1 Name: Neku : 2012-07-30 18:40 ID:lb4c5SpT [Del]
it seems i've become clinging with my girlfriend. i tried my best not to, but it won't work. im not sure if she's ignoring me because of it or not. i feeling she is and i don't want to lose her because of it. maybe it's because i never had a relationship before but i don't thinks it's a good reason or a reason at all. i really need some help. i gave her space and we haven't seen each other since june. can someone help me?!
2 Name: DN : 2012-07-30 18:49 ID:RVDlRqjj [Del]
If your going out with her then you shouldn't give her too much space or she'll think you've lost intereat. Also, if she loves you, then there's no such thing as 'too clingy.' Just love her the way you love her, and if she loves you too then everything should work out fine. :-)
3 Name: Neku : 2012-07-30 19:19 ID:lb4c5SpT [Del]
i haven't lost interest in her. i love her and we've been going out for awhile now. i let her do her thing, but still
4 Name: Hitomi Tsukimi !pouHfNIzKo : 2012-07-30 20:51 ID:1qZCnCtQ [Del]
do u go to the same school? details dude XD Ask her if she'd like to hangout sometime, I mean that's what couples do right??
5 Name: Neku : 2012-07-30 21:23 ID:lb4c5SpT [Del]
yeah we do. we try to hangout as much as well can but usually one of us is busy. if i had a drive license and a car we would hang out. the next semester starts soon and that's were we met the most. i tried to recently but she might not go.
6 Name: Terroth : 2012-07-31 09:45 ID:7Bv6768O [Del]
Did she say anything? If she loves you, she shouldn't mind you being a little "clingy" however, if she wants space of course she should have it. If she loves you, you won't lose her without both of you fighting for your relationship.
If she were to break up without even talking too you about it, her feelings, your feelings, thougts etc, I'd not call that love. Tell her what you feel and ask her how she feels.
Did you do anything besides being a little clingy to make her mad about something? Reflect upon her actions/words.
Personally I believe that more girls than guys, likes to punish guys for something they don't even know they have done.
Well, if it has been about a month since you last spoke to each other, she should have calmed down in any case.
But I do not believe your girlfriend tbh to be worth it.
A long message, sorry for being selfish to mention my thoughts since you asked for help, not opinions.
I hope it works out for you :)
7 Name: Neku : 2012-08-01 03:51 ID:lb4c5SpT [Del]
the thing is we talked up until i went on my trip with my family. i know she wanted to go, but we didn't have enough room and tickets for her. after i came back she been distance, i know she might be upset about it but there was nothing i can do. i tried to to talk to her but i get nothing. i try not to think about the worst case scenario. i honestly do love her and i know she does too. i even tried for us to hang out this weekend,but i think it won't happen. to be honest i don't what to do. she means alot to me because she my first girlfriend and i don't want our relationship to get worse.
