Just wondering if relationships need to have disagreements and arguments. My boyfriend and I have a very good understanding of each other and we're passive about anything that we could disagree on. He said we need to have arguments, but I don't understand why. I thought arguments usually break a relationship. If I'm wrong, let me know. Should we find something to argue about or just let things go as they are?

Don't look for something to argue about. That's just stupid. Be grateful that you don't argue. It's a common misconception that fighting means you're close to someone, but it honestly doesn't mean anything. Why look for a fight when all is well? :V

I think he means a playful argument/bickering. I just erased like a long explanation. o_o

>>3 There's no such thing as a playful arguement. There's a difference between playing around and bickering.

Well, if something happens that you think is important and you need to tell him about, then do.It is important to have an argument sometime, but don't let problems build up. You want to prevent them from building up, or that will turn into a big unnecessary argument.