I recently catched up in an old friend and we talked, few days later I went to her place. We talked and her little boy was playing around and the whole time we talked I was really happy, and a part of me wants to be in her life even more now but I just don't know how to approach or even start a topic like that with her. She knows that I used to like her and that we both are looking for a relationship. Hope you fellow Dollars can help me with this because I'm really lost thanks
>>1 "Your odds of getting a job are a lot better when you put in an application". It means if you don't try at all, it'll never happen. Talk to her about it.
yea did but I used different words to describe what I felt when we talked at her place and honestly it would sorta change for me cuz I'm not one to fancy people right away it takes time and getting to know that person. I guess I'm take it slowly cuz I don't want to rush into things.
You have to think about her son too. Do you think being in a relationship with her would be best for her son? Because she most probably think that the most important guy in her life now is her son. So if you can, try being fatherly to the kid, and then she'll most probably consider you as his step father. She'll think that her son needs a father figure, and boom, there you are being fatherly to him! Might work out. The situation will only change if you have a child on your own.
I've considered that too and I always mention him when I talk to her every time and I'd say that she wants what's best for her child cuz with most men having a baby is like a deal breaker. I don't mind being a father at all.
