1 Name: Dark Rose : 2012-07-26 06:51 ID:2ilPyOX8 [Del]
Hi, This is EXTREMELY personal... but i wanted to say something..... many people i know have abusev(please! forgive my mispellings!) familys or parents or a parent. so i just want to say u guys arnt alone some people u may not expect know how u feel.... for example i understand. i have a abuseve mother. she has to get her way or u have to listen to her words and do them. @ first she did this to my older sis,then she left for a while then she tooked it out on me. so im worried what if my lil sis has to go through that. i just dont want many people going through many horrible things.... so if u know some1 or ur a person that knows what i mean then tell me...but ur online name can be a secret. but if u want to then go ahead i wont stop u. thanks........
2 Name: Dark Rose : 2012-07-26 07:11 ID:pql5LpSo [Del]
The thing is i believe i deserv it.(forgive my mispellings!) im not really great with my anger......or my stupidity...... i just really hope that if people that do know what the hell im talkin bout do tell me a lil then i will understand. or even if people can tell me ways so i could protect me & my lil sis(which is only 1) from this then i knw people that know what i mean then maybe we could help each other out!*hides*fyi im young! not really that old!
3 Name: Elunore!HIwambGeWE : 2012-07-26 09:57 ID:cae9uHP9 [Del]
What sort of abuse are you going through? Also if you genuinely feel like you're being abused, tell a teacher or call the police/ social services. They are required to investigate any and every call they get. And no one deserves abuse. No one. Not for any reason. Not anger or stupidity, no reason. Abuse can also have long term effects, trust issues, difficulty to connect with peers, drug/alcohol abuse. If the abuse goes on long enough some victims turn into abusers themselves. If you need to talk you can always email me at mustbesymmetrical@yahoo.com, I'm going to be a social worker and I really want to help.
Anyway TL;DR
Get help, talk to a teacher or a trusted adult. They can help more directly than strangers on the internet. Good luck.
4 Name: Sid : 2012-07-26 11:47 ID:bDwMpw1z [Del]
My sister and I have been abused as kids. I finally broke down and went to the schools counseler in 6th grade after my dad beat me hours on end. Still till this day that is the only one beating I can't forgive, since their was no reason behind it. It may seem stupid, but leaving a pencil on a floor still was enough reason for him to do so. My little brother didn't get abused, and is the only one that grew up with a normal life. He acts like a snob, but he has that family connection my sister and I never had. Sometimes though the only way to get to people is to get hit, at least that is true for my brother and a friend. I'm not saying it is always a good thing, but some people can't learn any other way. Though ultimately it most likely isn't your fault, and the thing that bothered me the most took years to figure out. I had trouble accepting myself for what I did in result to the abuse, but finally one person said that I wasn't a bad person. I don't know if it will help any, but you are not a bad person. Oh and it takes three reported instances for someone to be locked up, but my dad only had 2. Also you have to have physical evidence of abuse, or eye witnesses, in order to report it and them giong to court.
