so me and my gf have been dateing for a long time now (she's Bi) and i ask her if she wants to be in a polyandrous relationship. she said "i don't mind. it seems like it would be interesting" so here my problem. i want to do this but i don't know how im gonna find anther girl to fall in love with cus i wont feel right if i cant love both girls equally. ya'get what im saying? well eny way Help and advice wanted. thank you

well, its hard to do this because you need somone els that doesnt mind it, look twords friends, thats we'er love is. me i love two girls, one is my true love, who broke up with me, and is bi, my new girlfriend who i love, but not as much as her, who is bi, i could probly do it, but she would still do it only if she can also be with her current bi bf. witch i like guys as much as the nect guy, but im not gay and me and my gf hate him. so im stuck, and you could be stuck there too. plus its hard, not turning twords one or giving more atention to one then the outher. my advice, good luck

Listen man, trying to rock a harem is a bad idea... Have you seen School Days?

But if you make a three-way relationship work, then more power to you bro... More power to you.

You'll probably develop feelings for the other before you realize it... But two women and one guy? Regardless of sexuality, things could go south, fast. Just a fair warning~ good luck.

>>3 This.

Watching School Days would convince you that this is possibly the worst idea ever.

Yet again, that's an anime. I (personally) wouldn't do this, but you're free to choose. Just don't start another relationship with half-assed feelings. If you're going to do it, you have to be equally committed to both girls.

Quick question, though. What gave you the idea to start a polyandrous relationship?

well me and my gf kinda got a bit bored with the same things over and over agen so an added person would spice things up but i cant bring my self to kiss anther girl if she isent loved equaly and im very committed to the people that i would happen to chose to love so its been difficult trying to find a person for this...some one that my gf can approve of and someone that i can also love.