Like the title says I need help I'm in deep depression... It all started when I whent and visited my sister to help move things to her new house when me and my brother were driving my sister stops infront of us. She walks out and says we have to go I think out great grandpa died and I was thinking oh my god poor grandma. Next thing I know my sister is on the ground crying and when I asked what was wrong she said it wasn't grandpa it was our aunt. I will never forget this day it was the worst day of my life and ever since then people started being rude and calling me names and I slip further into depression. I need help please if anyone is out their please help me
Losing a family member is hard. It feels alot like someone is gripping you very being. I completely understand. Even when it get tough though you have to living and moving foward. Don't listen to what others say. They don't matter, right now what matters is you. You are important to your family and to your true friends. Your may not be here anymore but shes not gone. Shes still all around watching you and your family. She knows that you love her and care for her and she would want tou to be happy and to keep moving forward. She would want you to find happiness and be successful. I'm so sorry for your loss and I understand completely 100% what your going through so if you ever need tobtalk just let me know. Its going to be really hard but I know that you have the strength to keep.moving forward in life and find your own happiness
So I also need help with this... I get depressed alot and when I get depressed I want to distract myself. So when I get home from school and I'm depressed I don't want to do homework I want to do other things. So my grades are plumeting. Any ideas?
Get over it. Everyone dies eventually. Even if it feels like you have nothing left, life will go on. The Earth is always spinning and doesn't stop for anyone. Days will pass, and moping around is just going to make it worse. You'll be left behind while everyone has already moved forward. Yeah there are sad times, but the number of happy times is far more greater.
It's okay to be upset sometimes, but don't dwell over it for too long. Usually, when I'm upset and in a bad mood, I'll take a break from things for a little while by watching a comedy movie or listening to a really upbeat song. Do something that'll make you laugh, or something that you know will cheer you up. It's better to take your mind off those depressing things in the beginning. When you feel that you're ready to think about it deeply, than you can.
-- Courage doesn't always roar. sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, 'I will try again tomorrow.’
Just as the person above said, you need to take a break.
And... "So when I get home from school and I'm depressed I don't want to do homework I want to do other things. So my grades are plumeting"
This I felt before, but then I realized that I'm just using sadness as an excuse to not to do stuff I need to do because I'm lazy. Don't know for you though.
And sometimes, when I feel really sad, I just find myself a corner where I can cry quietly. Then I think about how stupid I am to be crying about something like this when I can actually do something better, like, actually solve my problem. Or think of other positive stuff. But crying simply takes out most of that heavy feeling on my chest.
Just think about how your aunt would have liked you to live your life. I don't think she would have wanted you to live your life in despair. So cheer up, okay? :))))
