*sigh* How do I say this? Oh yeah.
I am so confused.
I have friends and their great friends but they're always pointing out my flaws or telling me to change.
I want to tell them off but...I don't think I have a right.
Any advice?

Maybe change those flaws; your friends are probably trying to help you (though it sounds like they suck at it). Be honest wit your self and take a look if you really do have those problems they talk about.

>>1 Like...mean random hateful thoughts? or constructive critisim?

>>3 Most people can't tell the difference.

>>1 You basically have three options.
1. Ignore them and deal with it.
2. Take their words to heart and look at yourself from a third person's perspective. Maybe you really do have issues? If you do, change them.
3. Stop being friends with them and live with all your possible flaws, hoping someone will blindly look at you like you're God one day.

I suggest 2.

>>4 this ^

That seems like some good advice. Thank you guys. I'll try I really will. Thanks for all the advice. :)