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relationship problem -_- (15)

1 Name: snow : 2012-06-02 09:00 ID:xuxHrwDI [Del]

i already told the guy i like him and hes still 'unsure' and i really want to know what he thinks of me... is there anything i can do? ;_;

2 Name: Falcon : 2012-06-02 14:08 ID:GtrUKLgp [Del]

I wouldn't suggest doing anything more, if you've already told him. Asking him over and over again if he likes you back isn't going to do anything but irritate him. Just wait, he'll tell you when he's ready to. You have to give him time; one of the worst things that happens in relationships is when someone tells someone else they like them, and the person who's been told hasn't considered it and has to think about it all right when they're told. Then they'll go into the relationship forcing themselves to have feelings because they didn't think about it first. So, it's probably a good thing he's thinking about it first, because that means his decision will be genuine.

3 Name: shy girl : 2012-06-03 14:16 ID:zoG19fbT [Del]

hello the snow
umm i was in the same situation a few months ago i told me crush i
i told him i loved him in march and he didn't give a reply
and then ALOT of days later (on the last days of April)he said yes i do like you.

one of the things you could do is not to panic on what he thinks of you.
the second this is to keep talking like you do to the guy like normal.
the third thing is when you feel confident when talking to him
(i had a bit of trouble talking to my crush)you ask him out again.

good luck snow

4 Name: shy girl : 2012-06-03 14:21 ID:zoG19fbT [Del]

oh yeah and if hes shy or shy about love then it will take more time for him to tell you his feelings.

5 Name: snow : 2012-06-03 18:15 ID:xuxHrwDI [Del]

>>4 btw im a guy so yea

6 Name: Kanra : 2012-06-04 09:29 ID:sCK20sZx [Del]

Don't wait for him forever. If he takes to long. Move on.

7 Name: Uragiri no Yuuyake : 2012-06-04 17:15 ID:HOA/9eoX [Del]

You can't change peoples feelings. If he returns your feelings, that is wonderful, but if not, don't hold onto unrequited love, it just hurts. I know, I deeply loved a girl for 2 years and she never returned that love, only used it to her advantage and then betrayed me.

8 Name: saati : 2012-06-04 22:37 ID:JdVPAxCg [Del]

Your going to hell you faggot!

9 Name: HanHann : 2012-06-04 23:40 ID:V0NYYSSS [Del]

'>>4 btw im a guy so yea'

^ what? o.o if snow is a guy... and snow confessed to a guy then.. EH?? OAO

10 Name: BarabiSama!!C8QPa1Mt : 2012-06-05 03:13 ID:D6bFmwLS [Del]

>>8 >>9 Screw off, douchefucks.

>>1 Don't push him. If he wants to be with you, he'll tell you. Make sure you tell him you're not going to wait forever.

11 Name: sleepology !CHs4eVJ3O2 : 2012-06-05 03:36 ID:lI+s2dVq [Del]

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12 Name: Mayu : 2012-06-06 08:01 ID:rdYHMR6C [Del]

>>10 I agree with what you said to 8 and 9. >>1 Im glad you found some one to love and I hope he treats you well and I hope he loves you back as much as you love him. Good luck Snow

13 Name: Leigha Moscove !9tSeSkSEz2 : 2012-06-06 11:26 ID:xU3elg0E [Del]

Give him time. Go with him to the movies or something every once in a while. I hope he's good to you.

I pretty much agree with what Barabi said to 8 and 9. I would've said "fucktards" though.

On a side note, and I know I'm going to get shit for asking this. If you and him did go out, who'd be the "woman" in the relationship? I'm always curious, okay? I mean no offense. Most of my friends are gay, and so I personally like gay couples. It's kind of hot on a side note. I'm just overly curious. I should shut up now. Nothing good could come with this last paragraph. I'm keeping it here though, because I want to know.

14 Name: snow : 2012-06-06 16:58 ID:xuxHrwDI [Del]

>>13 Don't worry i have no problem with you asking whatever you want. I, as my personal preference would not so much be the woman because im bisexual, but definatly the bottom. :3

15 Name: Link : 2012-06-06 20:25 ID:mrHpPYMt [Del]

What i would figure from experience is if they take to long, it means they dont like and there not sure if its the right thing, or personal troubles.