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Why Won't He Answer? (16)

1 Name: Shadow : 2012-07-24 15:17 ID:HIYTgy90 [Del]

Okay, I have a boyfriend. He is sweet, caring, and treats me like a princess. We've been together for nearly two months now.

But here's where trouble sinks in. I haven't heard from him since July 4. We have never argued, and the last text I received from him said "I love you too." Nothing suspicious. I knew he was going on a trip to the mountains, but that ended last week. He won't answer my messages, and my calls go straight to voicemail. I'm trying not to be one of those obsessive girlfriends, but I was recently cured from a long-term medical issue and I really need to tell him! Can anybody help?

2 Name: Crisis !JjfHYEcdHQ : 2012-07-24 16:55 ID:bTDBGDdo [Del]

>>1 Just wait. He's in the mountains, so he probably isn't getting any cellphone reception.

3 Name: anubis !AnUBiS6/LQ : 2012-07-24 22:41 ID:uZGFOGG/ [Del]

>>1 Haven't we covered this? He's an idiot who doesn't seem to be able to use a phone. You'll get a hold of him, trust me.

On a side note: congrats on being able to see flashing lights again!

4 Name: Crisis !JjfHYEcdHQ : 2012-07-24 23:34 ID:bTDBGDdo [Del]

>>2 Missed where it said his trip ended. So I'm going to +1 anubis.

5 Name: BH2 !0jVt1ao7Gw : 2012-07-25 01:07 ID:qRCBdzFl [Del]

Have you tried going to his house.

6 Name: anubis !AnUBiS6/LQ : 2012-07-25 01:22 ID:uZGFOGG/ [Del]

>>5 Considering my little Shadow here can't drive I highly doubt she'll be able to get to his house. Honestly, the idiot is just horrible at picking up his damn phone, in fact, something similar to this has happened before.

SHADOW! CALM DOWN!!!

7 Name: BH2 !0jVt1ao7Gw : 2012-07-25 02:13 ID:qRCBdzFl [Del]

how far is this guys house can't she take the bus or train.

8 Name: Shadow : 2012-07-25 06:59 ID:HIYTgy90 [Del]

I only know what neighborhood he lives in. He doesn't really tell me these things.

9 Name: Terroth : 2012-07-25 17:37 ID:7Bv6768O [Del]

If you know his parents names / his full name you can use the net to find their homenumber and call there, He might have lost his phone. However I do find it strange that he never showed you his house considering you've been going out for 2 months and you probaly known each other for longer than that.
If you can't find his homenumber/adress maybe you can contact one of his friends and ask for it? :)
Btw Shadow, there is no normal guy that wouldn't want to hear from his girlfriend every week. Atleast I'd like that.
I hope for you that you two will get in contact asap :)

10 Name: Shadow : 2012-07-25 17:49 ID:HIYTgy90 [Del]

Update- He FINALLY texted me, saying his phone went MIA. But now I have an even bigger problem- he asked me out. I've never been on a date in my life, or really been to the movies. He also says he wants to kiss me so much (we've never kissed). I am now even more confused/scared. I think we're going out Saturday and I have no idea what to do!!!

11 Name: User 64 : 2012-07-25 17:54 ID:Jj51Ul8+ [Del]

go out. have fun. be happy.

12 Name: Terroth : 2012-07-25 18:03 ID:7Bv6768O [Del]

First, Congratulations
2nd, Just be yourself. If he loves you he'll want you to be yourself. Don't be afraid. If you feel uncomfortable with kissing, then don't do that. But if kissing doesn't feel good at the date, I'd explain why as well, elese he might just think that you doesn't like him.
I don't think there will be a problem if you two are honest with each other. :P

13 Name: Shadow : 2012-07-25 19:50 ID:HIYTgy90 [Del]

I'm just... Scared. I mean, I love him, but I've spent more time in hospitals than with him. I don't know what to do. I'm not scared of kissing, it just seems so foreign.

14 Name: Crisis !JjfHYEcdHQ : 2012-07-25 20:16 ID:bTDBGDdo [Del]

>>13 First of all, you don't love him.Trust me. You like him a lot, sure.

15 Name: Sleepology !4a6Vun8zuw : 2012-07-25 20:34 ID:lI+s2dVq [Del]

>>14 This.
Also, quit being so damn insecure.

16 Name: BH2 !0jVt1ao7Gw : 2012-07-25 22:09 ID:qRCBdzFl [Del]

i`ve never had a girlfriend so i can tell you im not much help, but i believe that if you don`t want to kiss yet that he will and should understand.