>>13 "If I wanted EVERYONE to understand what I feel then it wouldn't be personal, then it would be poetry."
If you don't want people to understand what you're saying, don't post it. You're obviously not looking for real advice if you're not even willing to say what you want in a language we can all understand.
It is better-than-thou because of what I just said above. You're putting yourself and "those who understand you" on a pedestal above everyone else, saying that the opinions of "those who don't understand you" don't matter. It is rude, unnecessary, and implies you're on some greater level of thought, which you are not.