Well, I feel this couldn't hurt and I am interested in suggestions people may make.

I would say it has been a month since my ex-girlfriend ended our relationship. For awhile I fell into depression and have recently come out of it.

Now. I still have feelings for her and want her back more than anything. I could very well move on and possibly find someone else if I tried, but I just don't want to. I end up sitting in classes becoming side-tracked thinking of her, which happened when we were dating anyways; except now, it no longer makes me happy or brings inspiration.

I don't want suggestions on how to get over her, but on how I could possibly have her back in my arms.

I understand it may be hard without knowing why she broke up with me.
All I will say is that her mother constantly spoke down about me to her, pointing out everything that is wrong with me and the many reasons she should dump me. Her being in a relationship with me caused a lot of drama in her life that she didn't need.

If she would give me another chance I would try to make her parents like me and do everything I could to make her life carefree and happy...

>>1 I have no suggestions for you. Do you know how annoying it is when an ex asks you out? It's rude, and it's improper. It shows that you are immature and cannot even get over a single relationship. Chances are, both she and her parents will dislike you more if you ask her out again. If she does agree to go back out with you, the chances of it ended in disaster are ten times worse than they already were.

Plus, you said that you brought drama to her life. If you love her, why would you want to bring drama back again? Stop trying to put her life on pins and needles for your own hormonal, selfish needs.

Just get over it. Stop being immature, and accept that it's just one relationship. There are plenty more fish in the sea; instead of being dramatic how she's the only one for you, put some effort into getting over her, and then move on. Unless you want to get heart broken ten times over, quit her while you can.

>>2 That's a real slap in the face. Thanks, I needed it.

>>3 You're welcome.

>>2 It could be worse. My ex asked one of my friends out the day after I broke up with him. She said no, but he still came up to me that day saying he already has another date. He then continued to ask out two of my other friends until one of them said yes. The only reason why she said yes is because she's a nice person and doesn't want people to hate her. You do have a point though. The OP should get over her.

>>5 My friend's ex did that =o= He used to be nice, but then he went douchebag mode the second she dumped him. First he stalked her, and after we got the police on his ass, he instead asked every single girl out in our grade. Literally. No, I'm not making this up. He then proceeded to cheat on each and every girl who actually said yes, and he would purposely bring them to his ex's (my friend's, since she's stupid enought invite him) parties to make her annoyed. He thought she would get jealous, which she didn't. Now he's in high school, playing football like he's some star, and all us girls are like, "Ew, he's such a fucking pervert. Can't he stick to one girl? I heard he's stll trying to get [x] back. Can't he just get over himself? He's so creepy."

Because he is.

Anyway, sorry for derailing this thread. If anybody else has got input, don't be afraid to put it up there. I just think asking her out again will end in disaster :|

>>5 Working on it. That's a really douchebag move by your ex. Either way, this has been resolved. Just let the thread die.

Alright :O

This thread is resolved. Until further notice from the OP, please do not comment on it unless you have a similar question.