Well ive been dating this girl for a while and im not the most confident coragous guy ever and shes been begging me to kiss her but i cant bring my self to do it and dont get me wrong i love her a lot but if theres a way to forget or get over my shy and unconfidentness please tell me

I don't think there is a way. A lot of people would probably say "Just be yourself, and if it happens, it happens." But that doesn't really say much, does it? ;P

Seriously though; if you do love her, and she feels the same way, I don't think there's anything to worry about. She knew who you were before you dated, right? So she should know how shy you are. As a fairly shy person myself, I found that its just a matter of "Right place, right time." And everything just clicks together.

easy answer. dont.think.

what you do is tell her that you want the kiss to be special and you think you guys should wait a while. Tell her that you are very shy and that you DO want to kiss her so so so much but you're not very confident in yourself. trust me, I'm a girl oh and also start the conversation off with telling her you love her. Hey, maybe even talking to her about this will give you the confidence you need.