There's a girl I know. For some reason, I cannot forget about her and any feelings I had towards her. Can anyone come up with suggestions as of how I can just learn to let go?

every time you start thinking about her, just remember how sad it makes you and eventually you'll stay away from thinking about her

>>1 Damn. I know all too well how you feel dude.

>>1 dude. I kinda know the feeling. there was I boy I knew, loved him more then anything or anyone. We broke up when he moved away. He got really hurt in a long distances relationship and couldn't handle going threw that again. He never talked to me again. Never contacted me. I tried to contact him once. He never replied back. When friends tried to talk to him about me he would change the subject. I haven't felt the same about anyone the way I felt about him. Its been about..... five or six years I think. I'm still in love with the person I once knew. He's probably grown up and changed. But you know what. You can't let that effect your life. If something was meant to be it will work out. If not, then when you find the real thing it will be that much greater. I'm sorry it didn't work out for you, but you got to keep moving on. Try to think about her. And try to be happy with your life as it is ht now, and always work toward a better future.

I have to say, thanks for the help guys. It's nice to know I'm not alone on this.

think about her always... soon enough you'll struggle on remembering her. think about her so that you get immunity from the pain.

>>1 I know that feel, bro.

I've got the same pain dude. And as meteor said, always think about her, For, if you can't let the feelings go, why would you want her gone...

The problem is, what if she doesn't care about me? What's the point in trying to love her if she doesn't want from me?

tell us a bit more about her? Is she a current friend? Is she someone you once knew and now you two are apart from each other but you can't get over her? etc. Also, you never know unless you try. tell her how you feel! I missed my chance of telling the person I loved that I loved him. And it became to late. I know nothing about him now. Don't make the same mistake.

>>10 I just wanted to ask the same question.

>>10 I guess you can say she's a current friend. We have been friends for around three years or so. I did have a crush on her during the first year, at which point she rejected me. Eventually, we managed to become close friends. However, I always felt like she was avoiding me and vice versa. Earlier this year, we began to talk less. As in, barely any conversation like before. I would say what I truly think, but I fear of any future consequences if I do.

Well u c she must have like someone else and beside she and u hav been good friends 4 3 years and never expected u to confessed to her and she's nervous that's y she advoiding u

>>13 I guess you are right about that. Best if I just try and stay friends with her.

Maybe try confessing again, her feeling could've changed in the 2 years since she rejected you. If she rejects you again stay friends with her and maybe try to find someone else.

>>15 Trying to stay friends with someone who won't take "no" for an answer would be annoying (coming from a girl's POV).

>>1 I suggest just moving on - there's no special trick to it. You can put the pictures of her away, don't try hard to become friends with her, and just go on with life.

>>16 Don't try hard is exactly what I mean, but let me elaborate. If she still wants to be friends with you, the two of you will come together eventually. If she doesn't, and you keep pushing yourself on her, she'll probably feel even more uncomfortable around you.

I think it's best if I just move on. If I continue to let myself suffer, what's the point? Besides, she isn't technically the best of people in the first place...

>>18 And I totaly agree with you there. Sometimes we have these silly crushes on people but when were compleatly honest with ourselves we realize that they arent what we thought they were. Don't worry bro! You'll find the right girl, it usually takes 10, 20, 30 or even a hundred girlfriends till we find the right one; just be sure to make sure she is the right one!

>>It would get pretty annoying if the same guy kept coming up to you and after you said no so manytimes.
>>1 I would have to say move on if now she seems like shes avoiding you then go and find some one else.