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Confused (20)

1 Name: Zero : 2012-04-02 10:26 ID:lDB/9Wiv [Del]

*sigh* Ok here's the situation:
MY ex gielfriend really wants to get back together with me but she already knows of my current girlfriend. Now, I posted a thread a few days ago about this situation, but its gotten worse. A LOT WORSE.

You see, my ex wants to get back together because she realized she truly does love me. She said, eaxact words, "Everytime I try to move on, it leads me back to you." I'm seriously confused on this.

I mean, who can I choose?
My ex who I pretty much said so much lovey stuff (even wrote her a song...) that really wants to get back together with me
or
My stay with my current girlfriend of whom i'm the father (not biologically though) of her 1 week old son Cody?

I need help, i'm so confused i'm considering suicide to end it all so that way I can just get away from all the pain. I love them both (and Cody) so much its nearly impossible for me to choose the other.

I'm thinking on sticking with both... be a polygamist...

Can any of my fellow Dollars help me? Please?

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3 Name: sleepology !CHs4eVJ3O2 : 2012-04-02 11:35 ID:VwBtDudc [Del]

If you happened to read my last post on this op, feel free to ignore it. I somehow missed the one section that had a very important detail.
I personally think dont be with either of them.
I cant really do much with the current information, but unless you plan on marrying this teen mom, which is most likely whatll happen in my opinion, you should get out of that relationship.
As for the ex, i would need to know why you broke up in the first place.

4 Name: Chrome !CgbeICNblQ : 2012-04-02 15:44 ID:XK0Wxbt1 [Del]

Suicide is silly. Scratch that option off the list.
Your current girlfriend has a baby? That's heavy stuff. I'm almost 23 and I want NOTHING to do with kids. Respect for that.
Anyways, I agree with Sleep, I wouldn't stick with either. Your ex may feel that way now and I assume she did before you broke up, right? She's your ex for a reason. As with the other girl, it doesn't seem like you really love her, because you have that restless wondering going on.

5 Name: Zero : 2012-04-02 17:27 ID:Fg0FaTQd [Del]

>>3 I do plan on marrying my current girlfriend.

Crisis actually has been adverted.

>>4 Eh, i'm mellowed out now

6 Name: Palmtop Kitten : 2012-04-02 18:13 ID:J82At3Gf [Del]

If your current fiance is having a child then you can't even think of suicide. You now have a kid to take care of because now what ever descicions you make WILL affect you child. If you were to choose to leave your current gf then your child would be born into a broken family and that SUCKS (trust me I know) You can no longer afford to think of yourself now, now all your focus, your love, your time MUST be put into raising your child. Its deffinetly going to be hard but we're all here for you and we know you can do it ^^

7 Name: Sleepology !4a6Vun8zuw : 2012-04-02 18:22 ID:lI+s2dVq [Del]

>>6 its not his kid, the kids already been born, theyre only 15.

8 Name: AnubisTheMuse : 2012-04-02 18:24 ID:f3tRgicf [Del]

I'm slightly confused as to why you are this kid's father. So, someone else got her pregnant and you guys just decided you would be the dad instead?

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10 Name: Zero : 2012-04-02 19:04 ID:Fg0FaTQd [Del]

>>8 no. You see, my girlfriend, Ashley, was drunk when this guy knocked her up. Nine months later, she had her's and mine son Cody. She designated me to be Cody's father since,. come on, every kid needs a father. The man who got Ashley pregnant with Cody is currently behind bars.

11 Name: Olivia : 2012-04-02 19:10 ID:XNgwEi1i [Del]

I think you should follow your heart and in this stuation i would go wth ashley n cody... They need support just like u need love

12 Name: Zero : 2012-04-02 19:17 ID:Fg0FaTQd [Del]

>>11 *high fives* That's what I did.

13 Name: AnubisTheMuse : 2012-04-02 19:30 ID:f3tRgicf [Del]

>>10, Why was she drunk? You guys are 15. *sigh* Kudos to you for stepping up like that. Take care of them.

14 Name: Zero : 2012-04-02 19:36 ID:Fg0FaTQd [Del]

>>13 I never party, she does. BUT she learned from her mistake.

15 Name: Sleepology !4a6Vun8zuw : 2012-04-02 19:46 ID:lI+s2dVq [Del]

Still disappoint.

16 Name: Celty : 2012-04-02 19:48 ID:L9JB3IMm [Del]

You should stay with your current girlfriend because to me it looks like you love her more...DO NOT stay just because of Cody...stay because you love them both. trust me im a girl :)

17 Name: Zero : 2012-04-02 19:48 ID:Fg0FaTQd [Del]

>>15 Why say that? I mean heck, i'm happy to be a father.

18 Name: Zero : 2012-04-02 19:53 ID:Fg0FaTQd [Del]

>>16 I'm staying because I love Ashley AND because I love Cody.
Cody's a cute little kid, I wish i had a picture though to post on here... oh well.

19 Name: AnubisTheMuse : 2012-04-02 20:04 ID:f3tRgicf [Del]

>>18, Stay for the love. If you can genuinely see yourself with these two in ten years and you are happy with this vision then stay.

20 Name: Zero : 2012-04-02 20:05 ID:Fg0FaTQd [Del]

>>19 I'm staying with them alright.