Hey, I'm new, watched durarara and thought I'd look if the dollars website actually exists. lucky me to find this place. Anyways, there is this girl i grew up which i like at the moment, actually i think i might love her. we always hanged out in the past but nothing happened until a year ago. We kissed, and it was not that good, but i still really really like her. we haven't spoken to each other after the kiss. I finally built up the courage to visit her like 2 months ago and to my surprise she is pregnant, after our meeting, i thought hard about weather i should still pursue her. She and the to be are not really on talking terms... is it worth it to pursue her? or am i just chasing a broken dream?
If you're willing to be that kid's father, then why not? If you still like her and she likes you, then that's that. But if you're not mature enough to be a father and intend to persuade her to give up the kid, then fuck you, no. It's all dependant on that factor, as far as I can tell, as well as whether or not she's still interested in you.
oh okay cool, thanks. It's just that i would feel sorta guilty for taking the kids father away from him. like braking up what could be an awesome family
>>6 So he is in her life. Are they together? Is he a bad person that would provide an extremely negative influence? Because if not then in my opinion you should not try pursuing her.
If you love her, you'll want her to be happy. It hard to give up on someone you love, and its hard to see them with someone else, but if she is truly happy then let it be. If she is unhappy you should be there for her, comfort her like the friends you are. But don't try to take her away from her husband/boyfriend. If you love her, then think about what she would want and whats best for her.
