>>3 This.
As a younger sibling, I can say that older siblings can be wayy too harsh. So what if she's annoying? One day, you're (probably) going to have a kid, and that kid is going to be just as annoying. But are you going to scream at them and insult them and then whine online that you're afraid they're going to get revenge? No, because by then you would have realized what I'm about to tell you - just because something's annoying doesn't mean you can treat it like shit. Kids younger than you will always be annoying, but that doesn't mean you can act like an ass. Be the better man and don't get involved if she tries to start a fight. Of course she's going to cuss around you and take people away from you - in her eyes, you're an asshole who hates her, and you don't deserve anything. Whether she liked you or not at the beginning doesn't matter now; she's required to hate you, the only sibling she has, and this is her payback for it.
I'm not saying that she's not equally responsible. It's just that you're the older part of this and you need to be the one to take that responsibility and fix this relationship, even if just a bit. I highly doubt she's plotting to kill you; she's just pissed off, and she'll stay pissed off until you both start to put some effort into fixing this bullshit.