I agree with
>>2, what do you want to hear from us? You should know the answer better than we do. Do you give him positive reactions to begin with?
In other words, do you show your appreciation for him?
It might be hard cause of his actions but if you don't try, he'll never talk to you.
You need to try to understand him cause it's not a "uncurable disease" something is wrong with the social part at home/school or something simliar I think. And I study psychology, social behaviour and stuff like that, well, not that it makes me a "pro" or something.