im probably going to get more professional help but
just putting it here for your guys' ideas

SO first off this isnt me this is a friend


she has a girlfriend
but theyve been having relationship problems lately, primarily on communication issues (her girlfriend didnt talk to her to help her when she was having a panic attack)

and shes starting to like someone else
and really doesnt want to be in a relationship right now pretty much

but she feels guilty because her girlfriend, although having communication issues, loves her and tells her how happy she makes her all the time

so
uh
what to do
what to say
help?

"Likes someone else and really doesn't want to be in a relationship right now"

...Dafuq?

Wait wait wait.She likes someone else-but doesn't want to be in a relationship?
Wut....
Please explain this...?

relationships cause her stress.

but the love of whoever shes going out with kinda makes it worth it, but that cant work if she doesnt love her anymore, right?

>>4 If she's not comitted to a relationship, then she shouldn't be in one.
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And not to sound like a dick, but if the reason she doesn't want to be in a relationship is becuase of stress, she needs to grow up before she ever gets into another one.

1. If the stress is because of "drama", she just needs to grow up and get over that now.

2. If it's becuase a relationship is too stressful in itself, she needs to stop dating those kinds of people, because she's obviously getting nowhere. Or the cause could be because there are disagreements. So? ANY relationship is going to have it's rough spots, but you have to be mature enough to sit down with your partner and work it out.

Honestly, it just doesn't sound like she's mature enough to seriously date anyone and be happy.

>>5 This. Also (not to be rude), this sounds like a Degrassi episode.

Bump

>>5 This.If she's not committed to a relationship, she shouldn't be in one.

This is sad, but unfortunately you can not do much. One thing that I know is do not get involve in a relationship unless that person drags you in, even so all you can do is tell her what you see and how you feel about the whole relationship, and maybe open her eyes up a little more. If she does not pick up on what you are saying then you need to step back and have things take it's course. Whatever happens will work out for the best, even if at the time it may be the worst thing that has ever happen to them. Just be there for her when that time comes.