hello my fellow dollars! ok i need advice, so here's whats going on. i have a friend who basically goes though guys like tissues, but that's not even the beginning of it! all of these guys are jerks, they will do something and brake up with her she will still love him he wants her back she goes out with him once again, an example of this would be that once there was a this guy and his name was Matthew, anyway he cheats on her and no matter how much i told her to drop him she would claim "no he loves me!" then he broke up with her so then she claimed "i never liked him!" then they got together again he cheated on her called her a whore AND pressured her for sex and she still claimed "he loves me and i love him!". on top of all that the guys best friend said he loved her she got together with his best friend and said "Matthew deserved it!" now she is also fighting with her cousins and like 2 other girls about some guy who asked them all out but he decide to spread rumors about her but she still wants to date him!. this has happened multiple times with different guys then she complains about it. and its starting to annoy me but i have no idea how to tell her about how annoying it is and how its all her fault for following the same path over and over! my problem is i have no idea how to tell her because i don't want to hurt her feelings! that's what im asking you all, how can it tell her with out hurting her?

Your friend is too immature. She needs to grow the hell up. That's all there is too it.

Well I'm not really experienced with this sorta thing. But it seems that this is a lesson that she might have to learn herself.
The best thing I think for you to do is to be there for her when she's down. If you do want to talk to her about it try not to sound self righteous but be as loving as possible.

Hope this helps

>>3 This won't get her to stop at all. All it's going to do is make her feel like it wasn't her fault at all, when it was.

i agree your friend needs to grow up its her fault and she shud know when a guy i using her

I had a friend who would do the exact same thing. I don't really talk to her but i wanted to help her out so bad. She just wouldn't accept it. Telling her to just grow up will hurt her feelings. I think telling her that there IS a guy out there that DOES really love her, she just hasn't met him yet :) It's not her fault she wants somebody to love her, guys

>>6 Whether or not it will hurt her feelings doesn't matter. If she keeps this shit up, it sounds like she'll never learn and they'll get hurt a whole hell of a lot more.

>>6 Forgot to add that it's not her fault that's what she wasnts, but it is her fault that she keeps dating the same losers when she knows what's going to happen, and refuses to accept that she needs to grow up and get to know what kind of person he is before she dates him.