I consider myself a peaceful person. Because of work, which I am leaving in August, I have been unable to try and meet new people and date regular girls like I want to.

Anyway, here's the dilemma. During work I met a girl that I've had strictly sexual relations with for the past few months. The two of us are constantly dealing with high risk situations (she got shot at with a nailgun on my day off) and it was just a way to keep in touch with humanity. The sex was hollow as far as I knew. I told her I was leaving in August and starting my life over. She was okay with it when I told her, but then got angry and said I couldn't leave because the job was part of me now.

In my attempt to return to normal life and start over, I asked a girl at a Freebirds I frequent out on a date. She seems like a regular, nice girl and I want to give that a shot. The girl I work with is claiming that she's ending her contract in November and that I need to help her when she's out. I don't know if she wants to start something or if she's trying to get me to second guess my decision.

Anyway, I have an idea as to what I want to do but I would like to see what you, oh Dollars would do in this situation. I think it's an interesting topic and I'm sure at least Leigha Moscove has an opinion somewhere in there.

I wouldnt trust the girl you had the sexual relationship with she could end up hurting you. That other girl seem nice I would recommened as im sure most will to go with her.

I think you should settle things with the girl from work before you go for the new one. You'd probably make it easier for yourself if you get into a relationship because you want to not because you feel obligated to. Sorry, if I may be misinterpreting your problem. Hope things work out for ya.

>>1 I had read it, but I wasn't going to comment. Despite popular belief I don't always state my opinion of a thread. I'm confused. Was that last sentence asking for me to give you my opinion or not? If you want it I'll tell you, but I wasn't really going to because I'm sure it's going to be said many times.

>>4

Go ahead. I'm bored and want to hear from you and others.

A relationship with your coworker is always a bad idea, and a sexual relationship can't turn into something more. Once you have a strictly sexual relationship, you guys pretty much can't respect or love each other the way you wold in a normal relationship. I'm kind of curious what your job is for her to say that the job is part of you now. You don't have to tell me if you don't want to. It makes me even more curious that she needs your help to end her contract. Either way, she's being extremely hypocritical saying you can't quit the job, but she can.

My advice is you leave the girl you work with and girl the Freebirds girl a shot. As I have already said, there is no way there can be trust, love, or respect in a relationship that has started out as a strictly sexual one. It sounds like that you're asking out this Freebirds girl jut because you want to start over. Do you like her like that? If you don't then you shouldn't ask her out, but if you do then you should.

>>6

My job requires the workers to sign contracts stating that we will stay with the organization until our debt is paid. On the event of our death, the debt is paid and what remaining money that we may have earned in our tenure is given to the surviving family. While I won't go into specifics about what the job is, it is a hard one that requires tough decisions and can be incredibly high risk. Part of the reason the two of us got together is because of the adrenaline rush felt from some of the things that happened to us.

As far as the girl from Freebirds in my hometown, I know nothing about her. I asked her on a date for when I come back next week to take care of my people. She doesn't know what I do and neither does my family. I try to keep them in the dark about these sorts of things.