Okay. So at my school, and I'm sure at everyone elses' school, there's ALWAYS a group (small or large) of the "popular" kids.
We all have to deal with their bullshit.
So there's this girl in that group named Nicole.
God,she pisses me off. She likes to pretend shes all-that and that shes soooo pretty.
She looks like a beaver.
Anyway, she wants to play all big and bad, so one day she decides to put a bunch of little sticky notes on my locker that says "Emo" "Go cut yourself" and things like that. Now, I don't cut myself. I mean, I used too, but I stopped. I maybe have long bangs that cover my face and a bunch of highlights in my hair, and the fact that I wear band T-shirts and skinny jeans and band/spiked bracelets with a matching spiked collar-- wait..I'm getting off subject. Damn.
Anyway,so I rip the notes off my locker and go into the bathroom. Guess who was there?
So I say, "What the fuck is this?" And show her the notes.
She just stands there with a stupid bubble-gum popping expression on her face and says. "I don't know."
Ugh, she pisses me off. I just want to punch her square in her beaver face. BUT, there lies the problem.
If I get into another fight this year, I have to go to a Transitional school. I reeeaaally don't want to go there.
And I really don't want to talk to her about it, I can't stand that perfume. Ugh.
Any ideas? Please?

Tell a teacher/guidance counselor/principal. If you can't fight then find someone who can fight for you.

I deal with that same problem, except I still do cut myself and well the girls at my school will flat out said they did it then act like they are glad they did. What bitches!

Did you keep the notes? You should have if you didn't. Also, always have a camera and/or voice recorder on hand.

When you can't tear her apart literally, tear her social life apart ;3 Screw the school. Get her address and go to her house with everything you record and talk to her parents about it (say, at a time when you know she has a club activity). If her parents don't want to believe you, /then/ go to the school. Go to guidance. While guidance is working things out, go to your class principal. Make sure everyone contacts her parents. Make sure a huge fuss is made about it. Make sure they start questioning her friends.

Everyone will give you shit for being a "tattle tale", but you'll feel great when her parents beat the shit emotionally/physically out of her, the school gives her detention and/or sends her to the psychiatrist.

If you're afraid of making a fuss, then just do it back to her. Explain to her, calmly, why is an ugly bitch who needs medication. Follow her around school between classes. Talk to yourself and/or your friends really loud about how there should be a medication for assholicism right behind her and how you feel sad about it - "really, it's a medical problem, you see. Assholicism is something that really needs to be addressed. I feel so bad for assholes... It must suck to have mental retardation. Poor things."

Just drive her completely crazy. It's. So. Much. Fucking. Fun. If she goes to a teacher, share with them the things that you have recorded/whatever, and then ask them, Hm, doesn't seem like she has any evidence, huh? She's probably the one who is lying, right?

Why record stuff? In reality, nobody is going to give two fucks about bullying unless there's evidence.

>>4 why she is*

All and all, though... If you want to avoid a dramabomb like this, just ignore her. (But it won't help anything. Despite what parents like to say, ignoring a situation tends to make it worse, not better.)

>>4 This. Oh God, all of this. I love you so much Barabi. So fucking beautiful.

Go up to her and insult her by telling her everything negative and ugly about her until she has no response or tries to hit you. Then continue insulting her even more until she has a mental breakdown. After that, insult her some more for the hell of it. Or you can do it with a group of friends and make her feel even more bad.

>>9 lol no.

>>10 Er, this.
>>9 The way you said that... no. You sound ignorant. You have no back up plan, and at this point, you sound like you're going to make the OP as bad as the girl she's having trouble with. Plus, you should never insult someone past what they can handle.

You should screw them hard, but don't cum inside. Don't need them to get pregnant on you.

Basically, be a bitch, but once they're thoroughly broken down, leave them alone. You don't want to be responsible for a hormonal teenager's suicide.

Thanks you guys. I'll with everyones comment.

lol my real name in life is riku

If you can get her IP address to me, I can get revenge for you.

Also, try other options too.

-Find an obscene picture on her facebook and forward it to her dad

-Message Meatspin to her facebook account (remember to shorten the link)

Well if you can't beat a little sense into her than I'd say sit back and watch act like it doesn't bother you. I used to have the same problem. One time some girls stole my binder my freshman year and wrote "Freak" "Emo Bitch" "Ugly little shit" ALL over my binder with sharpie. I was so pissed but I knew that if I reacted that they would just get a kick out of it. So I acted like i didn't care. When they would pass me in the halls saying freak as they passed by i would just laugh and say "pathetic" and when they saw that it didn't bother me they stopped. One time this girl, her name was Stacy, came up to me with two of her little friends and basically was cussing me out calling me a freak. (I wanted to punch her in the face but otherwise I would've gotten expelled) So instead I sat there looking bored not saying anything and when she was done I said "Yea, sure. Whatever" and walked away.

I suggest going to a parent, councilor, teacher, etc. about her and perhaps straighten her out. Normally I would tell you to lecture her but I get a horrendous amount of..well..that feeling, that she'll take you seriously. I've been in this situation before, I've been called a stalker and freak by two girls, you need to stand up and tell someone.

ignore her, dont feed the flame.

>>15 So many girls have obscene pictures =o= Some girl from my school put up a picture of herself in her underwear. It was on public, for christ's sake. I wasn't even her friend and I could see it. I never thought of sending it to their parents, though. Great idea ;3

>>18 I'm sorry, but... this has never once worked for me or any of my friends :V It just makes it worse. >>16 had a rare case where it actually was successful, but in general, they get more pissed off if you don't say anything. They try harder. And harder. AND HARDER. Until they finally get a reaction out of you. However, if they're scared of you, they won't do it. If you destroy their life, they'll probably be pissed and then leave you alone, but you'll have such a sense of satisfaction it won't matter.

Nonetheless, ignoring a problem very rarely helps it. Even if it stops, you don't get any satisfaction, and it doesn't make it better. Sure, if it stopped, you're not getting bullied, but nothing is happening to them. I don't agree with that. You do something to me, you get it back tenfold. It's pretty screwy to just let someone get away with it.

>>19 Well, nevermind speaking, but just not reacting in general.

Stand up for yourself, but dont do 50% of the stuff recommended here. It wont help your situation, just makes stuff worse. Report the other people if you have to, just dont let it keep going. Can cause serious dmg

SCREW THE (school) RULES, I'LL GET MY REVENGE!!!! XD

>>22 What? =o=

My advice:
Tell a student couciler or teacher that she keeps doing stuff like this. And try your best to ignore it. People who act like that are asking for a reaction from you. Next time she does that, tell a teacher, then go on with your day like nothing happened. Also, swearing at her will make it worse :/

>>24 I approve! :)

next time you see her tell her that you thought it was hilarious and if she keeps on making fun of you just laugh with them eventually they will stop and be bored with it trust me it work. because back when i was in 9th grade i was made fun of then someone told me to laugh at myself then they would stop and when you get in college no one cares how you look or act

>>4

Barabi may have... overreacted. To be honest, there isn't any need for something so drastic.

I too had bullies when I was going to school. Only when I was on the verge of shedding blood (which is where you almost seem to be at) did we end up sitting on the other side of the counselor's desk. After 15 minutes, the bully and I left the office and then talked to eachother about what transpired. We're cool now. If worst comes to worse, report them and move on. It isn't worth getting too emotionally involved in things like this.

i agree with Nixx, there are many ways to get over this,
1)find coping methods, like playing music, drawing, walking
2)confront the person nicely, like hey how are you? get to know them and if there rude ask is everything ok or leave 3)have someone to talk too, mix these, sorry if it doesnt help, have 1 and 3 the biggest ones, try 2 once if your comfortable and if you dont have many people to talk to then you have the Dollars, take car then!

Barbie, you are always have the best answers. go with barbie

>>29 Barabi*
>>28 How is that going to solve anything? Sitting back and "finding a coping method" isn't going to make the bullies stop. Confronting a bully nicely rarely helps anything, especially when they're this obnoxious. Unless you're talking to someone who is going to solve the problem,

>>27 Unless you have proof, a report won't do shit. My counselor always told me to keep evidence so that I could screw my bullies over later on. If you don't have said evidence, nobody will do anything. They may have a quick talk with the bully, but most bullies will just go "whatever", stop for a few weeks, then continue when they realize they're not actually in trouble.

Why would you wait until you were shedding blood? Maybe you guys think I'm over reacing, but I don't understand how so many of you are OK with just sitting there until it gets to a certain point. Why not end it the second you can, whatever means necessary, and not have to deal with it later? It's just causing you unnecessary botheration.

>>30 Unless you're talking to someone who is going to help solve the problem, just talking to someone won't change your situation. It's great to have an outlet to vent to, but you shouldn't have to deal with those situations in the first place.*

(I somehow didn't finsih that sentence :V)

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I have been bullied by the popular girls in my school before.
So u can
Ignor that girl like nothing happened
Stick some sticky notes on her locker (OvO)
Tell her to stop( does it work?)

Find her outside of school grounds. Wear a mask, and clothes you don't ever wear. ATTACK I SAY. ATTACK.

Really though, just ignore her. Her superiority complex will hit her right back in the face a few years later, and you can enjoy every moment of it then.

Barabisama, you are officially fucking awesome. >>4 This is absolutely wonderful!

The best thing to do is to seek help not just from people with authority but your friends to hard times are no where near as bad when you have others helping you carry the load of every day struggles and in return you can help them to that's what friends do

give her home number an all the pain will go away

>>37 lol, no.

>>30

Every situation is different, I suppose. I won't pretend that there aren't people out there who need a verbal (or otherwise) ass whoopin'. I just prefer to find non-hostile ways of resolving conflicts before resorting to social sabotage.

A:Ignore her/tell someone.
B:(what I would do) Basically what BarabiSama said. Rip.Her.Life.Apart.
The much more fun way, I say.Messing with her will make sure she learns her lesson, as well.I'm not exactly sure how to explain how to do it, but basically, just get in her head and mess it up.

I hate popular girls too but i just roll my eyes and walk away from them. Just don't sink to her level because that means you won't be any better than she is.
I've been in your situations tones of times and the most i could do is avoid (but not run away) and show them i really don't care. Don't let people like her bring you down. Good Luck.

yeahh.. what i said was mostly passive actions to take for yourself, i just had bad experiences with with bullies trying say that i did something wrong and the counciler believing them and it wasnt an evidence sorta thing, its pretty rare though. yeah,, what BarabiSama said at 30 was good.just if you feel like your going to explode, it always will help to fall back on things you like..

well the answers were pretty much displayed.. so just choose. ^^

>>43 What?

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>>44

well, i can't give any advice since they're pretty much given. ^^;;