after five years of being in the friends zone im finally in a relationship. now what the hell do i do, this is my first and i have no idea what to do. someone please help me

So cute ^^ well, of course, just be yourself but don't be shy but, don't take it too fast either. Go for small things, hand holding and small stuff. If you have a confident partner then more than likely he/she will probably make the "first move" if not then you'll have.to be the "man" in the relationship.

alright. thank you

Don't be clingy . That's a big issue for a lot of first timers. good luck :D and be yourself !

alright i'll keep that in my mind

Clingy is worst thing you could do xD
But also don't be cold or distant just show enough love to keep them coming back for more..
Honestly, don't be a jerk and you're fine. If that person is in a relationship for all the right reasons, they like you for you and all your quirks and smexyness x3
So loosen up and have fun with it (just wing it ;)

You want advice? DON'T LET HER CONTROL YOU.

I deal with my gf like that... she sometimes makes me do her bidding... It's a little annoying.

Also, never lie to your lady, you can get into a lot of crap that way.

You'll understand the more you're with her what she does and doesn't like. Don't be clingy, but don't be distant. Tell her if you drink and/or do drugs now to get it out of the way. You should try to be the man in the relationship, but don't move too fast, and don't let her move too fast, either. It can kill a relationship. You need to trust her, and she needs to trust you. Never lie unless you want major shit.

That's all I got for now :V I don't know her, so I don't know what kind of crap she will/won't put up with.

man i will never get a girl friend

Be honest
be yourself
and if she stabs you in the back dump her like a sack a potatoes. Oh. And dont do anything to make her do the same to you.
thats about all that can be controlled with these things.
Dont let your shyness hold you back, but dont let your want for love control you.

>>10 No one here is giving pity to you.

Thank you everyone

>>13 you're welcome.

Go with the flow man. Just dont push for anything.... If you have been friends for 5 years and are just now in a relationship, then take time to develop a strong dating relationship.

Good for you!Just take it easy, be nice to her, try taking her on a date everyone once and then, see how it plays out.See what she's like and decide what to do based on that

uhhh wow I was in your shoes roughly about a week ago. just keep cool, and try not to be akward. if you want to tell them something, DONT BE AFRAID TO. trust me, not telling them something has destroyed relationships in my experience.

You used to be friends for 5 years.... sou your sweetheart knows who you are ^___^ relax... don't try to change yourself into someone seeming to be better... that would not be the person your partner fell in love with, ne?

Good luck ^^ and enjoy it!

Be yourself … she already likes you, i meen you were her friend for 5 years. Just act the same as you always have around them.
Good luck :)

If I've learned anything through experience take one piece of advice. The girl is always right. Just agree and go about your business. Also, as above, be yourself. Never change and never give up.

>>18 i been in the friends zone in general, not with her.
>>19 i been in the friends zone in general, not with her.