This may sound strange...or stupid, depending on who you are. But...the world seems to hate me. I only have a few friends because everyone else seems to reject me without any reason. I try to be a nice person to random strangers...but they are not nice to me. I only know a few girls who are nice to me as well. I dont know whats wrong with me. If someone could just share a thought or something...that would be helpful. Thank you for your time.

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I don't know. I like you so far.

Well maybe your just not being nice to the right people... Try hanging around other people that seem to kinda be in the same situation as ur in. Just a thought:)

>>3 don't know why but I found it just a teeny bit funny that Umbra mentioned good grammar and you came in with less than good grammar

*you're
I suppose this is just my sense of humor

>>4
Expect not. You're wrong.

I seem to have the same problem dude (I'm just really annoying). But I have my group of friends I like and I'm sticking with them and not caring about stranger's opinions.

I think everybody might feel rejected sometimes. Don't worry.

Here's what I thought (maybe this isn't so helpful but oh well):
First, what is your definition of being nice? Is it to help them while they needed it or being friendly with them?
Second, don't just choose to be nice to random strangers who didn't even know your name! Some of them (I liked being nice to people I don't know) will think you're weird if you suddenly talks like you know them well (sorry, I don't know how do yo do "being nice").
Third, try making friends with those "few girls"' friends. If the "few girls" are nice to, then a high possibility their friends are too!
Fourth, try look for others who had the same interests (clubs, music, etc.) as you did. That same interest will assure you to have a friend who likes to talk about it with you.
I don't know if I'm right, I just liked to give people some advice about their problems :D
Oh, and it's okay to have a small group of friends, I do too

Well the first question I have to ask is who the hell are you anyway?

We've never even met with you before, and you seem to be stabbing yourself with a dagger already...

>>6 >>3 >>5 Thank you!

>>2 Im usually very grammatically obsessed...I was insanely tired when I posted that.

Some people are just different.

I don't have ANY friends, but I'm okay with that.
It's just who I am.

You can't get along with everyone, but I assure you, if you get out there and meet some people, and you want to make friends, you will.
It's just a matter of exposure.

I think I can relate to that, you see my world is only limited to only a few people, and few others. And in those few people, I have my few friends whom I really trust, but I just recently found out that they are all betraying me and ganging up on me. And I must say i'm a bit popular in the school, so they just stick around on me just to steal my other friends from me those who they want to stick around with because those are also popular, then ruins my image to others by telling them false lies.

"Take what u have and keep it and make it your own if you cant git more then your right where u need to be" Live to die i hope this saying helps. I know how it feels i used to be like you till i just lernd to keep what i have and branch out slowly.

hmm,use that and start to think like how izaya orihara would use that to his advantage.thats what i do works for me.^_^

This blog post is very relevant and is hitting Hackernews front pages hard this morning (top of page is no small feat and everyone seems to think this deserves it): http://joethepeacock.blogspot.co.uk/2012/04/thats-why-you-dont-have-any-friends.html

I can see why geeks like me would vote it up nearly a thousand times -- we were all weird back in school. Many of us share your unfortunate story.

You are not alone. The world is not as bad as you think.

I really only have 1 person in my life who knows me, who I can trust 100% and who will always be there. Then I have about 5 people who I can trust but they don't know me really at all.
It's fine. Loneliness gets at me a lot. Other times I enjoy having nobody around me. *shrug* Sometimes if you have one person, you don't need 80 others. Remember, with friends, it's all about quality, not quantity.

Smile! The world's not as bad as you think! =)

Thank you again for all of your advice and such.

bumping saged off

Time for me to be a fucking hypocrite. If everyone thought that everyone hated them, then that would imply that everyone was judging everyone else. If everyone was judging everyone else then that would imply that everyone was watching everyone else. If everyone thought that everyone was watching them, then that would be impossible. So, you are being egocentric.

Your thought process implies that everyone cares enough to bother hating you. Yea, some stupid people are like that, but the wiser people out there don't give a fuck. As long as you give them no reason to hate you, they'll leave you in peace, or talk to you if they decide that they like you.

Don't get me wrong. I'm not writing this to hurt your feelings or pride or anything. I'm just saying that you need to drop this paranoia about everyone hating you. If they do, then ignore them, but there are a lot of people out there that are just neutral towards you because they don't know you that well. Then there are also people out there that like you. For starters, I don't hate you. I don't know you well enough to judge you. I'm neutral.