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I Need some advice Quick (8)

1 Name: Tyler Postu' : 2012-03-21 07:37 ID:xEsCR314 [Del]

One, my spelling is horrible, sorry. im typing fast, ok here is my problem.
Ok, i lost my girlfriend, i love her more than anything, now im been dating this girl for a month, and well i still love her, but im restarting my life, i'm burning all memories, clearing all my wats of thinking, restarting with friends and enemys and i need help because, the girl im dateing is in compleatly in love with me, so much she would kill herself if i told her too. but to start over i have to break up with her, and that might break her heart, she isnt a stabble mind, and im scared. what should i do to break up with her, and if i should. agin sorry for my spelling, im fast typing with my phone

2 Name: sleepology !CHs4eVJ3O2 : 2012-03-21 08:58 ID:9L5JG/U8 [Del]

I think you think way to highly of yourself if you think someone would off themself just if you asked them to.
what is your reason behind wanting to destroy everything that has made you who you are today. Sounds extremely wasteful

3 Name: mei-chan : 2012-03-21 10:45 ID:+YbsrO50 [Del]

if u loved your gf you wouldnt break up, even if ur restarting ur life OR restart your life forget everything and find a new gf.

4 Name: Pandora : 2012-03-21 11:09 ID:4gFb8lZM [Del]

What the other two said. I highly doubt she would kill herself over you. It may seem like it if you think that or just have an ego of an ass(the animal).

5 Name: Celestial Envoy : 2012-03-21 11:32 ID:akBIzEnO [Del]

Well, I saw just get started on changing your life. Eventually she will break up with you when she sees your not the man she loved before. Basically get her to break up with you so it will be easier on her mind (so she doesn't think there's something wrong with her but wrong with you). Sounds kinda shady I know but it's something you could do so she doesn't get so upset about the break up.

6 Name: Terroth : 2012-03-21 17:19 ID:7Bv6768O [Del]

>>1
You cannot simply restart your life... It sounds abit naive I think.
If you really have too do a so called "restart" you shouldn't break up if you love her, you can just take a break IF you most. I don't really get why you've too restart also, to get over your past girlfriend? It's not wise to date someone when you think about someone elese or loves someone elese anymore.

Tell us why you've feel a need to "restart" if you want any more help, cause we cannot advice you much otherwise.
Sorry for sounding so negative about your choice, but I do not simply agree with your current way of thinking.

7 Name: rolling girl : 2012-03-21 18:01 ID:57J2zI9M [Del]

First of all, you can't erase your past.It will follow you wherever you go.There's no running or hiding it.
Also, I HIGHLY doubt she would kill herself. Personally, I think you're taking this too seriously, that and to think she would really kill herself over you, then you must have a humongous ego-please correct me if I'm wrong.
Sorry for acting like such an ass, but, I find it easier to help someone if you don't hold back.

8 Name: Tyler Postu' : 2012-03-21 18:30 ID:ktwPNMgY [Del]

thx, but by restart i meen, cut all loose end, stop my ways of thinking, make a new of myself, i dont realy love my current girlfriend, but i do care for her, im not doing it to get over my old one, but it will help with that, and i didnt mean she would kill her self over me, its an expretion on how much she loves me, from dazi's no longer human. and im not trying to get rid of my past, im trying to make a better future for myself and others, hope i awnserd all your questions. I already done it now, and i told her the truth, she understands and is ok with it. now just have to change the way i think, you know meditate. and sorry for my spelling.