What do you think makes someone "the One"?

The One being a significant other, true love, etc.

Someone who loves you unconditionally.

Someone who will gothrough it all with you,bad or worse.I have a few good stories of friends like that,If you need 'em.

People who will stand by your side.
People who will defend you.
Who will take care of you.
Who will oick you up when you fall.
When they make you laugh for the wrong reasons and cry for the right ones.
When they can finish your sentences for you,and you can finish theirs.
When everything with you is paralell.
But also polar oppasites.
And,when they love you for you.

Finding 'The One' is a one in 7 billion chance. But there's people who come close. Just putting that out there.

As to what makes someone 'The One', it's quite simple, really. Just someone who cares/loves you, and supports you when you're in trouble. Of course, you have to be ready and willing to do the same. That's 'The One' in a nutshell.

Lastly, a word of advice. Don't go out of your way looking for 'The One'. You won't find them. But you always have people who can care and love you. So just stick with them, and who knows, maybe they'll turn into 'The One' someday.

Welllllllllll, I was intending this to be more of a "What makes someone the One to me" (and "me" being you) rather than a "How do I tell he's the one" ("I" being me) kinda thread, but oh well.

- What if the One and the person you love are different?
- People can become "the One". Then can "the One" become just another person?

my answer to the second question:

love is a decision.
anyone can be "the one", and thus can become just another person if you choose that person to be.

Everyone that exist on this world have a ivisible red thread that conneect them to a the person that was decide to be with ever since they were borned.

>>5 Alright then.

First question: Does it really matter then? As long as you love the person, he/she could be 'The One' for you. I don't believe in predetermination, as in the One isn't determined from the start. There's one person on Earth which would match you perfectly, but several others who still match you, but perhaps not 100 %. So if you really love that person and the feeling is mutual, then that person turns into the One for you, even though technically you don't match together 100 %.

As for the second question, I can't answer it. I don't understand what you mean.

>>6
True, but it's rare that the people we choose, choose us in return. Also, if someone was "the One" to you, but you're just a good friend to them, then could you honestly say that you can just choose someone else to become "the One" instead?

>>7
Yeah, I heard that Chinese Red Thread myth too. But I can't really say that everyone meets the person on the other end or that the person on the other end is the one that person was looking for? If that makes sense.

>>8
And that's how many people are! I guess I'll clarify both questions.


1 The One and the one you love are two different people, but the three of your lives are intermingled. How would you handle that?

2 Like how you said that someone can be close to becoming the One, even if he/she isn't 100%. So, if someone can BECOME the One, then shouldn't it also be possible for the same someone to fall out from being the One?

>>9 Could you set up an example situation for the second question? I still can't answer it, but I'm very interested as to what the answer would be if I understood the question completely.

I think what makes someone "The One" Is that they love/care for you, understand you, your feelings, and thoughts, and someone that you just get along with. ^-^

I don't really believe there is a "The One" I think people can create their own 'One' but it doesn't mean that the relationship is any less meaningful.
Don't wait around for the One to find you, just let life happen, and follow whatever you believe :p

>>10
There's a person who you met and though that person wasn't EXACTLY the One when you met the person, you decided that person is pretty much exactly the One. So, the question is, though the person is pretty much your "One", would it be possible for that person to change into someone that's not "the One" because well, they aren't the One. If it doesn't make sense I give up asking!!!!

Well, to be honest, I met my "One" almost six years ago, and I've always KNOWN that he's the One, because though he's changed several times in the six years that I've known him, I still love him. But, I'm not the One for him, so I guess just because someone IS the One doesn't exactly mean they're the One for you.

And plus, I've found someone who makes me happy and I love him just as much, so yay

>>13 Well, it doesn't make sense. I'm sorry for being dense, lol. But I have an answer. Of course they can become 'not the One', because, well, they're technically 'not the One'. But I don't see the point in that, since it's like 'the One' for you. What hinders you to have him/her substitute as 'the One' if the chances that you find the real 'One' are so minimal?

Anyways, good luck with your love life and finding your 'One', genuine or not. and if you want a long and brain-hurting discussion again, give me a shout!

in my opinion "the One" is just some one whom ends up being something so valuable that one doesn't want for is to disappear but it does and leaves a hurtful scar that make one give up in love life

they can become the one if they love you no matter what stupid things you do , they love you for who you are and who you might become, also they will be your lover and mest friend

If he/she can put up with the fact that I would ignore them for internet/computer time for extreme lengths of time, they are the one.

you know for all of the beautiful things in the world, i think that not everybody gets a true soulmate, you know? some people have a soulmate in other ways, like art.