Um, so I have a really bad problem. I have a friend that I've known since the summer of 5h grade and since then we've been good friends. He later this year asked me out for he had feelings towards me. I wasn't too sure. I thought about it a few days until some drama began to rumble when his younger cousin butted in and messed everything. So Since then its been sort of awkward. He later, a few months ago, asked me for my answer. I told him that I was sorry and that I don't share the same feelings towards him. I actually love my other friend that his been so kind and wonderful to me. After that, everything went sorta back to normal. (At the time I felt like if I was in an anime. xD) Oh and so a few days ago we had a end of the year field trip that he and I and some of my friends we able to attend. On that trip he was telling my friends how much he loves me and why. But strangely, he has never said anything to my face about it. He told me not to look for my friends for he knew they were going to tell me what he said. I still went looking for them out of pure curiosity. I found one of my friends and she told me what he said. I smiled a little and told her that it was sad that I didn't like him that way. So then another one of my friends came over and she told me that he wanted to come over to my house so he could ask my parents when my birthday was so he could sing to me on my 15th birthday and watch me become a woman. This may not seem as bad as it sounds like to some of you but here is why I have a problem with this.

1. I don't really know him all to well
2. He wants to come over to my place where there are two girls in the house
3. He wants to "watch me become a woman" and that sounds very, very creepy to me.
4. He won't give up on me no matter what
5. He said he LOVED me. Sure being liked liked is fine but LOVED is just not the type of word used in my grade
6. He is obviously obsessed with me since he is talking about me 24/7 with all my friends and is always clinging on to me
7. He's not my type AT ALL
8. He might start stalking me

I'm not very comfortable around him anymore and I now try to avoid him as much as possible. Me and my friend are planning to to fake a boyfriend so he can get off my back but I'm not too sure. I think I might have a future stalker on my hands. Can anyone help? Plus I'm scared that he might do something to my other friend that I like if he found out about my crush. I'm reaching out to the Dollars to help me. So far I've been avoiding him but sooner or later he's going to try and face me. Someone help please!

If you feel that he will do something bad to you, try to avoid him. I don't want people who are doing the same that bad people do.

You need to confront him and tell him. If you keep avoiding him you're just going to be another bitch that is out for herself and herself only. Stop being purely self aware and start being aware of what he might feel about you avoiding him.

You've know him since fifth grade and hardly know him?

lolwat?

You're turning 15 so I assume you guys are around the same age, if that's the case you both are just being silly little kids.

Confront him. Tell him to drop it because you aren't interested and will not be. Do this at school with people around on the off chance he is a weirdo.

Plus he might cry, lulz for everyone.

He thinks that a girl's 15 year birthday is a day they become a woman? He sounds Hispanic from that. I've studied Hispanic traditions in school a little and people in mexico do the whole whatever its called (i can't spell it). Odd.

Just tell him that you're not interested in him, he should just move on, and that you have ANOTHER LOVE INTEREST THAT YOU LIKE.

i know... how you feel.... well, sort of. when i was in seventh grade this little sixth grader came up to me, saying i was his first love. i thought, oh, okay, sorry but i don't feel that way about you (didn't even know his name). i thought he got the hint and then he was walking me to class and trying to walk me home... he actually said, "i tried to draw you, but i couldn't get your hair right because it's too perfect". sounds cute, but it was kinda creepy.
>>5 telling someone to back off and that youre not interested doesn't work as much as you think and hope it will.
i say, you should confront him, but also make sure it's through his head, your friends heads, and anyone else who may be involved that you do not want him there (try saying it in a nicer way though) X3