys and me and no one else.

>>9>>8>>7 You wanna know why I now dislike you? Because >>6 was just giving you an honest answer and you decided to just be a cunt to him. You don't like what other people have to say about it? Then don't post it. That's all I've seen you do to the answers we're trying to give you, you just disregard them and just start being a bitch to anyone who tries to help you. I don't really see how they would really want you if you're like this. 'Cause hun, only easy guys want bitches.

>>10 Lol. Easy guys want easy girls. Just sayin'.

>>11 Whatevet, you get my point.

>>10
Please do explain how he was trying to help? He just pretty much said that I'm mistaking flirting with trying to be friends and how I was a cunt for doing so. and I just explained (maybe without the sprinkles and rainbows you're looking for) why I know that it was flirting and how there are situations where guys are just plain assholes.

I'm just explaining the situation more thoroughly, (though again, maybe not the nicest way) since he made that assumption not knowing anything besides "Two guys like me, they know my boyfriend and they're FRIENDS with my boyfriend, and they keep trying to get with me."

So, do tell me how I'm "rejecting" his help and acting like a bitch to anyone who helps? And even more, where do you see me "disregard" people who are trying to give me answer? I'm usually very accepting of all advice, no matter how crude or sarcastic the advice is. I just like making sure people know exactly what's what before they decide to give me advice.

Good job, white knighting.

>>13 He didn't make any assumptions. He merely suggested that you make sure you're positive about it before you confront anyone about it. You didn't explain the situation at first, so it was a completely legitimate piece of advice However, the way you responded to him was rude and unnecessary. He wasn't trying to be mean or assume or anything like that - he was only warning you that, if you fuck up their friendship and then realize you're wrong, you're screwed.

As a girl, I understand what you're talking about. It's easy to tell the difference between a guy wanting to get in your pants and a guy who just wants to chill. But that doesn't change that it was a normal piece of advice and, even if you're fairly sure about the situation, you should still keep it in mind.

>>11
I'm not entirely sure if you're saying that I'm easy but I'm not going to take it that way.

I'm not "easy". I'm frank in the way I talk and I intimidate people on first impressions. I'm considered an "ice queen" among my group of friends because well, i look like someone who'd fuck you over if you messed with me and i'm quiet (not shy). but when i say harsh things, everyone thinks I'm joking around. which is why, when I told these guys to fuck off, they laughed and said "Our Ice Queen is cool today" (it's a pun).

Anyways, explanation finished, if you still think I'm just a cunt that bitches at people who try to give me advice (if you can call that advice), then whatever. no skin off my back.

>>14
Hmmm, well if you say it like that.

My apologies, King Dude. I really didn't like the way you said it, or maybe I was having a bad day, but fair point!
But, since I've explained the situation (even if it was rudely), I would think that "bit of advice" should change.

>>12 I was just agreeing with you, lol.

Maybe... just maybe. You're being conceited and they're just being friendly. Just a thought.

And well, let's just say that in the end, turns out I wasn't "being conceited", and that these guys really are just bad bad friends.