i need help.. my ex started rumors about me now im getting bullied REALLY bad...

1. Don't date assholes
2. Ignore it, or even better, sarcastically play along. People will get tired of not getting the reaction they want.

Have you told an adult/teacher? it will be good to start off with that. Plus, I sort of think that bullying should be illegal, it can cause suicides- Meaning that bullying can kill people.

>>3 It is illegal...(I believe only 3 or 4 haven't made it illegal if any)

Yes i have told my parents and even the teachers at my school and the bullies always get away with it.

Kick their ass.

NO NO FIGHTING JUST PROVE THE THE RUMORS AREN'T TRUE!

Same thing happened to my bestest friend since kindergarden.In 8th grade,a popular guy she was dating broke up with her over the phone,then started spreading rumors that certain "things" happened with them.What is it that the rumors are about?

>>7 There's no reason why you should have to prove anything to them.

>>6 This. And if you're not strong enough to kick ass, go run to your teacher (or principal) crying like crazy and frantically explain the situation to them. Make sure you find out the names of all the kids who are bothering you first.

>>9 AND/OR, go to your ex's house and speak with their parents (only if they're not the over protective type). Try to aim for the parent that's your gender. (If you're a girl, go for the mom. If you're a guy, go for the dad.) It's best if you find a time that your ex isn't home to do it. Explain the situation to them. If you're a girl, you should definitely try to cry. Be as pitiful as possible. BE AS BROKEN AS POSSIBLE, GODDAMNIT. (Unless you're a guy. Guys sound better when they're stating facts rather than being emotional.)

Once you're done with that, if his/her parents don't do anything, explain the situation to a counselor and have the kids shut up. In either situation, you should try to get a recording of the kids bullying you. (The best way to do this is to buy a pocket MP3 that can record audio. They're like 15 bucks at your local convenience store. Maybe. Depends on where you live.)

I cry spontaneously (and often unintentionally), so I'm not the best example, but I know there's some magical way to make yourself cry. Hopefully the situation will be bad enough for the tears to come naturally.

Hope everything works out well enough~

The rumors are about me and i am suposably a "slut" and i sleep with and do things with any and every guy i meet.

arggg *holding my sanity by a thread* hate assholes who talk shit...
assuming you cant confront the guy to give your good name back,
This might sound kind of lame but you could hang out with (non-dramatic) girls more and get as much support as you can because this is gonna hurt. You need people who trust you, support you and who will speak up for you and hopefully that clears the rumors
btw, do they say this to your face or behind your back?
>>10 the recording idea is brilliant! most phones have that function now

>>12 Yeah, but most of the phones that are small enough to hide don't have a decent enough microphones to pick conversations up.