A while ago, I was in a relationship with this amazing girl. She's smart, funny, loves video games and anime/ manga, and extremely cute. I mean cuter than that of the many pictures of little puppies on google :3. We had been only been dating for a few weeks until her dad got ticked off and told her to break up with me. I was sad, and pissed. Not pissed at her OR her dad, because I understand how he would feel about his own daughter going out with some random guy, just pissed.
She's been on my mind all the time ever since the break up... I waited for about a week to see if her dad had cooled off (He's a single parent) and I asked her out one more time and she said no. That was it for a while until she said we could hang out a while later.
I kinda don't know what to do... Should I just forget it and burn the thought of being with her? Can anyone give a bit of advice? Plees and tanks.

Depends, I'm guessing your a good boy. Wouldn't do anything too bad to the girl so maybe;

Try to speak to her father. Be y'know.. respectful and use your manners. Try to convince him that your not going to harm her in anyway or uh.. mess with her mind? I don't know. Just like... Talk to him and find out the problem; if it's something you can help him over, by all means do it.

Forget about it.
Daddy drama is a whole mess you don't want to find yourself in.
Trust me.
Dads are weird.

I am curious though, why is her dad so mad at you? I agree, hard to pursue a relationship if the parents are against you. But if you truly really want her, then go for it!

I agree with them ^ . If you really like her and she likes you I think that you can make it work, but I also agree on the fact that you should probably talk to her father. I mean. You can't do anything about it if you don't know what the problem is, right?

I think you should continue trying to pursue a relationship with her. The truth is parents, especially dads with their daughters, tend to be overprotective and don't immediately trust the person their daughter is going out with. Try being polite and civil as you can toward her dad. Maybe it's just he believes the two of you are too young to be in a relationship (assuming but I could be wrong). And like Shometsu said talk to him and find out the problem.

>>4 I don't think he's mad at me, he's probably just being protective.

>>5
>>6 The problem is, I can't talk to her enough to be able to find out if she really likes me. And also, like what 3 said, I don't wanna piss her father off and make the situation potentially worse.

I'm gonna to go for it, but I need a way to talk to her AND her father. This girl is just too beautiful to pass up.

"I'm gonna go for it, but I need a way to talk to her AND her father. This girl is just too beautiful to pass up."

Do you like her for who she is, or are you lusting for her body? If you're honestly willing to put her in a troubling position with her father, I highly doubt you have any "love" for her. It's not right to force her to make that kind of position after both she AND her father rejected you.

>>8 Did you not read the OP? Of course I like her for who she is. Also, I knew trying to work things out with someone could inadvertently cause stress to someone that's equally part of the situation. The reason she rejected me is BECAUSE HER FATHER SAID to break up with me.

>>9 Yes, I did read it, but it doesn't sound like you honestly like her if you can put her in this situation. How do you know she rejected her because of her father? He may have broken you up in the first place, but how do you know that she hasn't grown away and started looking at other people? It's not your place to put her in a compromising situation with her father, either way, and it only makes it seem that you are rude, immature, and do not care for her feelings if you're willing to do so.

Dude. You have to ask? She sounds perfect! Get her back, man. Doesn't matter how. She must still want to go out with you unless her father has a kind of hold over her decisions. All the more reason to convince her. bottom line: She's one of a kind. GET HER BACK!

It's really nice that you found someone worth fighting for. I'm not saying that my views on this are right, but it's just an opinion..

It hurts me to say that it sounds little like there is nothing you can do about it. I mean, it is what it is. Her dad for some reason has gotten it in his head that she shouldn't, it sounds to me like she's trying to respect that. this isn't some fantasy where you can sweep her off her feet and save the day, But you can for the time being let her know that your still there for her.
I kind of agree with>>11 if you care for her then show it. =) you should be there for her and show her you're willing to stand by her when shit hit's the fan. It comes down to this:

How long are you willing to wait for her?


I hope that helped pal... if anything I said was wrong, I'm sorry. but I'm sure you're strong enough to do what has be done =)

>>10 So you're saying If I like her, I should just fuck off and leave her alone? What's the point of being with someone if you can't fix a problem together? It makes perfect sense that I care for her if I try to be with her after being broken up by her father.

>>11 I know she wants to respect her dad, and I respect him just as much, but I want to prove to him that I wouldn't do anything to hurt her. Better yet, protect her like any good boyfriend should do. I've been waiting. And I'll wait as long as it takes. I just need to show them that.

Patience is a virtue they say.

>>14 If that's what you know you have to do as both a man, and a person of honor, then have confidence get it done! it sounds to me like you already know what you have to do, so, I know it's not as simple as it sounds, but get it done! =) But you already know all of this. don't you n.n What's holding you back?

>> Fear. Probably, fear is what's holding me back. But nonetheless, I need to do this fast.

>>17 Go get her, pal

And don't kick yourself in the teeth if it does not work out. Obviously if her father is intervening it is clear both of you are still young; young enough to still find plenty of chances to find somebody.

That said, absolutely give it another shot. You will regret it in your post teenage years if you do not.

Is it too late to reply? My condolences. U^U

Oh. idk why i posted on here...

OHHHHHH. yeah okay, so talking to her father? um...about what? and my suggestion would be to build up trust and respect with her father. You don't want to be on the same level as him, that might be....kinda challenging and cocky? Just be a young gentleman like yourself. If you go out with her and make a promise to bring her back at 9, then you bring her back early. Not AT 9, at 8: 30 or 8:45. and now im thinking of something else, so have fun with whatever i was going to say. :V doop

why does her father not want you to see her?

well we think it best if u get move on and wait for awhile then ask her if her father has calm down a bit or u can ask her to let u visit her father and then get to know him better.

Go for it! :) just not too fast. I know you think she's worth it and all and it's great that you want to fight for her but also put into consideration the feelings of her dad! However since you truly believe shes worth fighting for, go for it! Just don't do anything too rash :D we'll be cheering you on!

I'm not really sure what to say here. Do the people who surround you think that youre a dork or are there two opposing factions?
also >>2 lol, Doucheballoon. Im gonna use that, if you dont mind.

whoops, disregard what i just said, wrong thread, sorry.

Try talking to her dad abuot it and let him get to know you

Thanks for the advice n stuff. It's appreciated! :)

Well try to get to know the dad. Try spend some time with him and try to show him that he can trust you with his daughter. After you can tell him that if you don't take good care of his daughter, then you'll never come near them again. That will show how serious about this you are. I hope that helped.

Did you ever get a reason why he objected to you? If you have the opportunity to talk to her dad directly, preferably alone, I'd say you should go right up and (politely) ask him why he objects to your relationship. If he thinks you're too young, find out when he'd consider the possibility and see if you're willing to just stay friends that long. If he has some misconception about you, just talk to him, honestly, about yourself until he sees the mistake. If he has some sort of personal problem with who you are (racism, religious differences, whatever), you can try to convince him of the error of his ways but I don't envy your chances. Do not lie to him or try to trick him into letting you be together; he's got at least three times as much experience in spotting a lie as you do in telling them, and that'll give him a reall reason to not like you.

And remember, this isn't some romantic comedy movie. Don't force her to choose between you and her family, because you *can't* support her on your own and she'd regret it anyway. Don't try some crazy dramatic scheme to "prove" your love for her. Just do what you can to talk him into allowing one normal, innocent date, and them make sure that all the things he's afraid of don't happen. Take things slowly and try to be rational.

once again sounds exactly like my recent ex except it was her mother who hated me. worst of all her mother is knowingly letting her date another guy and lets her hang out in his room just because he's religious. so im pretty pissed too. but i cant do anything about it, its how things are and i cant change them. so i moved on. i picked up my feet and acted like a man. shes like my sister now and i tell her almost everything. I love her still but i have accepted the fact that shes never coming back. The guy shes dating now is afraid of me. and for no reason too i put my hand out and said "I'm her ex, its nice to finally meet you" he just said "Yeah" and walked away. and she tells me he fears me. i cant deny it makes me laugh a bit. anyway if she loves you she'll come back to you if she doesnt just remain friends. its no good just to throw away a good friendship over something dumb like bad blood between ex's