>>2 whoa, Zero. Calm down. I believe that was a simple intellectual question, not meant to be a declaration of war against consensual marriage.
>>1 as for the topic at hand, I dont usually agree with it but for the sake of argument, I'd like to state that I do believe it's possible to grow to love someone. Now, if your being forced to marry an abusive D-Bag, then break it off. If they're a decent person and you aren't in love with anyone else, you might be pleasantly surprised.