Okay, first off, I'm Jessi. And so here's my biggest problem of the week. I've been wanting to date this guy, Chris, for about 2 years and we finally started dating, right? I should be happy which I was for a while but, then he cheated on me. We were seperate for a few months but then he talked me into forgiving him and so were back together again. Thinks that the end? YEA RIGHT!! So there's this girl, Ally, who has been there for me all through this process, even when I was at my worst (which has gotten pretty bad, might I add) as I have been there for her aswell. And so I've started to notice how I always want to be around Ally and very rearly around Chris, and I'm always thinking of her and how she's there for me and how I want to be the one she calls in the middle of the night just to fill the scilence of the night. I've even been tempted to kiss her once or twice (yes I'm bi, get over it) and so there's even times when I'm with Chris and I close my eyes and envision I'm with Ally instead. Am I just cunfusing my feelings as a strong friendship? I mean not to mention she's straight, PLUS totally obbssessed with this ASSWHOLE who practically broke her heart about three times! I have no Idea what to do!! I'm dating a guy I've liked for years, while wishing I was with the girl with all the bo problems. I swear! you could make a soap opera out of my life!!

If she's straight, then there's nothing you can do but suck it up, sorry. But still, Chris cheated on you, and you don't want to be with him, so honestly, you should probably break up with him. And that's about all you can really do in this situation.