1 Name: masaomi : 2012-03-11 11:22 ID:/uLhTfYO [Del]
hey guys there's this difference i have to settle. I eather have to give up what i love to do or give up the one i love. because I don't think I can keep loving both of them at once
2 Name: NaeBree !jAUXc1hruw : 2012-03-11 11:28 ID:t9MI4d0z [Del]
How old are you? If youre younger than about 25, my advice would be to give up the one you love. Because, "love" when youre young isnt love, just strong infatuation.
But, just my advice.
3 Name: Leigha Moscove !S3dRf9Ujsk : 2012-03-11 14:41 ID:xU3elg0E [Del]
Give up?
Take this bit of knowledge with you. It is a saying that I made, and I live and die by it.
"The only reason why you don't get what you want, is because you didn't want it enough."
4 Name: Titch !xeaU4pzZNA : 2012-03-11 16:33 ID:rhEjwrGu [Del]
It's not 'giving up' if you are making a choice. Giving up is when you just surrender in the face of effort. :)
Without some context it's hard to give good advice, but personally I think doing what you love is more important than being with someone you love. If you love what you do, you'll love life and yourself, you'll move forward more in life and people will be drawn to you. Loving doing something doesn't require reciprocation or cause stress because of that lack of it.
Loving a person is great, but people come and go. Most people go through a bunch of relationships before they find the right person for them. Moving on is hard and I feel like people shy away from it, but it's something you can get past.
