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Does age matter in love? (16)

1 Name: SikadoSan : 2012-05-12 15:32 ID:Ox0lqUV9 [Del]

I understand there is a limit. But I am 18 and my girlfriend is 16, we have been together since November of last year. And we honestly love each other. But her mother is trying to make false accusations just to get us apart. She is a very terrible person. Let me know what you think about this?

2 Name: Kaori !!zEnInHNI : 2012-05-12 15:54 ID:coMofNJd [Del]

Dang it, I need to do my math, stop writing peoples! >:O

Otherwise, i think your relationship is fine. I mean people don't see it so badly when you're like 34 and she's 32. It's completely normal. But her mother obviously still feels like she's her little girl and doesn't want her to rush into life. Seriuosly, just keep your relationship calm and collected, and don't do the nasty when you reach the age of adultiness. It means you would be doing statutory rapey time with her, and that's illegal. But still, Do your math, and be responsible with your choices. If you really love her, you would make choices that would benefit both of you, and or take from both of you.

A very nice lady once told me about her son (who is in the same kind of situation as you) that if it's true love, then it can wait. Different context because his gf left and wanted him to move with her, but it's still relevant in a way. Hope you make the best of all decisions. :D

3 Name: SikadoSan : 2012-05-12 16:08 ID:Ox0lqUV9 [Del]

>>2 Thank you, it means a lot to me. And we are making the responsible decisions about it. But her mother was only trying to make these accusations because her husband tried to molest my gf and she said if she told the cops that I would be put in jail.. So we are pretty shook up and lost about it all. I am just waiting till she is old enough so we can move out of the states.

4 Name: sleepology !CHs4eVJ3O2 : 2012-05-12 16:29 ID:uqbh+2UB [Del]

>>3 the mom has major issues.

5 Name: Crisis !JjfHYEcdHQ : 2012-05-12 16:43 ID:bTDBGDdo [Del]

>>3 Actually, check on the laws yourself. We have an age of consent thing here. Like I'm 19, but if my girlfriend is 17, she's within the age of consent and it's legal.

6 Name: Sleepology !4a6Vun8zuw : 2012-05-12 17:05 ID:lI+s2dVq [Del]

>>5 depends on the state

7 Name: Crisis !JjfHYEcdHQ : 2012-05-12 17:35 ID:bTDBGDdo [Del]

>>6 In TN there's the whole age of consent thing, which is why I said to check the laws. I'm not sure what the laws are where >>1 is from since >>1 Never gave us that info.

8 Name: SikadoSan : 2012-05-12 17:44 ID:Ox0lqUV9 [Del]

>>7 >>6 Maybe I should have included that. I live in Toledo Ohio. And I don't know what the policy is?

9 Name: sleepology !CHs4eVJ3O2 : 2012-05-12 18:02 ID:uqbh+2UB [Del]

Google. >>8

10 Name: Lt. Dodger : 2012-05-12 18:22 ID:oY/Si5jd [Del]

2 years doesn't really matter, lol.

11 Name: Samurai SS : 2012-05-21 20:48 ID:nCGDaLQB [Del]

It's alright. I'm making a manga story that one of the parts in the story about a younger boy and a older girl being together (he's 14 and the girl is 17).

12 Name: King Dude !zXqFpoplY6 : 2012-05-21 21:10 ID:v3MRZRtB [Del]

If I had a 16 year old girl that went out with an 18 year old guy, unless you are the physically smallest 18 year old ever or I liked your character, I'd be gunning him down.

The point is if you decide to drink or smoke because you legally can, your girlfriend could potentially start just because of the influence you have on her. Since I do not know you as a person, you won't be having me on your side. Sorry.

13 Name: King Dude !zXqFpoplY6 : 2012-05-21 21:13 ID:v3MRZRtB [Del]

On a side note age does not matter as long as everyone is 18 or over. As long as you are 18 and she is 16, that will be frowned upon.

14 Name: Lakota : 2012-05-21 21:39 ID:KGb5udEw [Del]

Personally the way i think of it, if it's really true love then no age doesn't matter and niether does gender in my opinion. If you really love her, fuck everyone else. YOLO!

15 Name: akai.tenshi : 2012-05-21 22:24 ID:M4G1RMeR [Del]

>>2 Ditto!!^__^

Good luck on your relationship!!if you two are meant for each other or destined to be together, regardless of your age and despite any obstacles, everything will be alright; just hang on tight..having those dilemmas are just a test of your relationship & courage..and it'll cease definitely..^__^

16 Name: sakura : 2012-05-21 22:27 ID:zWE6n9lZ [Del]

yeah,lakota it totally right.As long as it's true love,then nothing matters except for the person you're with