Hi, im sorry this is my first thread on here so please dont yell at me. I was wondering if you could please help me. I used to have two really good friends, recintly they left me for the popular girls. Im not sure why, it might be that I like anime and video games so Im different then the other girls in my school or because im shy. Im not sure really but now all my friends are guys, they are nice but I feel lonely. Even though the guys respect me we dont talk much. I really dont have many friends anymore. Again let me just say I am super shy, its gotten worse lately.I am getting some help on how to start conversations and things like that but I dont know why they left me or why I dont have many friends. What do you guys think of all this? Sorry by the way if I kept saying the same things over and over...

Listen sora,I can tell by just reading this that youre a awesome person with a good heart,so just try to break out of your shell,take it from someone who has the same problem of being shy,all you need to do is get out there and say something. Just make sure to be yourself,and that goes for the whole guy thing too,be yourself.

Sorry,my name is Kohae not Korea that comment above was from me.

>>1 Grammar. Learn to use it.

Now, basically, what you need to do is suck it up. I don't mean get over it, but when you see someone who shares a common interest, suck it up and say something to them about it. I know it can be rough, I'm actually really shy. But that's what you do. Eventually, you'll really hit it off with someone, and you'll end up really good friends. It's happened to me, so i know form experience.

Maybe try some new clubs or activities at your school! It's a great way to force yourself to meet new people, and can really help with being shy! :)

i know your problem. Had thesame problems in school.
well, but i dont really know how i fixed it..
ok i wasnt really shy but nobody liked me so i was lonly alot..
if you need someone t otalk or just tell all the crap that happens to somebody: crowdevourer-fenriz @ yahoo.com
mail me :3

I am shy too,so don't feel bad. Look me up on chatrooms, or xbox live: hardcore murphy

It's better to have few friends that are good than having more friends that is not loyal. Find a good friend, because truth is they influence you alot bad or good.

This helped me, one of your friends, find out if any like you as in more than a friend. If any of your friends like you talk to them more and start to get closer. Then their friends will become your friends and you'll also get new ones. This happened to me and I hope it helps you. :)

>>8
absolutely agree!!
but be sure that the ones you choose, ARE loyal.
it hurts much worse to ´loose´ someone you thought to be loyal,
than one you can be sure that its temporar inerest..
i know what im talking about..